"Wonderful Life" in Wheelchairs

? "Fuck fate!" Blue sky, the heroine of the movie "Seventy-seven Days", is struggling to save herself, and at the same time she will mumble sadly and helplessly: "I feel so tired to live." The fate of the heroine blue sky in the film is also terrible. Five years ago, I broke my thoracic vertebra because of shooting the starry sky of Rinpoche. Since then, I have lost the meaning of being a woman. Every day, I have to bear the disgusting smell of incontinence, and even "I have to live for a long time, and I have to give a speech to others with passion, and I am so optimistic. Sometimes I lie to myself and think that I am really alive."

"I'm really desperate, and I can only despise fate with death." Blue sky has a prototype in life. A Shenzhen girl who loves nature, a professional photographer, graduated from Central Academy of Fine Arts. A few years ago, while hiking in Medog, Tibet, she unfortunately fell off a cliff to shoot the starry sky and injured her thoracic vertebra, causing high paraplegia. She got into a wheelchair. Nine months later, she returned to her favorite Lhasa and opened an inn there. The name of the inn is "Blue Sky Inn", and life is as beautiful and splendid as Gesanghua. Faced with such bad luck, she didn't give up, but lived bravely. When Yang Liusong, an adventure traveler, was in a desperate situation, it was the blue sky in a wheelchair that made him walk out of the no-man's land step by step with a fierce smile.

? In the movie, we can see a blue sky full of sadness but with a real face on the smile, encouraging friends with a smile, but a blue sky with some inferiority. "Although our bodies are hurt and it is inconvenient to move, we still have to go out bravely. Although there will be many difficulties and barrier-free facilities are not perfect, we will bravely seek help and we will see the beauty of the world." Blue sky said.

? In reality, the blue sky has broken through the limit of the world's cognition of disabled people. She said that her favorite sport now is skiing. Through filming, she learned that paraplegics can also ski, bought a plane ticket to fly to Harbin directly, and practiced hard for a winter with Zhang Dongrong, the first person in China, and finally enjoyed skiing again. She also made an awe-inspiring decision to take her "hot wheels" to measure the world, so she drove alone, crossed the Sichuan-Tibet 318 National Road, glided for more than ten kilometers in her wheelchair, and circled the Shenshan Gangrenboqi for a week, completing the sacred mountain turn.

? In the vast universe, in a short life, summon up courage to do what you want to do and become the one you want to be. As long as the spirit is not broken, how far the heart is, how far the body can go.

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? During my college years, I published two articles in Fujian Daily, newspapers and periodicals, angels in white Dream of Wheelchair Girl and Love Legs of Wheelchair Girl on the Road to Studying Medicine, about the course of a wheelchair girl's study and studying medicine. Her name is Zheng Shanshan. At present, she has worked as a doctor in a community hospital in Sanming, Fujian after graduating from Fujian University of Traditional Chinese Medicine. I met in the interview and became a good friend who talked about everything.

? A high fever when she was one year old completely paralyzed her lower limbs. Many bumpy road to seek medical treatment, in exchange for the diagnosis of polio; I walked into the hospital with full confidence again and again, and the result was that I was accompanied by a wheelchair all my life. After experiencing hope and disappointment, she gradually learned to be optimistic and strong. It was this experience that made her determined to become a doctor from an early age.

? She firmly believes that even in a wheelchair, she can make a strong dream. At the age of 8, because the school didn't accept her, she could only watch her peers go to school happily with envy. At the age of 9, she finally carried a schoolbag. On the way to school, her father and brother became her feet and accompanied her through many cold winters and hot summers. However, the heavy burden made her father suffer from lumbar disc herniation.

? One morning in the second day of junior high school, she received a special gift from her classmates and teachers-a wheelchair. She cherishes this hard-won opportunity to go to school and works hard. She has been rated as a "three-good student" in the school for many times. She said: "I want to use my strength to help patients relieve their pain and bring them hope."

? In 21, Zheng Shanshan was admitted to the five-year Chinese and Western clinical medicine major of Fujian University of Traditional Chinese Medicine with a score of 549. After arriving at the school, she used her own efforts to fulfill her dreams, assiduously studied professional knowledge, and her grades were among the best in her major. Received many school scholarships and national inspirational scholarships. And passed CET-4 and CET-6 at one time, and obtained the third-level certificate of public dietitian. And won the "China University Student Self-improvement Star Nomination Award" in the National University Student Self-improvement Star Selection.

? Although after graduation in 215, she fully met the requirements of graduate students with her excellent grades, but she was rejected for physical reasons. After graduation, I still tried to review my lessons and continued to take the national postgraduate entrance examination at the end of 215, or I was brushed in the postgraduate interview for physical reasons. After that, she tried and failed again and again in the process of job hunting, but she didn't get depressed. Later, I finally became a disciple in an old Chinese medicine clinic and slowly found a job opportunity. And find your true love this year.

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"I have been cared for and helped by others since I was ill, and now I just want to repay the society with my own actions." Because of nervous system problems, he can't walk, so he can only walk in a wheelchair and with the help of others. However, I use my own ability to pull strings for single men and women in Xiamen. He is Shan Ying, the protagonist of "Elderly in Wheelchairs in Xiamen: Obligation to Lead the Red Line for Men and Women in Online Love" and "Origin", which I published in Fujian Daily.

? "If you want to meet someone and are afraid that it is not safe to meet alone, if you want to match quickly, if you want to come to your hometown for a blind date, you can contact me." Shan Ying said that he met his wife through the Internet, entered the marriage hall in 26, had a clever daughter and opened a tea shop. The couple took advantage of their free time at work and were keen to match up single men and women in Xiamen. Shan Ying's home is called "Yuelao Clinic" and "Origin Consultation Room". Every weekend, even at ordinary times, Shan Ying's home is full of single men and women of different ages. Shan Ying and his wife enthusiastically solve all kinds of puzzles and problems for single men and women.

? However, fate made people feel bad. In 212, Shan Ying's feet began to ache, and his right foot was uncoordinated. I thought it was a minor illness and pain, but he didn't care. In November, 214, Shan Ying's illness suddenly became worse, and her feet couldn't listen to her, so she couldn't even walk.

"Now I can only do rehabilitation training at home. After training, there are often single men and women who ask me to help introduce them. I am also very happy to talk to them about marriage and our story, and slowly become a professional elder. " Shan Ying said.

After her illness improved, Shan Ying carefully managed Xiamen Yuanqi dating platform group to help single men and women in the group lead the red line. He explored the active netizens in the group and organized offline activities. For single people who are shy and have a strong sense of safety, Shan Ying sacrifices his rest time to help them and invites everyone to meet him at his home.

"Meng Meng and I met and fell in love on the Internet, and finally got together, and we lived happily. Although there are always all kinds of negative news about online dating, I still think the internet is a good medium. " In order to make online dating more reliable. He and volunteers set up a platform for Xiamen's origin public welfare blind date. On the website, they carefully registered each member and identified false members. "We want to reassure every member."