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My husband, he is a photographer!

A photographer can refer to a person or a profession. Some people may say, "A photographer is too playboy, fickle, and surrounded by beautiful women, so he can't keep his original heart." Maybe I met an exception, because my husband is a photographer!

speaking of my husband, I have an inexplicable admiration and pride! Because he is a photographer, he can freeze the beautiful moments and the beauty of life with his camera! Whenever I watch him work with a camera in his hand, his posture and actions are simply handsome and cool. He is three years older than me. Although he is not so handsome, he is always the most handsome in my eyes, and he thinks so himself.

it's a wonderful fate that my husband and I met!

It was in 24, I just graduated from college, and I had no idea about the road after graduation. Although I studied a popular marketing major, I had no interest in this major at all. Of course, I didn't study hard, so I found a job at will after graduation. At that time, I entered an electronics factory in Foshan as a fresh graduate. It was a labor-intensive enterprise with assembly line operation, which was actually a reserve cadre.

After working for several months, the teacher called to get the diploma, so she took a few days off and went back to school. At that time, I bought a mobile phone that looked pretty at that time with the salary of hard work. It was also the first mobile phone in my life, and I was able to get it in front of my classmates. I got my diploma and wanted to go home and see my parents by the way, so I sent a message to a fellow classmate of mine, asking him to give me a ride, but I actually entered a wrong number in the phone number (which I learned later). So the message was sent to another strange man, and then the mobile phone rang. I think it must be my classmate. I was distressed by the phone bill and didn't answer it. I hung up quickly, and then sent a message saying, "My mobile phone is a Shenzhouxing card. It's expensive to answer the phone, so please call my dormitory." Then I told him the phone in the dormitory. Soon the dormitory phone rang and the nearest roommate answered it. Because he didn't know my name at all, he said to find the one who just sent him a message, and my roommate gave me the phone. I ran over at once, and when I heard the voice was wrong, I quickly apologized and hung up urgently. It seemed that I had committed something wrong, and the classmate next to me had told me the correct phone number at this time. I sent a message again, but unfortunately, my classmate said something was wrong and I couldn't send me home by car.

At this time, the mobile phone received another message, which was sent by the man I sent him by mistake just now. Now I can't remember the content of the message clearly, except that he introduced himself at that time-told me his name, where he lives and what he does. At that time, he was working in a film and television company in Changsha. He said that he was a photographer, and occasionally he had to make guest appearances. He was not born to act. He had to be directed many times every time, and he felt a little uncomfortable. Then he asked my name. At first glance, I was also a fellow villager in the same province and city. Although I had never met before, I seemed to feel cordial, so I also told him honestly my name and my occupation. Then he said that he wanted to see me on the bus, but he really couldn't afford the time. I said, it doesn't matter. Nice to meet you. In this way, because of a mobile phone, because of a short message and a message I sent by mistake, we feel familiar with each other gradually!

when I got home, my sister was pregnant and just resting at home. I didn't tell my parents any information about him, but only briefly described it to my sister in a few words. My sister didn't think so at first, thinking that I had met some bad people, but I was secretly longing for it. You know, I really didn't fall in love in college. I didn't experience the romance and sweetness of the affair. Because as soon as I entered the university, the teacher gave us a vaccination. "It is a burden to fall in love in college, and it is a pity not to fall in love." At that time, I made up my mind firmly. "Even if I leave regrets, I don't want to increase my burden." After all, it was really hard for me to go to college in those days. My parents have worked so hard for me. How can I let them worry about me again? In this way, I kept my word, and I still didn't know how to talk about a love until graduation. I feel that somehow, the appearance of this person may really fill the gap in my feelings over the years. Obviously, I am serious, even if I haven't met him yet. But my intuition tells me that he can be my boyfriend.

