Bridges of Madison county: a great derailment!

1. It turns out that cheating can also be like this.

When it comes to cheating, what kind of pictures do we think of?

Is the dispute between husband and wife angry and abusive, or is it all kinds of tearing between the original match and mistress?

both! Around, whenever it comes to cheating, it's the same: everyone sympathizes with his wife, scolds mistress, hates men but can't do anything about it.

In the face of men's infidelity, women can also choose to forgive, while in the face of women's infidelity, men almost choose to divorce.

And the hero and heroine in the Bridges of Madison County are very different!

I remember reading this book for only one day. It was also an affair, but I couldn't scold it. Instead, I hoped that men and women could "come together".

it turns out that cheating can be so advanced. No tearing, noisy, abusive ... Only tenderness, deep affection with restraint.

The hero and heroine are called Kincaid and Francesca respectively. Kincaid, a photographer, met Francesca, a housewife, when she was shooting the covered bridge.

after a short contact, they fell in love with each other. With boys and girls shy and wonderful when seed of love. Their hearts are connected, and their feelings are like vines wrapped around green trees, which are quiet but unstoppable.

2. The feeling of love comes, that is, at a glance.

Kincaid is a bachelor, who has been traveling all over the place, without a fixed residence or a fixed girlfriend. Although he has always been surrounded by women, more than one woman shows her love to him, and he will have sex with different women, when he met Francesca, the middle-aged woman with charm still exists, but he saw the brilliance in her that other women did not.

Her smiles are so different.

If there are gods and deities in the world, it's probably like Francesca! I am willing to be dragged by her, and I can't resist it.

For Francesca, a housewife, doing the same thing day after day, has no waves in her life. She won't feel anything wrong with her life until she meets Kincaid. But he came, without warning, like a gorgeous rainbow suddenly flying from the horizon, bathing himself.

He has strong arms, a slender figure and a unique masculine charm. This charm is not found in her husband.

for whatever reason, Francesca, a good wife and mother, has completely fallen.

During the day, she stayed with Kincaid and helped him photograph the covered bridge. Like a shy little girl, her heart would beat faster when she looked at him, and her deer would bump around in her heart.

In the evening, he will stay at home. She will cook for him and put on the best clothes she thinks.

nothing happened, but they knew in their hearts that something would happen sooner or later, without any accident.

They were eating and drinking red wine in the kitchen, dancing slowly with his steps. At that moment, her heart fluttered gently with him, and she was floating in the clouds.

At that time, Francesca didn't think about what would happen to them next or in the future. She just felt the love he brought to herself.

Then they went to the bedroom and lay on the bed. He took off her clothes one by one. She saw his every movement and expression.

they have only known each other for a short time, but they all have the feeling of seeing each other for thousands of years. For the time being, they put aside the moral bondage and just want to have each other completely at this moment.

The author describes the passage of their sex in detail and slowly, but it doesn't give people a sense of pornography and vulgarity. Let people forget for a while that they are a pair of cheaters, but it is a matter of course when they are in love.

3. Adults should know how to choose love.

Meeting, being tempted, making love, and telling each other what they want are all natural.

if the story only describes these things, it seems that there is nothing special. It's a story about a married man who meets someone he really likes and can't help cheating for a while.

such stories are shown every day. Even we believe that men and women who cheat on each other usually go with feelings.

what was the result? In the end, it is three people who are hurt. The only feelings are also exhausted with all kinds of trivial matters. Women are the most hurt, especially the third party.

The Bridges of Madison County gave us another great ending.

After the incident, Kincaid asked Francesca to leave with him. Faced with love and family, Francesca chose family under the inner struggle and pain.

This is a reasonable thing. Obviously, emotionally, the reader wants her to choose love. But everyone knows clearly that it is wise for her to choose her family.

After they get together, they are doomed to bear great psychological pressure and moral criticism, especially Francesca, who is a completely unfaithful woman and abandoned her family and children. Husband and children will hate themselves all their lives, and even her choice will make the children lift their heads and become jokes all their lives. The harm she did to them was incalculable.

she can't be such an irresponsible person. She can follow Kincaid without hesitation and gamble. But for my family, the harm is real and inevitable.

she can't leave!

In the face of selfishness, Francesca made the right choice. Resolutely decided to part with him. Although the pain is unbearable, the attitude is very decisive.

and Kincaid is not a love rat. He respected Francesca's decision and didn't disturb her life, but buried his deep affection for her in his heart.

4. From then on, you were in my heart

She walked into his heart and carved it in his bones. After more than 2 years, my heart's love for her has not been lost because of the passage of time.

He still travels a lot, has no family, has no children of his own, and lives by photography.

at the last moment of his life, he left all his legacy to Francesca.

This relationship was not discovered until Francesca died and her children were sorting out their mother's belongings. Francesca told them on her own initiative. She can finally tell her "past" without moral bondage. She knew the children wouldn't blame themselves.

that's why this story came into being.

The affection between them is pure and forbearing, but the passion of love is enough.

that's what makes the affair unique. Many people will scoff and say that these are just fictional novels, and this kind of story only exists in novels. But the reality is cruel, hypocritical and full of chicken feathers.

5. Believe in love and you will get love

I believe that things in the world depend entirely on one's attitude towards things.

those who say that love is hypocritical and interests are paramount, their hearts are not true, and so are their feelings. How can they encounter single-minded feelings?

that is to say, what will happen to you if you are in a state of mind. For example, a person who doesn't believe that there is true love in the world at all will not reap love in the end.

it is immoral to cheat for whatever reason. Besides, few people can put enough is enough and put family first like the hero and heroine in the book.

This story is not to tell us the correct operating posture of cheating. Instead, it tells us that everyone is not a saint and will make mistakes, but it is the quality that adults should have to control their desires and feelings, look at problems rationally and solve problems.

love, really don't need to be together, always together, I have you in my heart, and you have me in your heart, caring for each other and missing each other, which is also a kind of love.