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Can a word change a person's life?
A useful word is worth a thousand words.
At all times, many people were deeply moved by other people's words, and even suddenly became enlightened; There are also many examples of changing lives because of "one sentence".
Once upon a time, there was a story about a child with ADHD. His mother went to school for a parent-teacher meeting, and the teacher complained more than once: "Your child can't sit still for a minute.
But the mother encouraged the child to say, "The teacher praised you. I used to sit for half a minute, but now I can sit for one minute.
"Because of this sentence, the child regained confidence and finally succeeded.
Carnegie, a famous American educator and speaker, was a very naughty child when he was a child.
When he was nine years old, his father married his stepmother to his family.
When his father introduced Carnegie to his new wife, he said, "I want you to pay attention to the worst boy in the county." He really gives me a headache. Maybe tomorrow morning he will throw stones at you or do something bad! " To Carnegie's surprise, his stepmother smiled and walked up to him, holding his head and staring at him.
Then he told her husband, "You are wrong. He is not the worst boy in the county, but the smartest boy, but he hasn't found a place to vent his enthusiasm yet.
"Yet, Carnegie's tears rolled down.
Because of this sentence, Carnegie and his stepmother established a deep feeling; It is also because of this sentence that he has achieved his motivation to make progress; More because of this sentence, let him help thousands of Qian Qian people on the road to success in the future.
Revelation: "Good words are warm in three winters, and bad words hurt people in June."
We should be good at observing and trying to figure out the child's mentality and situation, and choose the opportunity to warm him and inspire him with "good words": when the child is embarrassed, say a few words to help him out; Encourage children with warm words when they are depressed; When the child is in doubt, remind him with wise words; When the child feels inferior, light up his "bright spot" and ignite his self-confidence.
Roger rawls is the first black governor in the history of new york.
Pierre Paul is a primary school teacher in Rawls. 196 1 was hired as the director and principal of daxiong primary school.
At that time, hippies were prevalent in the United States. Pierre Paul walked into Daxiong Primary School in Dashatou and found that the poor children here were more idle than the "lost generation": skipping classes, fighting, and even smashing blackboards in the classroom.
When Rawls jumped down from the windowsill and reached for the podium, Pierre Paul said to him, "I can see from your slender little finger that you will be the governor of New York in the future.
Rawls was surprised. Only his grandmother encouraged him once, saying that he could be the captain of a 5-ton ship.
This time, Mr. Pierre Paul said he could be the governor of New York! He remembered this sentence and believed it.
From that day on, "becoming the governor of new york" became a banner in his life.
His clothes are no longer covered with mud and his speech is no longer mixed with foul language. He became the monitor.
In the next 40 years, there was not a day when he didn't ask himself to be governor. At the age of 5 1, Rawls really became governor.
In his inaugural speech, there was a passage: How much is faith worth? Faith is worthless, and sometimes it is even a kind of deception! However, once you persist, it will appreciate rapidly.
In this world, faith is something that anyone can get for free. All successful people start with a small faith.
Faith is the bud of all miracles.
Revelation: Sometimes, a person's self-confidence is obtained through heartfelt praise from others.
The cruelest injury is the injury to self-confidence, and the greatest help is to give people trust and praise.
Therefore, no matter how "poor" your children are now, encourage them more, fully establish their self-confidence and let them step into the hall of success.
Lin Qingxuan, a writer in Taiwan Province Province, was not as good as the school in his studies and conduct when he was a sophomore. He recorded two big mistakes and two small mistakes, so he was detained for observation and even kicked out of the student dormitory of the school.
Many teachers gave up hope on him, but his Chinese teacher Wang Yucang didn't give up on him. I often take him home for dinner and ask him to give Chinese lessons to my classmates when I take leave.
Teacher Wang told him: "I have been teaching for 50 years, and I can see at a glance that you are a student who can achieve great things."
"This sentence moved and shocked Lin Qingxuan.
In order to live up to the teacher's painstaking efforts, he studied hard and determined to be a useful person to society.
Interestingly, a few years later, Lin Qingxuan, a journalist, was impressed by the thief's meticulous thinking and delicate modus operandi when writing an article about the thief's crime. At the end of the article, he couldn't help but sigh: "A thief with such meticulous thinking, clever technique and unique style will achieve something in any line!" It never occurred to him that this unintentional remark actually affected a young man's life.
Twenty years later, the thief has been thoroughly remoulded and turned over a new leaf, becoming a small entrepreneur! In an encounter with Lin Qingxuan, the boss sincerely said to Lin Qingxuan: "The feature written by Teacher Lin lit up the blind spot in my life and made me think that besides being a thief, I can also do serious things!"
Revelation: When a person is in a desperate situation and can't tell the direction, a word of encouragement, comfort and appreciation, like a light guiding the way, can make people see the light of the road ahead in the dark, thus breaking through the haze and fog and getting out of the predicament.
Although a word is simple, as long as you are kind and sincere, you can help others tilt their hearts, correct their deviated life coordinates, and change their life trajectory as if they were set.
