How to be a mature man

A necessary condition for a mature man

First, pay attention to the promise: a mature man will never break his word. He attaches great importance to every promise he makes. Before making a wish, he will carefully consider whether his words can really come true. If he could, he would never say, and his words would be carried out. Everything he says makes you feel at ease and trustworthy.

A man with an unknown address, shooting at random and not taking action has nothing to do with maturity.

Second, don't talk big: a mature man never talks big casually. He will keep a proper silence and speak clearly but not noisily. Just drink a little wine and tell your story all over the table. You can hear it in half a room without a speaker. This kind of man will laugh at the audience at most, and no one will take your so-called "road to struggle" to heart.

Third, they are knowledgeable and reserved: they read books, accept new things and information, and constantly enrich their connotations. But they don't make public, their talents will only be displayed when necessary, and they will never deliberately show off to satisfy vanity. They are like mellow wine, the more you taste, the more delicious it becomes.

Fourth, broad-minded: mature men don't haggle over every ounce, don't covet petty advantages, don't care about small losses, and don't complain endlessly. Their eyes are never caught by trivial matters, and they are often "angels who turn back first" in small family quarrels.

Five, not self-centered: mature men respect themselves and know how to respect others. They are good at empathy, will consider problems from the standpoint of others, do not force others to accommodate themselves, and are good at cooperating with others. All men "like me" are typical little emperors and have not grown up.

6. Dare to admit mistakes: Mature men are not stubborn, can accept different opinions and are good at adopting good suggestions. They have the courage to bear the consequences of their improper decisions and never make excuses.

Seven. Strong-willed: Mature men have the psychological quality of never being confused. Once they set their own goal, they will work towards it. When encountering setbacks, they will analyze the reasons, learn lessons and correct their direction in time, but they will never give up easily. They will be very tired, but after the rest, they will start with confidence.

Eight, clean and tidy: mature men respect their appearance. They keep the hairstyle that suits them best, their chins are clean and stubble-free, their faces are not greasy, and they don't leave long nails. Clothes don't have to be famous brands, but they should be neat and generous, and they won't be wrinkled like couriers. They will never wear black shoes with white socks or travel in suits.

Respect for the old and love for the young: Mature men are caring, have a sense of social responsibility and have the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. He will give his seat to the elderly and pregnant women, donate money and materials to the disaster areas, help out-of-school children and donate blood voluntarily ... they may not do all these things, but they will never do nothing.

Ten, have hobbies: They are not robots who only know how to work, but know how to use hobbies to adjust their tense nerves, which makes them interesting. No wonder women say that men with hobbies are not easy to go bad.

Mature men face all kinds of things.

Men are no longer boys because they are mature. The boy's world is simple, and the people around him are simpler; Men, on the other hand, face all kinds of people every day, whether it's business or private. With his personality, strength and credibility, he comes and goes calmly in the crowd, and men are full of extraordinary charm.

friend

At the high temperature of 40 degrees Celsius, several men gathered from different directions of the city in the scorching sun, driving, taking the subway or "taking a taxi" just to play a bridge game! Their card skills are among Zhongbo people, and they are very poor. They were evenly matched and the battle was fierce. They often blush and have thick necks for a card.

Two hours later, the game was over. They either drove, took the subway or "took a taxi" and returned to their respective corners in different directions-

They are friends. The world of mortals is ten feet, and fame and fortune are easy to gather and disperse; Ups and downs, on and off, friends have experienced several times. Men will not show off their friends' failures with their own success, nor will they be ashamed of their friends' greatness. Men never ask their friends how painful they are, but only say, "What can I do for you?" Whether it's tea or spirits, it's all about the heart and liver!

colleague

A person will not hesitate to praise his colleague as a very excellent talent on any occasion, but privately he thinks he is better. He and his colleagues cooperate tacitly, so that everyone's characteristics can be given full play; When paying dividends or commissions, men clearly record every cooperation of their colleagues and never put others' shares into their pockets-"money is earned, not earned." He will play poker with his colleagues all night, go to work in a daze the next day, or get drunk and ask for leave to go home to sleep ... He will ride happily on the sunshine avenue with his colleagues, but he will have the upper hand without hesitation when crossing the wooden bridge!

