At the age of 28, how can I become a "waste"

Stay at home for more than a month, except to go to the toilet. Almost all the time, I lie in one position!

This period of lying down made me deeply realize that my life can be summarized in four words:

However, I quite like my life now. This lifestyle is simply developed for lazy cancer patients like me.

Sleep until you wake up naturally every day, rub your eyes and stay in bed to overcome the difficulty of getting up. Reluctantly get up and fill your stomach. Walking dead, looking for Uncle Ge You on the sofa and picking up a standard mobile phone, this feeling is like holding the whole world in the palm of your hand, infinitely satisfying! I don't know if the world will feel warm in my hands.

Many people say that this is a wasteful lifestyle. The life guide of a loser is to eat to death!

In order to avoid becoming a waste, I studied the characteristics of waste: (Harvard has introduced it to me before I could study it)

First, hesitate to do things.

Second, delay, what can be done tomorrow?

Three, three minutes of heat

Fourth, fear of rejection.

Fifth, limit yourself and deny your potential.

Sixth, escape from reality, daydreaming's patients.

Seven, always make excuses.

Eight, fear, fear of failure

Refuse to study, as long as you don't study, you will be happy.

Why do I feel that Harvard is talking about me? Except for refusing to study, I didn't do it, and the other eight items fully met my characteristics.

In this way, I should be regarded as a waste who loves to learn!

When it comes to the characteristics of waste, it goes back to my childhood. At that time, sleeping and getting rich was my whole childhood dream. Getting up at 7 o'clock every day to go to school is a nightmare for me. I barely persisted for 6 years under the roar of my mother killing pigs. The dream of sleeping every day has not come true. So, I began to want to get rich!

When I was a child, 5 yuan was a huge sum, and I could buy a lot of spicy popsicles. One of my playmates is a very rich boy. My nine-inch golden tongue cheated him of five lucky money, and I hesitated on my conscience for one night and returned it to him the next day! I'm not very kind. I'm just afraid my mom will find out. Because of my indecision, a large sum of money slipped away in my hands.

So I have the potential to waste since I was a child. indecision

Later, when I grew up, my dream was to get rich, but when I didn't get rich, I gained weight first and became a big ball of 128 kg. For this reason, I swear to be thin or die. In order to lose weight, I eat hard every day, because I have decided to start dieting and lose weight tomorrow!

In this way, instead of getting rich, I am getting fatter and fatter!

Being fat made me realize the second feature of waste-procrastination.

Because I have never been able to make a fortune, I am particularly bitter! At that time, I just graduated as a kindergarten teacher, with more than 2,000 yuan a month. I heard that the salary for studying accounting is 5000 yuan a month. I think this is an opportunity to make a fortune. So I saved up and signed up for an accounting training class. Talking about "Accounting Basis" on the first day of class is like a lullaby sleeping pill for me. After two hours of class, I slept 1 hour for 40 minutes. Of course, my accountant woke up from his dream of getting rich. Later, I went to study beauty and foreign language translation. I didn't get rich, but I lost everything!

In this way, I easily realized my third wasting feature-three-minute fever.

After failing to make a fortune, I decided to give up. I am addicted to love, of course, this is just my wishful thinking. The other person is a photographer, and I have dreamt many times about my confession to him, and even we are very happy together. But I was afraid of being rejected, so I chose to pay attention silently. However, I finally learned that the other party has a girlfriend ready to get married! So my love is stillborn!

Now I understand that this is fate. Fate let me know my garbage characteristics ―― fear of rejection and failure.

After the emotional failure, the dream of making money rose again! I quit my job as a kindergarten teacher and went to work in a Taobao company. Many colleagues run their own Taobao shops after work. At that time, I always fantasized that I had set the store on fire, made a lot of money and added more scenery. But it takes too long to open a shop, and you have to learn a lot of skills. I must invest a certain amount of money. At this time, I was afraid!

So I missed another good opportunity to make a fortune! My waste characteristics have come into play again ―― self-limitation, denying my potential ability, escaping from reality, fantasizing about patients and making excuses!

Finally, I gave up my dream of getting rich and became an ordinary person. According to Harvard, I should belong to an ordinary waste!

I used to be particularly envious, even a little jealous of those who had wealth and outstanding abilities. I think I might do better if I had the chance. I complain about the injustice of fate and the favor of God.

All this is not an injustice of fate, nor is it a lack of opportunity! It is my indecision that makes me desperate to move forward and doomed to fail to get ahead as I wish.

So I began to accept the fact that I was destined to be ordinary and give up those unrealistic fantasies. Be an ordinary person!

Now I am as happy as salted fish! When I was young, I didn't have high morale, nor did I have ignorance and recklessness at that time.

Ordinary is the majority of the world, and those who are unwilling to be ordinary and unwilling to work hard, which leads to anxiety and resentment, are the real waste.

Accept the ordinary and enjoy the happiness! Be a happy "loser"!

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