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Marriage can be said to be a fence. People inside the fence envy people outside the fence for being free and living a passionate life every day. I don't know that people outside the wall envy the excitement and flowers inside, but do you know that the feelings inside and outside the wall will gradually become dull with the passage of time, and most of the passionate years are just a flash in the pan?

So how can we quickly and effectively restore our original enthusiasm when our feelings have reached a flat period and a low period? ! I think we might as well start from the following aspects:

One is to communicate more.

The most fearful thing in feelings is mutual indifference. No matter how good the feelings are, they will become indifferent after cold treatment. Usually, you can try to bring up more topics of common interest, so that everyone will have more and more common languages, thus enhancing the enthusiasm of feelings.

The second is the ubiquitous romance.

No matter how good things are, if you have them for a long time, you will naturally feel bored. At this time, it is particularly important to create romance and passion properly. For example, travel when two people say they are leaving, and prepare some surprises on meaningful days such as each other's birthday or wedding anniversary. In fact, I think feelings need to be carefully measured. This surprise is not to say that it is measured by money alone.

Third, a proper sense of distance.

Feelings, simply put, can be described by shelf life. There is an old saying that distance produces beauty, so I think it is also very helpful to add some strangeness to each other appropriately and intentionally to maintain emotional enthusiasm. It is better to meet again after a long separation than to get married. Needless to say, everyone knows.