What are the personality characteristics of domestic violence men?

The most disgusting thing in my life is a domestic violence man, no one! ! !

Domestic violence is actually a reaction of mental illness, which shows that this person's heart is still relatively dark, because everyone in this society is under great pressure now, and when things go wrong at work, they will accumulate things painfully, so they will vent after going home, and their families will become the most direct targets.

So what are the abnormal personality characteristics of domestic violence men? Let me talk about it.

1, emotional disorder

This kind of man is no different from others when he is in a normal mood. There may be violent tendencies when the mood fluctuates greatly, and there will be violent behavior when it is slightly touched. What I fear most is depression, and violent behavior will bring serious consequences.

2. Strong control.

Most violent men have a strong desire for control, and will confirm their dominant position in the family through domestic violence, and confirm that they can control each other and regard others as their dolls. In fact, this is a sense of insecurity caused by self-distrust.

3. Sick personality

According to the research, the proportion of men who are vulnerable to domestic violence due to personality disorder is more than 1/4, and most of them are antisocial personality disorder and impulsive personality disorder. Anti-social personality disorder with a history of violence since childhood. Such patients are not only the perpetrators of domestic violence, but also the makers of social violence.

Not only do they often beat their wives or children, but they also threaten their spouses not to divorce. Impulsive personality disorder is often manifested as furious because of trivial matters, and then violent behavior appears. Once their spouses file for divorce, they will cry or threaten to die.

4. There is gender discrimination.

Generally, men with low educational level think that women are inferior to men, and even think that women are accessories of men, and they will vent their desires and bad emotions on women.

5. Distorted inferiority and self-esteem

Most violent men in China have a distorted mentality and think that self-esteem is above everything else. As long as self-esteem is slightly hurt, there will be an overreaction. However, when they are frustrated in their work or career or their self-esteem is hurt, they will recover their self-esteem and self-confidence through domestic violence. In fact, this shows that men are very fragile and feel inferior.

6, more painful after violence

Men who are prone to domestic violence will have a quite gentle period after violence, which is called "honeymoon period". This period of time is quite short. After this period, men will be violent again.

7, have too strong jealousy.

If a man is jealous too much, there will be domestic violence. When they see their girlfriends interacting with other members of the opposite sex, they think they will betray themselves and are afraid of losing each other, thus venting in the form of domestic violence.

Domestic violence is not only harmful to the body, but also includes economic violence, sexual violence and mental violence. Domestic violence will violate the victim's personal dignity and physical and mental health, and even threaten his life. At the same time, it will bring unstable factors to society, seriously affect and destroy the social constituent cells, and affect the normal growth of children.

What if there is domestic violence? There are two domestic violence at a time, and female friends should have their own principles and bottom line. The pain caused by domestic violence is not only physical scars, but also the broken family, which should not be tolerated.

First of all, we must call the police and seek medical treatment in time. Alarm records and medical records are important evidence to identify domestic violence in the future. Secondly, you can ask local neighborhood committees, women's federations, relatives and friends for help. According to the Domestic Violence Law of People's Republic of China (PRC), which came into effect on March 6, 2006, neighborhood committees, women's federations and police stations have the obligation to protect victims. Once the police report, the police station must report to the police and investigate.

But I think, before calling the police, we must consider the consequences. That is to say, if a domestic violence man is warned by the police, his distorted personality will exert more violence on women. We must consider many situations in advance when protecting ourselves.

Go to the hospital to check the injury in time, keep the consultation records of the hospital, and take photos or videos of the domestic violence scene. Try to take photos or dated photos, determine the date of domestic violence, and then move out of your place of residence as soon as possible to avoid being hurt again.

If the situation worsens, we can also apply to the court for personal protection.

If divorce is really involved, you should also know some legal knowledge, don't rely entirely on lawyers, use your own brains. Domestic violence is unforgivable. We must know how to protect ourselves better.