What is the wedding custom in Qiqihar, Heilongjiang?

My boyfriend is from Qiqihar, and I am from the south. We are both working in Shanghai now and have recently decided to get married. Their family conditions are not bad in Qiqihar. I want to know what customs and rules are there for getting married here in Qiqihar. For example, how much is the change fee for the man and how much is the bride price for the man? There are many rules in our family. I'm worried that the different habits between the two places will lead to unhappiness between the two sides. So I want to know in advance. The more detailed, the better. Thank you. We discussed whether to hold a banquet in two people's hometown and invite their local relatives and friends respectively. Did my wife pay for our banquet? Because the housing price in Shanghai is very high, their family bought us a house, and there is not much left. Our family can fully understand this. Boyfriend means where the banquet is paid and the gift money goes there. I don't want any wedding jewelry, just an ordinary ring. I don't want any bride price. Before the Spring Festival, their family never gave us a gift once. This is because my parents understand them. My parents raised me, and it's not like I'm unwanted. If I get married all my life, I should have nothing, and I should also provide my own banquet. His mother asked me how much it cost. According to the custom of Qiqihar, how much land is generally given? You must buy a ring for the bride; It is not the time for you to propose; But when you wear it in front of relatives and friends at the wedding. Moreover; In some families, the man's mother buys rings or earrings and necklaces for the woman; This is not necessarily the case; It depends on your own ability, or whether it is necessary; Of course; If you buy it; It seems that you will have a good face in front of guests ~~otz ... and the man's family will also prepare new clothes for the future daughter-in-law. I can't remember exactly how many sets ~ there is also a reason. Generally, the elderly always have a notebook or something to record the amount of gifts received at home or the children setting the table at school, as well as people accompanying them. Of course, going out with gifts will also be recorded in your own home, so-called reciprocity. Like my mother, she also has such a notebook, and it is also based on this notebook to decide how much money she will pay for the next time someone needs to accompany her. Moreover, it depends on whether my family went out with gifts last time and came back for something at home. Guests are usually invited according to this book. Hmm ~ ~ It seems very important. Therefore, the money collected by the guests of both parents is not divided by the newcomers. The above is my explanation ~ ~ and it is also based on my usual wedding experience or I hope it can help you. Dr. Qiqihar, ashur, paid the change fee according to the family situation, no matter how much. Even if we follow local customs, what about giving each other money? Should I sell you or him? You care too much, but it's a burden. You said it was not easy for your parents to raise you so much. Getting married is like paying back all your money to support your family? So what if you ask for hundreds of thousands? Will you not support your parents in the future? If not, you can have as much as you want, as long as it's not too outrageous. But this is not the case. Don't you need to provide for the aged after marriage? So don't use this as an excuse to ask for money. Besides, it's not that you don't want it, so you feel sorry for him, don't you? If you have this idea, I'll tell you first that you are wrong. What's so good about women? Men are tired of living with you 10 days and a half, and have long wanted to be hugged. Do you still value yourself? It's a big deal to delay you for a few years, and see if you are still pretending when you are old. So remember, people should not be too selfish; Money doesn't have to have land.