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This video, which is only 17 minutes, became popular on YouTube, showing the charm of a smile to the fullest. What magic makes a smile so penetrating?

Hugh Newman is a stamp keeper in the parking lot. Every owner who comes to stop and stamp will receive his smile. Everyone has troubles, but under the infection of his smile and words, the troubles are gone.

According to word of mouth, many people come here, even if there is a long queue, to find his seal, with only one purpose: to see his smile and get his praise.

Because of his superb smile charm, Hugh Newman changed his situation step by step: he resolved the administrator's censure, met the owner of the parking lot, went to the enviable TV station, and was personally witnessed by the then president ... His smile, like the wings of a butterfly that changed the world, easily changed his life situation.

However, all good things are made by grinding.

When he met a girl, his smile disappeared. The girl who took the ID photo, no matter how different Hugh Newman was, did not make her smile.

He can't figure out how to fail, so that his work is not in the state and he can't laugh anymore.

By chance, when he took a photo of a couple, he felt the power of a smile again and took a surprising effect. Because this photo shoot made him pay more attention to smiles and got his job back, he became a photographer who captured smiles.

When he picked up his smile again and continued to give people sincere praise, the happiness of turning the corner finally returned to him. Once, he met a woman in a wheelchair. After recalling her fond memories, he successfully photographed her bright smiling face.

This woman is the mother of the photography girl he has been eager to find. Seeing her mother smiling again, she asked why, and the girl started her journey to find a stamp man to repair Newman.

As you can imagine, they all met a happy ending in the end.

This video is called "Stamping" and can be found on WeChat. You can search it when you have time.

After watching this 17 minute short film, I conclude that you will have a new attitude and idea about life in the future. At least you will notice the power of smiling. Smile sincerely at the people around you, and you will find that life will get better and better.

However, looking at the whole movie, you will find that sometimes smiling doesn't necessarily work. For example, when Hugh Newman met a girl, all his smiling weapons failed.

The girl thinks this man is a fool, doing nothing all day. Going to her place is to interfere with her work and giggle all day.

In fact, everyone who has seen the video knows that this is not the case.

In the face of the owner of the stamp, Hugh Newman's smile is sincere and useful. Everyone can find their own advantages and say appropriate compliments.

However, after meeting the photographer girl, his trick failed.

Because you can't make a girl laugh and make him doubt what he has always thought, smiling can inspire people.

Finally, we found that it was not that the girl didn't like to laugh, but that she had a mother who was unhappy all day. Every time I go home and see my mother in a bad mood, how can she laugh?

After Hugh Newman found a new job and started smiling photography, he just adjusted the mood of the girl's mother and put on a smile. He was also blessed by this and finally reunited with the girl he liked in his heart.

Everyone likes the encouragement of others and the appreciation of their own advantages. However, if you can't find the key that can really make her happy, you can't really make her accept and be happy.

Hugh Newman was born with a different vision of discovery. For different people, he can find different advantages and then use different compliments. The parking lot is like this, and so am I as a photographer.

He is a great discoverer. After watching this movie, when I found the beauty of others, I at least gave us an inspiration:

Dig out the obvious advantages of others and praise them.

Balzac once said: the first person to describe a woman as a flower is a wise man; The second person described in this way is just so-so; The third kind of people compare women to flowers, which is purely stupid.

We add a little weight to the praise that others are used to, and it will not make others excited and impressed. If we dig out some unknown advantages of others and have unique advantages, the effect will be different.

For example, when Hugh Newman praised the parking lot owner, he stood in the boss's position and thanked him for providing jobs. If they are ordinary employees, they will only praise the boss for raising his salary and making wise decisions. Hearing Hugh Newman's different compliments, the parking lot manager was very happy and recommended him to his friends.

We all know the benefits of smiling. Smiling comes from praise, but we don't know how to praise. Clever praise of others, not necessarily directly praise this person, but praise what this person has done.

If the child does well in the math exam, you should not praise him directly: you are so smart. You should directly praise him for his hard work in mathematics. If you praise him, he will know that it is the result of his own efforts. If you praise this person, he doesn't know why he got good grades, but he will be misled.

Ok, do you remember the secret of making people smile?

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2020.04.07