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The son and mother took pictures.

The parents' divorce does not hurt their children a little.

Because father and mother have great influence on children, they are both indispensable roles in children's growth. No matter which role is missing, it will affect the growth of children.

Angel can be said to be the goddess in many people's hearts, but since Angel's divorce, people have no opinion of her. As a single mother, it is not easy for her to take care of the children alone.

Although we can understand all this, Angel's way of educating children is still hard to understand. Especially after a group of photos of her and her son's parents were exposed, people's educational methods were even more controversial.

This group of photos should have been taken by parents, but they were abruptly taken as "wedding photos". In the photo, Angel and his son are wearing wedding dresses and suits, but the key point is that they left a photo of kissing.

During the filming, Angel also asked his son to say that he wanted to marry himself, which really surprised people.

Some people may say that sons and mothers are nothing, but this kind of education in angels is bad for children.

Especially when talking about this group of wedding photos, Angel also said that she would show it to her future daughter-in-law, and compare it with her daughter-in-law, whether she is beautiful or her daughter-in-law.

Moreover, not to mention wedding photos, even in variety shows, we can see that the relationship between mother and child is somewhat different.

In a program, when Angel was unhappy, her son tried to comfort her.

That's not the most important thing. Most importantly, in the face of my mother's angel, I actually said, "Baby, Dad loves you, OK!" " In this case, it really refreshed my three views.

And netizens are also talking about Angel's amazing remarks, saying everything.

Perhaps it is because Angel has only one son after divorce, so he is particularly dependent on his son. But her dependence is not necessarily a good thing for her son.

As a single mother, it must be difficult to live alone with her son, but this cannot be the reason for Angel to educate her children like this.

Moreover, it is said that Angel is also a controlling mother at ordinary times. She seldom cares about her son's thoughts, but wants him to obey herself.

In fact, when mothers teach their children, they have these minefields to avoid. Let's have a look.

The first is a minefield with no mother-child boundary.

Mother and son are relatives, but in the final analysis, the gender of mother and son is different. We should have a certain sense of boundary, so that children will have a sense of gender and shame.

Secondly, this is an over-controlled minefield.

In fact, many parents have a strong desire for control when educating their children. They always want their children to do what they want, with little regard for their feelings.

Many parents always feel that their life experiences are richer than their children's, so they are more authoritative in everything and speak more correctly than their children.

However, this idea is actually wrong. Even if parents have more experience, they may not be able to make the most correct decision. Sometimes the wishes of children are more important than the wishes of parents.

If parents always don't respect their children's wishes and always force them to do things, children will easily hate their parents, and the parent-child relationship will become particularly tense and cold.

Finally, there is a minefield where the parent-child relationship is misplaced.

Parents are the guardians of their children, so parents should take care of their children in life.

However, if children take care of their parents in turn, their roles will be misplaced, which will have a very negative impact on their mental health.

First of all, parents of divorced families should pay more attention to their children.

Children from divorced families are more likely to feel abandoned than children from other ordinary families. As parents, we should give more care to our children, because only in this way can we make up for the harm caused by divorce as much as possible.

If you don't care about your children after divorce, but ask them to care about themselves, it will do great harm to your children and be detrimental to their growth.

Secondly, parents of divorced families should not speak ill of their predecessors in front of their children.

Many parents are full of hatred when they see their predecessors after divorce. Not only that, they will also pass this hatred on to their children and let them hate their predecessors.

But this is our own predecessor, but it is the child's biological parents. Such slander is very unfavorable to children's growth and will have a very negative impact on children.

Finally, parents of divorced families should pay more attention to their children's psychological healthy growth.

News:

The influence of parents' divorce on children is very great. Although divorce may do great harm to ourselves, as parents, we should not let our children suffer, but should protect them.

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