Guo Wanying's life has been from poverty to wealth, and from wealth to humbleness. She has never lost her elegance in her life.

Human life, whether it is from wealth to poverty or from poverty to wealth, is a life leading to death. The ending is not important, what is important is in the long journey of life, what kind of scenery you see on the road, and what attitude you use to observe the world.

Guo Wanying was born in a wealthy family and endured poverty and hardship, but she maintained her elegance throughout her life. She has experienced great changes in the world, but she has always maintained her true heart and shown the outside world what elegance means.

1. People are born like ants, but they can be as beautiful as gods

Guo Wanying, formerly known as Daisy, was born in Sydney. During her childhood, the most carefree years of her life, she was like the golden princess in fairy tales, holding a doll in her hand, living the richest and happiest life in the world.

She is very independent and has known how to fight for things for herself since she was a child. However, she is very polite and has never bullied others. Before the age of 6, she lived abroad. When she turned 6, her father took her back to Shanghai to study. At that time, her father's business was booming, and as the fourth young lady of the Guo family, it was also at this time that she got the name that would accompany her throughout her life - Guo Wanying.

She was very beautiful, both as a child and as an adult. When she was 19 years old, she was spotted by a photographer from New York and said that she had never seen such a "delicate and pure" woman. Of course, her character is not just soft and delicate. On the contrary, it is precisely because of this softness that hides hardness and stubbornness that she will be remembered forever.

She was engaged when she was very young. The other party was also from a noble family and married into a wealthy family. Although she lost some of her freedom, her future glory and wealth were within sight. But Guo Wanying wants to study. She is not the kind of woman who hides in a boudoir. If she wants to study, she will inevitably break off the engagement.

The other party liked her very much, or in other words, he couldn't bear the humiliation of her breaking off the engagement, so he came to the door in person, armed with a gun and anger. Guo Wanying was very cold: "Even if you kill me, I will not marry you. If you commit suicide, you will never be able to get married. Go back." Determined and calm, but like a basin of just the right amount of cold water, dousing the raging bear anger.

The second and third views are similar, so what about poverty?

The husband Guo Wanying finally chose came from a poor scholarly family. Her husband was named Wu Yuxiang. Judging from the degree of prominence, Guo Wanying is married, but for her, this is the best husband in her life.

In this world, it is not easy to meet a partner who is consistent with your own three views. The chance is as small as a comet hitting the earth. But Guo Wanying firmly believed that material things should never be used to judge a person's quality. She decided to marry herself. She also had a romantic time, but the marriage would eventually come to fruition.

Wu Yuxiang is not a responsible person. Although he comes from a poor family, he has the cool personality of the upper class. The passion and stability before marriage seemed to have disappeared after marriage. Finally, Wu Yuxiang was still having an affair with another woman even when Guo Wanying was having difficulty giving birth.

Life is not calm, and there are not so many romantic fairy tales. Guo Wanying did not enjoy the nourishment of love. Instead, she was assigned to work on a farm because Wu Yuxiang was classified as a rightist. She was raised pampered and pampered, but because of her marriage, she was reduced to the poorest situation.

But she did not despair. She took the child and sat through the most painful and tiring work on the farm, without any complaints on her lips. She is like this. When she makes a decision, she moves forward bravely, discovers that things are not as she imagined, and fully accepts the consequences. For Guo Wanying, complaining is meaningless. Only by recognizing reality, accepting and changing can make life better.

3. Be elegant and kind even in the midst of suffering

After being sent to the farm, Guo Wanying did not live a good life for the rest of her life. From the farm to the countryside, from the company of her children to the separation of her mother and her son, her life was full of suffering. The conditions were so difficult that she lived in a damp duck shed for a long time. She couldn't accept the mud and humidity, but she wouldn't complain. Instead, she found hay, and no matter how busy or tired she was, she would hold it in the sun to bask in the sun.

Her home was also confiscated. All the gold and silver had nothing to do with her, and she was even saddled with a huge debt. She had no fault in all this, it was just because she chose the wrong partner when she first married. If she hadn't had relatives abroad to help pay off the debt, this debt alone would have allowed her to spend her days in jail.

She is penniless, but still open-minded. She said: "Nothing in this world can really be preserved. Everything is like water. If it is flowing, it flows away. If it exists, it dries up." But she She never thought that when life got better, she could go back to college as an English teacher, but even greater suffering came.

Her salary was reduced and she was forced to move to a slum. The cold house could not be heated, but she still used the only pot she had to make tea for herself and cook cakes with simple ingredients. Afternoon tea has been a lifelong habit of hers, and she will do it whenever possible. Some people may think this is formalism, but for Guo Wanying, afternoon tea time is the only time she has to talk to herself.

She always liked to be clean, but she was punished to clean the toilet.

Many people choose to commit suicide in disasters, but for Guo Wanying, she accepts all the gifts of fate, whether they are good or bad. Whether she cherished her life or feared death, she finally managed to see the moonlight after the clouds cleared. In 1977, she finally got her justice and lived a peaceful old age.

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She always said that wearing makeup is a sign of respect for others, so until she was 89 years old, she was clean, wearing light makeup, elegant and reserved, and seemed to be radiating light all over. .

She said: "I have always liked flowers, all my life.

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