A good marriage relationship is to empower and nourish each other.

Why do many marriages break up when they are walking? They are either very wronged, unable to find the motivation to grow, or lose money. When giving is not proportional to getting, the relationship is over!

There has never been a close relationship between parents and children in the world. Only by knowing this can you stick to it!

If you don't give, to the other person, you are just a vampire, or just a parasite. You don't grow up, you don't love yourself, and you are worthless. Your relationship will collapse!

A really good marriage relationship is to empower and nourish each other and live a better life together!

(1) have the same spirit and can nourish each other.

Last year, a news that "South Korea's Samsung was claimed 8.6 billion won for marrying a bodyguard" once caused a heated discussion on the Internet.

Li Fuzhen, the daughter of South Korean Samsung, was born in a wealthy family. She has all the elegance, beauty, talent and status of a rich boy.

In 20 10- 12, Li Fuzhen was the head of Silla Hotel and Samsung Everland.

On 20 15 1.9, Li Fuzhen was appointed as an independent director by China CITIC Group Corporation (CITIC). It is reported that Li Fuzhen, as an independent director of CITIC Group, will receive a reward of HK$ 350,000 from CITIC Group.

And Ren Youzai of unknown origin was Li Fuzhen's father's bodyguard when he met Li Fuzhen.

Li Fuzhen asked him to study economic management abroad, which he thought was a very painful thing. When he divorced, he demanded compensation for mental damage. And when the economic conditions are very poor, they also strongly demand the custody of the children. Get a divorce fee of 8.6 billion won and appeal!

After their marriage failed, the man showed himself more as a victim. Let him grow up and become a reason for a huge claim.

However, in fact, it is normal for such a marriage to collapse. In addition to the mismatch between birth and economic status, there is also a mismatch at the spiritual level. It's like playing ball. I hit it, but the other party couldn't catch it at all. I say something, you don't know what I'm talking about.

The match of true love is not wealth or status, but something that knows you, understands you and is close to you.

Not importune, but natural attraction and integration. Even if there are contradictions and problems, there will be no such thing as "chickens talk to ducks". Such two people cannot empower each other. Not to mention mutual achievements!

Many people are surprised at their 45-year-old aunt, because her husband often flicked ash into his flowerpot and was laughed at for reading, so he chose to divorce. I admire this aunt's courage. She knows that being with a man who doesn't understand is a great loss. Lose her inner poetry, romance and love. When another man happily commented on her words, helped her water the flowers, pruned the branches and watched the sunset together, she knew she had found love.

If in life, you give your partner enjoyment instead of a cage, this is the right person.

(2) When women stand up in the soul, they will gain strength.

There was once a woman who married a domestic violence man and complained about being abused by her husband on the Internet every day.

Everyone advised her to get a divorce, but she called us meddling. Speaking of her husband, she loves her, but she can't help it after drinking.

It's no use trying to persuade her, she still lives in a state of self-comfort.

Send us photos of her being beaten than her husband every day, saying that she is tortured like a person every day, and then show her that her husband spent a lot of money after waking up.

In the future, I will compare the photos of smiling like flowers before marriage with the terrible appearance of no love and dull eyes now. Then, I exposed the gift my husband bought.

With this cycle, the spectators are tired.

They waste time in a morbid indulgence and lose the meaning of life in a passive acceptance.

Fan Bingbing, a famous movie star, has not only sharp eyes but also a strong heart. When marrying into a rich family became a fashion, Ye Fan was asked what he thought. She said: "I don't need to marry into a giant, I am a giant!" " "

Yes, I don't need to be attached to anyone. My soul belongs to me.

I don't need money to solve the unforgivable contempt and abuse after you beat me up. I can go anywhere I want, see the scenery I want, and love the people I want to love.

This is what a woman should look like.

