There are four advantages for the elderly to take care of their children. Children "return to nature", which Ma Bao can't compare with taking care of their children.

People often say that the environment will affect a person, especially a child. Don't ignore the ability of the environment to shape him. Just like the story of "Three Major Movements in Meng Mu", if children want to learn well, they must create a good environment for them. Most parents think that children will be spoiled when they follow the elderly, and they are unwilling to let the elderly take care of their children, but in fact, the elderly can't help their children "return to nature".

Old people love their children too much to make them cry. They will meet all their needs and even respond to their needs. It is easy to abandon children, and the elderly often take their children to some places to let them imitate the behavior of adults, so that children do not have the fashion sense of other children. When Ma Bao saw this, he was afraid that his children would fall behind, so he took them with him and let him get in touch with the elements of fashion trends independently.

After the son got married, Uncle Zhang and his wife have been looking forward to the daughter-in-law quickly opening branches and leaves for the family, so that the family is not only full of energy, but also has enough energy to help them take care of their children.

However, the daughter-in-law disagrees with the wishful thinking of Uncle Zhang and his wife, thinking that the environment they live in will not let their children have more knowledge and affect their development, and they want to take their children to live in the city by themselves. In the end, the two men couldn't talk together and there was a conflict.

It is also because the two generations have different parenting concepts, and the husband does not consider the problem from his own perspective. Uncle Zhang's daughter-in-law has never given birth to a child within three years of marriage, but it is also because of this decision that she has been instructed by her neighbors: she thinks that she has no children because of physical problems, and the most important thing is that she has never been pregnant when she wants to have children. This is what she regrets most. If she doesn't think about the future at first, maybe the child will run away.

But in fact, many young people now have some misunderstandings about their elders taking care of their children. The life of the elderly may not be modern, but they have some excellent qualities that many young people don't have and need to learn urgently. Moreover, some entertainment methods of the elderly are very traditional, which exercises a person's brain ability. Therefore, it is also beneficial for the elderly to take care of their children, so that the children can "return to the original" and know the entertainment methods of the older generation when they were young, but this is impossible for Ma Bao.

Open baby, let the baby "return to nature"

As most people think, today's children have been exposed to high-tech products, and the way to understand the world is only a few minutes. The open way for the elderly to take care of their children can make children learn a lot of different things with their own practice, and at the same time, it will not have a negative impact on their health, even a way for children to learn knowledge in the most primitive and supernatural state.

1, keep fit

Old people and children have almost the same schedule, so it is normal to go to bed early and get up early. Old people like to go to the park for exercise after getting up early. Children living with grandparents will also develop this habit, and their physical fitness will continue to increase, keeping the virus away from themselves and not getting sick.

Step 2 save food

In the past, people often didn't have enough to eat, so they developed the fine virtue of saving in life. They were unwilling to waste a penny on leftovers and eat them next time. Now people's living standards have improved and they eat a lot of delicious food. Every time the leftovers are obviously good, they should be thrown away, which not only wastes food, but also creates a bad impression on children. The most important thing is that they didn't practice the virtues that China always advocated. Therefore, if children live with the elderly, they will know how to save food, form good habits and inherit traditional virtues.

3. Enrich cultural knowledge

In order to enrich their life after retirement, many people will learn square dance with their peers or regain their hobbies and play chess with old friends. Under the leadership of the elderly, children can not only learn square dance properly and play chess easily, but also learn culture, enrich knowledge and activate thinking.

4. Protect your eyesight

With the development of technology and network, children are exposed to more electronic products. Such products can help children learn more knowledge and broaden their horizons, but long-term use of electronic products will also affect children's eyesight and bring inconvenience to their lives. However, there are very few elderly people with children. Many elderly people are mainly elderly computers. They usually don't surf the Internet and watch videos, which is very attractive to children. If children don't watch mobile phones, it is also a kind of protection for their eyes.

Many young parents can't give these benefits to the elderly, so there is no need to be biased against the elderly. They are just used to the way of doing things with their children, and others are still very beneficial to them, especially because they will be more experienced in dealing with their children's problems as experienced people, which may easily cultivate an open-minded child. However, the elderly should also pay attention to their own ways when taking care of their children.

Caring for children and growing up healthily

It is true that old people love children, but sometimes they spoil them too much, which makes them feel very annoyed. It is also for this reason that many mothers don't want the elderly to take care of their children, for fear of bringing them bad. Therefore, the elderly should also review their own shortcomings in taking care of their children and correct them in time. Caring for children is the best way to love children.

1, don't spoil the children.

Children have become the object of care and love of many elders. Children will be very happy in such a family, but they must not be too indulgent and do something out of line. Nowadays, children are naughty and disobedient, which really has a lot to do with their families.

If they just don't destroy or hurt things or people, they can. If they do something that hurts others, such as deliberately pushing down other children, as elders, they must not be partial to their own children. This way of drowning love is not love, but great harm to the child, which will eventually send him to the road of illegal crime.

2. Don't chew rice for children.

I don't know if I'm afraid of burning the children or what. Some people in the older generation like to chew rice for their children. This way is unbearable for many young mothers, on the one hand, because it is unsanitary, on the other hand, the children's own resistance is weak, and they are afraid that the elderly will get sick and infect their children.

No matter what the reason, most people don't want to see children fed like this, so the elderly must pay attention to hygiene and it is best to feed their children with spoons.

Many children's behaviors are imitating adults. In order to make children grow up healthily and happily, the elderly should not spoil their children too much, leaving them completely incapable of self-survival. We should take them to some knowledge-based places to increase their knowledge. Moreover, Ma Bao should also believe in the ability of the elders and tell him what to pay attention to when taking care of the children, instead of completely denying the elders. Only in this way can children grow and develop better. (Author Li Xi)