In the dead of night, a short message from him floated on my mobile phone, "I love you." Perhaps this is exactly what I expected. I immediately replied, "I love you, too. I fell in love with you before you said you loved me." I don't know how I was so brave, so I didn't have any reserve, and I simply said those three words foolishly. At that time, we were very happy with each other, and he also said that he would tell his friends that I was his girlfriend. He also said that he would take a photo album for me. I can't tell you how happy I am. In this way, we established a love relationship before we met, and I finally fell in love, although I didn't know him yet.

when we got back to work, we kept in touch in this way, a mobile phone, n text messages, occasional phone calls, busy with our respective jobs, but thinking about each other's little things. Most of the time, I am sending him messages, and he happens to be sending me messages, even when eating, sleeping and even going to the bathroom. Maybe this is the so-called heart. Today, I can't remember the contents of the message. After all, that mobile phone has been lost for many years, only knowing that I am very happy every day. Time flies, and half a year has slipped away in our back-and-forth messages. It's almost the end of the year, and I'm not going to go home for the New Year. At that time, I just wanted to change my job, quit my previous job, and I haven't found a suitable one yet, so I'm a little anxious. One day, when I was applying for a job in the talent market, I happened to meet my colleague who used to work together. He rented a house in Guangzhou, and we chatted, so I wanted to share a house with her. She readily agreed, so I came to Guangzhou from Foshan. And he also told me that he quit his previous job and went back to his hometown for the New Year.

after the new year, my colleague and I continued to rush about the talent market, hoping to find a job we like, but he said he would come to Guangzhou to find me. At that time, when he said this, I didn't want to, because I felt that I hadn't found a job yet, and I was a little down and out. I didn't want him to come to see me at this time. But he insisted on coming, so he had to promise to come. In desperation, I joined an insurance company and began to sell insurance. At that time, it was a costly job. Although I studied insurance in college and my teacher sold insurance myself, I really didn't know how to tell others about insurance, because people's insurance awareness was not high, many people were disgusted when they heard about insurance, and strange visits were frequently rejected, which really made me feel bad. My colleagues have no confidence in my job, and they often throw cold water on me. Only he doesn't support or object, and often helps me find ways. My supervisor often cheers me up, which makes me regain a little confidence in persistence.

My meeting with my husband is a tortuous and true story!

in February, 25, he really came to Guangzhou to find me, and the date was also Saturday. One day, I told my colleague and showed her the information he sent me, but my colleague said that I was too stupid and naive, and you believed such a thing. I also said, "I have a friend who is in the same situation, but as a result, she married another woman. I really lied to you. How can you believe it so much?" Despite what he said, I was still immersed in his messages full of care and love. I wanted to stay with my colleagues until he came, so I rented a single room for him.

it's finally the day to meet. That Saturday, I didn't go to work, because I asked him to come over this day. I planned to take him to see my sister on the next Sunday holiday. At that time, my sister's brother-in-law was in Foshan. He told me that he would arrive in Guangzhou at about 3 pm and said that he would take the bus. I didn't know what route he took, and I didn't know which station to pick him up. At one o'clock, I went to Guangzhou Railway Station and asked if it might be Liuhua Station, so I waited at the exit. It's almost 3 o'clock, and waves of people are coming out of the station. "He should be here soon." I thought to myself, I kept calling him and giving him information, but I didn't see any reply, and my cell phone kept turning off. I waited patiently, waiting and waiting, but no one came through the autumn water. The original hypothesis-"Will he come to me with roses in his hand" has been dashed. My stomach began to growl with hunger, so I had to go to the restaurant next to me to fill my stomach first, and call his home while eating. I wanted to ask his parents what time his car left, but his mother couldn't understand it at the other end of the phone, because she didn't know what car he was riding and what time he left. So I began to grumble. "I've been waiting for him all afternoon and I haven't seen anyone come. If I don't come, I won't wait for him." After that, I hung up the phone. Obviously, I was a little angry. As a result, I was teased by a guy at the hotel. "Don't wait for him, wait for me." I glanced at the man and left in a hurry for fear that he was up to no good.

