What should I do if I still can't let go after more than five months?

Time is the best medicine for mental pain. Life is beautiful, and there are many things worth working hard for. There are no obstacles in the world. When dealing with feelings, you should know how to give up and let go. One is two widths, and each has its own fun.

There is no hurdle in life. It's been five months since we broke up. In fact, we can sum up what caused the breakup. Find out the reasons, accumulate experience and lay a good foundation for future love.

First, because the two sides have different personalities. In this case, breaking up early is a good thing. Stubbornly wanting to be together will only cause greater harm to the future life.

The second is because of the long-distance love between the two sides. Long-distance love is a very difficult process. If the two sides are not together, no matter how good the relationship is, it will often be defeated by a kilometer away. Maybe the other person is tired. Let go when you are tired.

Third, due to material pressure. Love also needs bread, and love that does not meet the ideal material conditions is often ruthlessly crushed by reality. If the hard conditions such as room, car and ticket are not met, you can cash out immediately without any effort. A penny beats a hero, so forget it.

The fourth is due to empathy. This may be because others are better than themselves, or the material conditions are better. If you can't compare with others, you can only make up your mind to work hard.

There are many other reasons, so I won't list them one by one. In view of the reasons found out, we can only try to change. Starting from changing yourself, only by changing yourself can we finally change others and change the direction of things. The most important thing at present is to change your current state.

You know, there are thousands of people in Qian Qian, and someone is always waiting for you. No matter how bad your conditions are, there is always someone who is destined to appear in front of you at a certain time and meet the right person at the right time. This is a kind of fate, which requires patience. This process may be long, but it will come. Paying too much attention will only make you more tired. Why not think about happy things? Think about your family and friends.

Make a plan for yourself, whether it's learning a musical instrument, practicing calligraphy, reading a lot of books, or taking a test. In short, let other things fill your time and dilute the pain during this time. Everything in your life is fleeting, no matter what your memories are, let go of this relationship, pack your bags and start over. Everything depends on yourself, and you are your savior. Only by letting go can you find that better love has been waiting for you, not far away, just right. I sincerely wish you an early break with your past love. Leave everything to time and time will give you an answer.