How to understand not to measure your opponent with your own values

Don't always look at others according to our own subjective ideas, because we always judge our opponents according to our own experiences, what we have seen and heard, and our own habits. Many times this is very limited, because our personal perspective is extremely one-sided. There is a story called "Sunshine Stainless Steel": It is about a person who went out for an outing and suddenly saw a signboard of Sunshine Stainless Steel hanging outside the window at the corner. He thought this man was really talented, but he turned around the tree and saw the whole picture of the signboard: Sunshine Stainless Steel Products! Say a few more words, and the sense of detachment will not exist.

This story can also show that sometimes what we see is not the truth, I just think it is the truth, and when the truth finally comes, I find that the gap between the two is so big!