Frances McDouman, three billboards outside Ebbing, Missouri heroine, Oscar winner: my family, Joe Coen (husband) and Pedro Cohen (son), these two men grew up under the care of their mothers who advocated gender equality. They also look at themselves, each other and the people around them with such values. I know you are proud of me, which makes me very happy. Next, I want to express some of my views. If possible, I'd like to invite all nominated female filmmakers to stand up like me. Mel (Meryl Streep), if you stand up first, everyone else will stand up! Actresses, filmmakers, producers, female directors, screenwriters, photographers, composers, designers and so on, all come forward! "

Yes, women should stand up, no matter in any relationship.

This requires the awakening of every woman's self-awareness. This is the basis for women to stand up.

A woman who succumbs to money and temporary comfort cannot stand up. There is no way to authorize others.

③ The relationship of mutual nourishment is mutual achievement.

In a happy marriage, men and women support and nourish each other.

They are not only healthy and rosy, but also have enough confidence and satisfaction for the future. They have a happy family, hand in hand through life one test after another.

Mr. Qian Zhongshu, who wrote books all his life, became a great man. Mr. Jiang Yang translated classics, some of which were handed down from generation to generation. Their child Qian Yuan is also an excellent educator.

During Mr. Qian Zhongshu's serious illness in his later years, in order not to make his husband sad, Mr. Jiang Yang alone suffered the bad news of his daughter's illness and the pain and suffering of sending white-haired people to black-haired people.

Without love, Mr. Qian's achievements in his life would not be so remarkable. There will be no classic works like Fortress Besieged, which will be handed down to the world and become a generation!

Their love is that the woman said: I saw your talent and felt your goal. I support you all the way and keep moving towards your goal. At the same time, don't forget to improve yourself, keep up with your pace, and achieve your talents in self-improvement.

The man said: I understand your understanding and dedication. We spend every hurdle of life together, hand in hand towards happiness.

Therefore, in marriage, two people respect each other, love each other, support each other and make 100% efforts together. Achieve each other, two people shine in their respective fields, and each takes what he needs!

Such a family is to empower each other, live a high life and nourish the marriage relationship of others!

In this marriage, you are still you, I am still me, but we grow up together to be better and more perfect people.

(4) A good relationship is to get peace of mind and accompany each other.

The significance of mutual empowerment is that no matter at which stage of life, each other can give each other real understanding and consideration. When middle-aged people are greasy, I can shoulder the responsibility of a family with you. I know you when you need love from the depths of your soul.

If a man who changes careers can listen to you: No matter what decision you make, I will support you and understand you! Men will not abandon this friendship! Better than asking for it.

Many women just wait for men to give gifts, and men will bear the burden of the family. When I love you, I can accept your little waywardness. When I don't love you, you are as annoying as a parasite.

Therefore, an equal relationship must be one of mutual support and equal strength.

And nourishment is not one-sided. I give you strength, you give me strength.

Domestic violence, disrespect, three views, and the cold war are all attrition relationships. Learn to stop this kind of behavior that harms intimacy.

The significance of mutual nourishment is that I nourished myself first. I can find nourishing power in my hobby. Then nourish this family with my beauty and nourish everyone in our family.

This kind of nourishment not only requires women to pay blindly, but also requires both sexes to nourish themselves and give back to others.

The law of conservation of energy tells us that continuous loss needs to be supplemented.

The form of supplement is not only from the outside, but also from its own absorption and acceptance. Cultivating a hobby is an effective means of self-nourishment.

In the magnificent marriage life, whether static or dynamic, it has made you feel that the energy field is getting weaker and weaker, and you need to stop and take a look at your relationship.

Ask yourself if you are consuming your energy and nourishing you.

The intimate relationship that goes on together should be a relationship that empowers and nourishes each other.

About the author:

Sally Miao, a treasure mother born in 1980s, likes to be detached and pretentious, and strives to be an elegant strong woman all her life. While going to work, I am writing, and I am committed to being a high-quality slash youth. Weibo @ Elegant Strong Woman Sally, @ Elegant Strong Woman, WeChat official account @ Elegant Strong Woman