It's almost 5 o'clock. At this time, the mobile phone rang. He said that he had arrived at Jiaokou Bus Terminal. He also said that his mobile phone was dead and he used a public phone. Oh, my God, it's still so far away, so I said, "I'll wait for you at Guangzhou Railway Station. Come here by bus." Then I waited there stupidly. Waiting for someone was really a torment. Time passed by, and it was almost six o'clock. It was almost dark. At this moment, the phone rang again. He said that he had been at the train station, but he didn't see me. This was normal. After all, we haven't met each other. Although we met each other in online video chat, we can't remember what it was like, not to mention there were so many people at the station. I was smart enough to get to the security booth, because people were in a hurry to go home, and no one went there, so I said, "I'm here at the security booth, please come here." A few minutes later, I saw a man coming towards me. Before I could speak, he put a hand on my shoulder and seemed very close. I subconsciously shook off his hand, and my heart was obviously a little angry. "Wait! He didn't know what to say when he saw it, and then I said, "I rented a house for you. Let me take you there." Although we got on the bus at the same time, we didn't choose side-by-side seats. He sat in the front and I sat in the back. At this moment, I secretly looked at this man from behind-not tall, he should be less than 1.7 meters tall, which is consistent with the height of about 1.7 meters he once told me, and he is not handsome, carrying a big bag of things. It looks like a "Tuba Road", and it looks tired. It seems that it has been a long time in the car. We said a few words at random, but we don't remember what we said. Anyway, I don't seem to be satisfied with such a boyfriend in my heart, because the prince charming in my heart has always been the kind of white and handsome boy in a suit and tie, which can't match his casual and dusty appearance. Maybe he doesn't appreciate my girlfriend very much, after all, I just threw my arm off. "Well, it's a sense of embarrassment to think of all kinds of ambiguous information flying all over the sky in the half year since we met, but now we don't know what to say. Since everyone has admitted the relationship, try to accept each other, as long as he is good to me. " I can only look on the bright side. I remember once he told me that he was neither tall nor handsome, and I also told him, "All I want is someone who loves me, regardless of his appearance or his family's wealth." It seems that I was right.

Go back to the house I rented for him. It was in a rented house in Chebei Village. The whole building was rented. The landlord didn't live there. It was a single room. It was on the fourth floor. The window was large, and the sun shone in during the day. There was a kitchen and a bathroom in it. The bed was probably left by the last tenant. It looked like one meter and a half. Although it was a little dirty, it could still be used, so the rent was also. Seeing that it was getting late, I wanted to send him here and go back to my colleague's place, but the thought that he slept without a quilt at night was still February, and the weather was still very cold. If he didn't cover the quilt at night, he would definitely catch cold. So I said, "There are two large supermarkets nearby, Lotus and Trust-Mart, which I often visit. I can take you to buy quilts." He readily agreed. As we walked all the way, he suddenly took my hand, not putting it on my shoulder or building my waist, but holding it with his fingers clasped. It was clear that the night breeze was blowing and the weather was cold, but my palms were sweating, and I didn't know whether I was afraid or nervous. The hands were already slippery, but he still refused to let go, and I was embarrassed to let go. We came to the lotus supermarket near Yichu. Then we took my hand, and we didn't say a few words along the way. When we arrived at Trust-Mart, the quilts were all the same, and the prices were not much different. "Why do you want to go further?" I thought to myself, "I don't think he will buy it." Sure enough, I didn't know if he had no money or any other reasons. In the end, he really didn't buy a quilt, but bought a special pressure cooker and went back. When I left, I said, "Won't you be cold at night?" He said, "There is a small quilt in my bag." Oh, no wonder, the bag was so bulging that there was a quilt. I returned to my colleague with peace of mind.

The next morning, I was having breakfast. He called me and asked me to come over. I said, "I'll come over after breakfast." I went to him half an hour later, and when I saw it, it turned out that the quilt he said was just a small blanket. I asked him, "weren't you cold last night?" "Not cold" Although he answered confidently, I could still see that he was lying and probably didn't sleep much all night, so I hurried to the small stall downstairs and bought him a quilt casually. It was really strange. When I opened it, I wanted to go back and change it, but he said forget it. I had to bite the bullet and wash it myself. He quickly bought a pack of washing powder, so I took it out and washed it clean three or two times. He washed the apples to eat. After eating, I said, "Let's go to my sister's brother-in-law." He groaned and said nothing. At first glance, it was almost 11 o'clock. "It's so late, don't go!" I backed out, too. So I just closed my eyes and had a rest. At this moment, suddenly, I felt something climb on my lips and suddenly opened my eyes. He didn't tell me and kissed me secretly. You know, I've never let a boy kiss me before. At this time, although I didn't push him away, after all, he is my boyfriend, and kissing is a matter of course, but I still turned my head to one side and said to him, "I've never kissed anyone before, and I don't know how to kiss." He was even more excited.