Marriage at the turning point of life

The wheel of time pushes us to grow up, from ignorant children to adults, which seems to be a blink of an eye, but is it really good to grow up? From the word meaning alone, the word "grow up" is lonely and has no radicals. In this life after adulthood, there are two things: making a living and seeking love, making a living and doing things well, and nourishing the flesh to continue life; Seek love and be a good person, enrich and nourish the soul.

People are all lonely souls. They want to find the soul that the other half can talk and get along comfortably all their lives. Marriage has become a turning point in life. In April, the northwest spring is chilly, and there are often waves of sandstorms. Li Qian walks out of the mobile business hall with a long stack of call inquiry receipts in his hand. This is her husband's, with her husband and another one on it. Li Qian didn't want to go home, so she sat down on a stool in the square, lost in thought. Yesterday's quarrel kept repeating itself in her mind. The woman's provocative and overbearing eyes and Li Qian's husband's disobedient attitude made Li Qian completely cold, and her husband who had been married for seventeen years had an extramarital affair.

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but where can she go? She came to work in this strange city from her hometown alone, and she was a stranger. He took good care of her, filled her inner panic about the strange place, and married him naked, just for him to be kind to her, with nothing to lose, and everything started from scratch.

? Colleagues in the company think that he is not worthy of Li Qian at all. Marrying him is a veritable low marriage, because according to people's normal thinking, Li Qian is from the south to the northwest. Although he is not tall, he is in the prime of life, and his skin is as good as an egg that has just been peeled. There is also a small dimple on his cheek, which makes him smile very sweet. He belongs to a small lovely beauty, has a high education level and does not bear the burden of Li Qian's going to college.

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Except for a tall man who is 1.78 meters tall, he looks really speechless, with a high cheekbone and a scar on his right cheek. It is said that when he was a child, his eldest brother accidentally rubbed his face against the chimney by the fire, so that when taking wedding photos, the photographer suggested that they had better not take them, for fear that they would not go to school after junior high school. First, they were unemployed until they were recruited into the factory to become ordinary operators.

? Everyone generally can't figure out how Li Qian married him. Li Qian, who is kind-hearted, heard that he was lying alone in the dormitory because he didn't agree with her and someone else. He didn't eat or drink for three days and didn't go to work. He was worried about what would happen to him when he was away alone. Plus, he was really obedient to Sviri ge, so he never went east and went west. After graduating from school, she entered the factory. She had no social experience and thought that listening to her was just loving her.

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I don't know that it is easy for men and women to fall in love before marriage, because the five senses are obvious, and it is not easy to get along after marriage, because the three views are hidden. After marriage, they always moved seven times, and later they had children, which provided them with a stable living environment. Li Qian thrifty and thrifty kept the house, and struggled with their meager wages for seventeen years before they got their own house, and home was the only place she could go.

To say that people and people are the best when they first met, they are hypocritical, passionate, gentle and romantic. Men's rationality is basically dominated by desire, while women's sensibility is often influenced by emotion. Men can be completely devoted to women during the love period driven by hormones. After a long time, some people have changed, but their masks have fallen off.

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Marriage should be considered from the six equivalence principles of appearance, material, status, knowledge, character and personality. If a woman thinks that nothing is for her low marriage, she will be grateful and care for you all her life. He thinks that he will cherish this family if he does housework diligently and pays without regrets every day. Human nature is greedy. A man without a family is eager to find a woman to accompany him from scratch to prove his ability. After the superficial scenery of a happy family, he is eager for freedom and hopes to expand his charm outside the family. But the word "freedom" is composed of rules and regulations. Those who play with fire set themselves on fire. The price of extramarital affairs can only be the separation of their wives and children and the disintegration of their families.

? Love often starts from fairy tales, calms down in reality, and lets go of interests. Now, in the face of sudden marriage change, Li Qian is completely desperate. After nearly 2 years of frugality and regular life, it has not made her achieve the expected results, but has made her humble and pale in the good years when she should be glowing.

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It's the first time for anyone to be a human being, who has no experience to talk about, and stumbles all the way forward. Who can guarantee that this life will not take a detour? The earth is a circle, and the so-called end point is also the starting point, so let's disperse. Don't live up to this only life. Since you only live once, how can you let it go in the centrifugal separation? At the turning point of marriage life, you make a wrong turn and the road can't go on, which means. How to tell her elderly parents how to live with a rebellious child after divorce? A series of questions passed through her mind, but since she couldn't tolerate his betrayal, she decided to divorce him. For her own dignity, even if she clearly understood that the future would be more difficult, she would go on kneeling, and perseverance in the abyss would also be Pengcheng Wan Li!