boss

Always keep a gentleman's distance from the boss, so it is "inconvenient" to take it out on him when the boss is depressed. He won't do everything himself and let his boss wipe his ass everywhere as a panacea; But in a certain field, he is absolutely irreplaceable. In the boss's impression, he is not a "self-driving faster" person, but a reliable person. Although he sometimes plays cards with his boss for dinner, he will never please his boss to get a position that doesn't belong to him. Of course, I won't forget him if I reward him for his merits. Men are not afraid to talk about "salary increase" with their bosses, but they must assess the situation, make full preparations and have answers!

domestic

When the spring breeze is booming, he also talks with his family about work; However, when encountering setbacks, men silently grit their teeth, and the household registration book is always delivered to their mothers on time. Parents often overestimate their son, feel at ease with his fate, and never understand his ups and downs in the plain. He seldom goes home, but he takes care of everything at home: installing a telephone, repairing the water heater, buying electrical appliances, installing a security door ... Every time he goes home, he always brings a lot of useless things: massagers, health care devices, electrotherapy devices and many hearsay supplements, fish oil and so on. Parents know that this is not that the child is stupid, but that the son cares a lot.

love

Men often think that their lover is her at first sight, and then hesitate, hide and care about him, so that girls who have no impression of him begin to notice him. The girl tried to avoid his feelings, but secretly evaluated him and slowly accepted this person. The man accidentally missed the "GAMEOVER" signal in his lover's eyes and continued the love game at arm's length. After several rounds, the girl became insecure and guessed that she was too sensitive and wrong. Just when the girl is ready to give up, the man can always wake up from ignorance in time, offer flowers and kisses together, and win a dizzy lover. If one day the tortured girl questioned him, he would confidently say, "You obviously took a fancy to me first!" " "

Advice from mature men to men

1, men are the main body of society, whether you believe it or not. So men should have a sense of responsibility.

Before the age of 2.25, please remember that love is usually false, or it is not as pure and eternal as you think. If you are over 25 years old, then you should understand this truth.

3, eating 70% full is the most comfortable. Please keep your girlfriend at most 70%.

Please take good care of yourself before you are 30. You see a doctor in the first 30 years, and you see a doctor in the last 30 years. If you are over 30, you will naturally understand this truth.

5. Career is far more important than love. If the cause can't last forever, then love can only be regarded as a flash in the pan.

6. Don't accept girls who pursue you easily. Women chasing men sandwich yarn. If you fall into it easily, you will find that you will miss a lot of things and lose a lot of things.

7. Please believe that any problem that can be solved with money is not a problem. If you think money is king, rich women have it, and women without money don't, then. Women are not a problem.

8. Please always be optimistic. Every man has his lovely place, and the unlovable place is that he doesn't face life positively.

9. Don't let the same woman hurt you twice in a row. A good horse doesn't look back for a reason. If you have seriously considered breaking up, please don't make any reluctant moves.

10, if you and your ex-girlfriend can become friends, then you should ask yourself: Why? If you are still friends after breaking up, there are only two possibilities: you were just having fun and didn't give each other the truest feelings. Or: someone must be paying silently, with no regrets!

1 1. Never believe a woman's sweet words when she is in love. It is said that women love sweet talk, but men prefer it.

12, please don't worry too much and feel inferior about your appearance or height. People are animals, but they are different from animals. Congenital conditions are not an excuse to stop you from living a good life. Please believe that a person's heart is far better than his appearance. If someone judges a book by its cover, you shouldn't care too much. Because in a sense, he is just an animal. Will you be angry with animals?

13, when lovelorn, there are only two possibilities, either you love her, or she doesn't love you, or vice versa. Then, when the person you love no longer loves you, or never loved you. You have no regrets, because all you have lost is someone who doesn't love you.

