Shenyang engagement ceremony, the woman is not at home, the man is engaged in Shenyang and the man goes to the woman's house. What should the woman give the man?

Generally speaking, it's 20 thousand. According to your situation, I think you and your husband should discuss this. Generally, the man gives a bride price, such as 50 thousand, and the woman returns 49999 to show fairness (not selling her daughter, but marrying her daughter). Be equal in the future. The last sum of money has not yet fallen into your hands. You can control it. Old people seldom come back.

In fact, I think as long as you like and love each other, all customs are just a form. Discuss it. If you two work together, Have a good life. I don't think other family members will care too much about this bride price custom. What they care about is whether you can be happy or not.

I wish you a happy engagement.