Lin Qingxuan's experience tells us that a word can be the sunshine that warms others' lives, and it can give people warmth and light all their lives.
Zhang Yimou, a famous director, was a worker before attending the Film Academy from 65438 to 0978, and his hobby was photography.
After four years of fanaticism, repeated practice, learning photography, and developing and printing under extremely simple conditions, he has reached a level that surprises professional photographers in black and white photography.
When his neatly framed photographs were delivered to the teachers of the photography department of the Film Academy, everyone knew that such students would be hard to meet again in the future.
But because he is 24 years old, he has passed the age of applying for the exam, and there is nothing the thirsty teacher can do.
But soon, a bright future appeared.
His photographic portfolio was sent to the Minister of Culture who studied fine arts.
Minister Huang, who is eager for talents, specially added a sentence for Zhang Yimou in his admission instructions to the Film Academy: He found that Zhang Yimou, a special photographer, was too old to pass the exam. He hopes to be admitted to the school for two years, focusing on photo photography. After the expiration of the study period, you can consider being assigned to the central news recording film studio to engage in news or photography.
The Film Academy finally sent an official letter (not an admission notice) to the No.8 Cotton Mill in Xianyang, Shaanxi Province, which read: ... According to the instructions of the superior, it decided to accept Zhang Yimou, a worker from your factory, to study in the photography department of our college.
* * * Minister's instructions fulfilled Zhang Yimou's dream of going to the Film Academy.
Beijing Film Academy has never admitted students who didn't take exams before and after.
Zhang Yimou also successfully completed four years of studies with excellent results. He not only graduated with excellent results, but later proved himself worthy of this exceptional admission, the Film Academy and the history of China film with his sensational achievements in the world film industry.
Zhang Yimou's successful case once again proved the great power of one sentence, which not only changed the fate of Zhang Yimou's personal life, but even rewritten the "China film history" to some extent.
Jiang Liwen, a famous film actor and director, 1988 was not particularly outstanding when he was admitted to the Film Academy, so after trying it once, it was the kind of situation that needed to' take a look again', especially hanging ... At that time, there were three stacks of student materials on the examination table, and one stack was definitely a student; Second, students who are not needed; The third is unwanted classmates.
Her materials have been tossed back and forth several times between necessity and necessity.
After much tossing, I put it in the' Don't' box.
If, at that time, no one could speak for her, she might have bid farewell to her actress dream and college dream forever.
Finally, their director, Mr Hongtong Lin, said, "Take a look again.
"She turned back to the pile of materials.
Later, when Hongtong Lin saw her, she said, "This man's fate may lie between these two sentences. In a blink of an eye, you may not be wanted, and you will always be in the water company in Anhui or ... "When talking about this past, I lamented that people's fate sometimes really lies in the blink of an eye.
Without teacher Lin's last words, there would be no brilliant artistic life for Jiang.
Revelation: A word, seemingly insignificant, is God's best gift to those who are struggling in adversity, and its power is infinite ... Too often, it is because of these "words" that we raise our heads from confusion and boldly move from despair to struggle.
It is precisely because of teacher Lin's words that we can see the dazzling ginger on today's screen and TV.
Chen Ye, the champion of the 2008 Beijing Olympic Games, is a good example.
In July of 200 1 year, it was sent to the national team for training by Tianjin team. When he first entered the national team, Chen initially held the mentality of a gangster.
He thinks that his basic skills are poor and his action specifications are low, which is far from the requirements of the national team. He will return to Tianjin team sooner or later.
On one occasion, however, Huang Yubin, the head coach who is almost a god in Chen's eyes, said to the competent coach after watching his training:' This child has great development potential and should be taken good care of.
This sentence made Chen ecstatic.
Since then, Chen's training has become hard, and his talents have gradually emerged, especially in the rings. He has made remarkable progress and eventually became a world champion and an Olympic champion.
It can be seen that the "one sentence" evaluation of the coach who has trained countless world champions and Olympic champions really has a life-changing effect on young Chen.
Revelation: When a person is facing a wrong path and surrounded by cold words, a word of care, love and encouragement, like a burning fire, can give people warmth, ignite the flame of self-confidence and self-esteem, make people thoroughly remould themselves, strive for progress and produce positive power.
Didn't "Champion" Chen practice boxing with the encouragement of head coach Huang Yubin?
Do you want to know how powerful a sentence is?
When you are lonely and lost, warm words are like stars in the dark, illuminating a lonely and heavy heart.
When you are sad and painful, soothing words are like a clear spring on the wasteland, nourishing the dry and burst wounds.
When you are sad and wronged, words of support are like bonfires in the cold, inspiring depressed emotions.
Tears, failure and refueling are like wild vines in a deep valley, overcoming difficulties and helplessness.
Being at the bottom of life, losing expectations for life, losing confidence in the future, and no longer being sure of one's ability ... encouragement may be just a reassurance.
Let's warm every heart with our heart and say every word with love.
Let's be friendly to everything and keep words that hurt others away from us.
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