14, please don't cheat kind girls. There are too few kind girls in this world.

15, you can't think that money is everything, at least, money can't cure AIDS.

16, please be confident. You are a landscape, there is no need to look up in other people's landscapes.

17, no matter how hard it is hit, please believe that the sun is new every day as long as life is still there.

18。 Love can never be a balance. If you want to be happy in love, you must be willing to be sad.

19, if you like a mm who thinks others should treat her well, please give up as soon as possible. No one should be nice to a person. If she doesn't understand this truth, then she doesn't know how to cherish at all.

20. Don't "find" gf because of loneliness. Lonely men should learn to taste loneliness. Please remember: even if you are lonely, there must be someone like you in the dark night sky in the distance. Lonely people are different, but the starry sky you look up at is unique.

2 1. Nothing lasts forever. And don't ask what is forever. There is a lot of helplessness in life. Please try to enrich yourself and your life. Please be kind to life.

Men have a lot of helplessness, life is very tired, but it is meaningful because of life. When you think you have nothing, you at least have time. Time can heal all wounds. So please don't cry. ...

Mature definition

Maturity is a temperament, a realm and a symbol.

Maturity is a kind of tranquility, a kind of peace and a kind of warmth.

Mature people are tolerant. He knows that no one is perfect and unintentional mistakes and misunderstandings are always inevitable. Forgiving others is forgiving yourself.

Mature people are strong and open-minded. He knows that the road of life is not all flowers, smiles and harmony, but also thorns and mud. Rocks and thunderstorms. Life is made up of setbacks and difficulties. Therefore, in the face of all misfortune, he will smile.

Mature people are contented and optimistic. He will find his place in the social coordinate system. He will not pursue it, but seek it enthusiastically. He will work hard and live happily.

Mature people are positive and confident. When the world is cold and human feelings are warm and cold, he can be silent, the dust is complex and the situation changes, and he can calmly deal with it. At any time, he can have a rich and broad world in his heart.

Maturity is not cynicism, muddling along and pessimism. Maturity is easy, dull and happy.

The standard of a mature man

1. Mature men should have an economic foundation, especially mature enough to want to be a woman's husband.

2. Mature men should have a career foundation. Maybe not every man can make a fortune, but if you think you have accomplished nothing, how can you stand in the eyes of women?

Mature men know what they want, not everything. Know how to persist and know how to give up.

Mature men dare to take responsibility, although some mistakes are not caused by him.

Mature men are tolerant, and caring too much is the most unforgivable mistake of men.

6. Mature men are not clever, but have great wisdom.

7. A mature man, his words and deeds can make women learn a lot, while a boy can only let women teach him.

8. A mature man knows how to cherish and take care of women and how to go out for an outing. He must not be the one who ran ahead by himself.

9. Mature men don't quarrel with women in the street.

10. A mature man will not force a woman to wear clothes that he likes but she doesn't like.

1 1. Mature men don't play low-level jokes on women casually.

12. A mature man lets a woman know that she is wrong, but he won't make her lose face.

13. Mature men make women relax without making women nervous.

14. Mature men can be father and son in front of women.

15. A mature man will train his son into a real man.

The behavior of mature men

A mature man must be very filial to his parents. He would never let his parents wait at the entrance of the village when the north wind roared on New Year's Eve, nor would he let them go home with expensive prescriptions and cook a bowl of ginger soup to deal with their illness. When his parents came to his clean and bright company in rags, he would hug them with a smile and pat their dust. He will definitely call his parents often, and even be interested in buying a stamp and writing a letter to his family, just like when he was a student.

A mature man must love his wife very much. This kind of love is not only to say "I love you" in my mouth, but also to love him in my heart, in the softest place in my heart, through my eyes and always to my wife. When his wife is sick, he must hold her like a child and warm her deeply in his arms; He will sleep with his wife on a rainy night with thunder and lightning, no matter how important the entertainment outside is; His wife's first gray hair must be his first discovery. Then, he will eat every dish cooked by his wife with gratitude, even a pot of rice porridge cooked in a hurry and a dish of pickles. In winter, he will touch his wife's wrinkles with his generous palm and mutter, "You are still so beautiful!" " "And at this moment, her eyes must be shining with tears!

