Are there always some people who do things that make people feel chest tightness in the name of friends?

Before going to bed last night, I saw a brother send an angry message in a circle of friends, which contained a chat record between him and a man.

It was his kitten that gave birth to a kitten. Baby kittens are full moon, many people want them, but they just want to give them two.

He didn't promise one of his friends who wanted to have a cat. As a result, the friend sent a message saying, forget it, brother, thank you. I didn't expect our relationship for so many years to be worse than a cat.

In the record, the brother also transferred 3000 yuan to the other party and said, why don't you buy one? It's from me. Of course, the money was refunded. Because the other party finally said it, let's bless each other.

Friends for so many years, because a cat collapsed like this. Old friend, is it really not important to have a cat? It seems that sometimes an old friend is not as important as a cat.

If you say feelings, let's talk about feelings first. My brother who has a cat and his wife run a very famous photography studio together in Beijing. His wife is a celebrity photographer. I have been to their studio for work reasons. Cats are cute and often appear with guests. They are regarded as the mascots of the studio. Look at their circle of friends. Eight out of ten states are related to cats. Moreover, friends who have kept pets know that for their owners, pets are not as simple as an animal at all, but their own families. Especially the photographer's sister dotes on this cat. Once we took a group photo, we were downstairs and the cat was upstairs. Something fell and hit the cat. As soon as she heard this, she rushed upstairs and held the cat in her arms for inspection. We should look at the rest of the photo.

The cat gave birth to a kitten this time. When sent to the pet hospital, the pet doctor said whether to protect the big one or the small one. It took a long time for it to come back to life. Of course, when they took it home, it was taken good care of. After the full moon, the kitten is reluctant to give it to others.

And I can understand why they are so angry, because there are always some people who do things that make people feel chest tightness and shortness of breath in the name of friends.

I can give my own cat to whoever I want, and to whoever can keep it well, can't I? Even if I send a stranger I have never met, it is my freedom. How can someone have the cheek to kidnap a person emotionally under the banner of brotherly feelings? The most important thing is that you know it's hard for me, and you have to say that my brother is not as angry as a cat after so many years. You know it's hard for me, but you still come to embarrass me.

Besides, we have known each other for so many years, and we just know each other. We didn't rise to any deep level at all. Don't overestimate the emotional value between us. If we always help each other or you are kind to me, forget it, let alone a kitten, I can give it to you. But obviously you weren't there when I asked you for help a few days ago. You just responded symbolically and then disappeared. As a result, I have to do things by myself now, and the cat is born. You ask me for a cat, and you tell me about your friend. If you must ask, yes, we have known each other for so many years, but we are not as good as a cat.

Will you blame me if I don't give it to you? Don't say my feelings for cats, don't say I'm afraid to take care of them day and night, and don't say I'm afraid cats can't live and my wife is sad. Just tell me about the five or six thousand dollars I spent on surgery and the milk cat food I bought for cats. Can't you see that I spent all my money?

You said I had to give it? When did I owe you? I'm sorry, I don't know. I'm glad you're okay. You are so melodramatic, I will ignore it. Anyway, my cat is fine.

No way, there are really too many such people:

You went abroad to play and brought your favorite cosmetics. She said, please give me this lipstick. You look embarrassed, she said, forget it. I didn't expect our relationship to be inferior to a lipstick.

You had a hard time finding a favorite handwriting. He said that I also want this handmade one, so you can give it to me, or I will buy it, and you refused. He immediately said with a bad face, forget it, I didn't expect our relationship to be less important than toys.

We must have heard many such words:

Help me buy food, copy my homework, design for free, attend classes for free, write a copy for free, and make up lessons for free.

You have no time? Don't you want to? Alas, I didn't expect our relationship to be worth even this little thing, not even this little money.

In fact, if you meet such a person, either ignore it or we can confidently tell ta, I'm sorry, you just don't want it, which is better. Ta is so big, you can't even tell this truth clearly, so why tell us about disappointment?

Really can't. We can go back directly with ta: I have a crush on your car. Will you give it to me or not? Our friends for so many years, I like your house, whether you give it to me or not, our feelings for so many years.

You can't do it, and you ask me? If you really send me, ok, no problem, then I will send you!

Let's calm down and talk about things. Don't move the emotional cards out easily. Besides, some things really can't be explained by feelings. Besides, don't overestimate the emotional value of both sides, okay?

San Mao has a good saying: "Most of the disappointments to friends come from each other's words and deeds, and they can't meet the standards they require of him." But I think friends can't ask, not at all, because we have no right. "We can't ask our friends to do anything, we can only control ourselves. Even if we are each other's best friends, don't stand on the emotional line and ask them to do something for us in disguise, because friends will not be asked or embarrassed. Otherwise, it will be much more difficult, and we may really hear such an answer.

Sorry, our relationship is really not as good as that of a cat.

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