A mature man must often do housework, because he knows that home is a harbor with the same home. Even if there is a domestic nanny, the wife loves to sleep in the bedding arranged by her husband and wear his washed clothes. She loves watching him mop the floor-how handsome and sexy that posture is in her eyes!

A mature man will definitely work hard to make money. He will never be discouraged even if he gains little in the end. He will struggle all his life and never show any depression in front of his wife and children when he is down and out. A mature man must be optimistic and diligent.

A mature man will go shopping with his wife. He will think: I dare not refuse the leader's request to work overtime on weekends. It is even more important for a wife to ask for shopping on weekends, because this is an important pleasure in her life, and her wife is always ten thousand times more important than the leader. Moreover, he will enjoy every new dress that his wife tries on, and even obviously intends to buy himself a suit, but he insists on buying his wife a skirt with suspenders and a lipstick.

A mature man will never cheat. He knows how to make himself elegant and healthy. Moreover, he will never give other women a chance to fall in love with him, nor will he allow himself to vaguely appreciate women, thus making his impulse out of control. He firmly believes that the talents around him are the most worth cherishing. He knows better: the so-called "men are not bad, women don't love", that only bad women love; "Men have money, women send it to their doors", which is sent by women who are greedy for money. Good women don't love married men.

A mature man must love his children very much, because children are a part of his body, soul and even life. Whether he is ugly or beautiful, healthy or weak, prodigy or ordinary people, he will always be his heart. He knows how to protect children and how not to spoil them.

A mature man must love his job very much. Whether he is a blue-collar worker, a white-collar worker, a doctor or a teacher, he is good at having fun at work. He unites his colleagues, cares about others and is willing to do good. His salary is not high, but he is always busy happily. He remembers an American saying: "Men who stay at home and don't go out to work are the most annoying". He knows that a full life can make people more energetic than a strong body. A mature man is always neatly dressed, generous and decent, with neat hair and no beard. His clothes always smell of the sun. He can be asymmetrical, but he must be humorous and elegant. At work, mature men's faces are always filled with the warmth of a smile!

A mature man must be very patriotic. He knows that his parents gave him life, but the motherland can make his life broader. A mature man will never be a corrupt official. He knows that it is more interesting to have happiness in a down-to-earth manner than to have a pile of money in fear. A mature man won't play mahjong and gamble. He refused to stay up late and refused any speculative games in life. Mature men sometimes drink, but they don't lose their temper. A mature man will chat online occasionally, but he will not indulge in pornographic web pages, let alone online dating. He knows best how absurd and boring virtual love is when it leaves the soil of reality.

A mature man is a mountain, he is severe and rich; He is a sea, broad and gentle; He is a tree, stalwart and strong; However, he is a sonorous poem that expresses wisdom, persistence, profundity and mystery. ...

Dress matching of mature men

Mature men don't necessarily just refer to men over thirty. Who is mature is usually said from the perspective of temperament. Nowadays, many young people like to mix cool, but in fact, from the girl's point of view, it is artificial. Pretend to be annoying. If it is really handsome, it doesn't matter. If you're not handsome, it's really disgusting. Many people think that suits and ties are the best. I agree with this here, but for younger men, suits and leather shoes are not suitable, because they are all for money. You can't wear suits and shoes, but they are all parallel imports. Generally, young men don't have their own careers and want to buy real goods. Brand clothing like Ba Jin is obviously unrealistic and inappropriate, but you want to feel mature, so leisure suit is the best. Cheap, handsome, with a mature taste, it is completely different from the feeling of being cool. To sum up, if you are rich and not young, you should wear a suit and tie. If you don't have money, you can wear shirts casually in leisure suit, and the rate of return will rise.