The lesson of blood! My sister's advice.

It is said that university is the best platform to exercise people. Yes, everyone can learn a lot of knowledge and experience from it and make more friends. The reason why I want to write this article is just a sudden rise, because many younger brothers and sisters have asked me before, I don't know how to live in college. I feel very slim. To tell the truth, my senior is still confused after reading junior year, but I still want to give you all kinds of advice based on my personal negative experience and previous experience gained from others or online, hoping to help some people.

To tell the truth, every stage of college is very important, mainly depending on how you grasp it. For me, of course, I think junior year is the most important, because it is a crucial year connecting the preceding with the following. During this year, you can also learn something and have time to enrich yourself and your resume. But in their senior year, some of them will be busy looking for internships, jobs, or driving licenses, graduation projects, defense and so on. If they wait until the third year of high school to regret it, I think college will really be in vain. Then someone will ask, can I play freshman and sophomore? Actually, it's not. Playing here doesn't mean meeting, shopping, playing games and falling in love every day, but it means that you can participate in more departmental activities and competitions, cultivate your hobbies and make more like-minded friends. Senior, I am a negative example. Freshmen and sophomores are basically living in a muddle. Every day, except for classes, I stay in the dormitory and watch movies. I didn't learn some skills before, and my junior year began to regret it! Therefore, freshmen can still be confused, sophomores must have their own goals, and it is not too late for juniors to regret. Be sure to have your own plan and don't waste college time. It's best not to fail in college and not to cheat. Don't listen to them say that failing college is over. That's all nonsense! Once you fail in the exam, you have to prepare for the make-up exam with your book in your arms during the holiday. Others are playing and you are reviewing. It's miserable! And as long as one subject fails, you can't join the party, cancel all the evaluations, and there is no scholarship. When my senior was a freshman, she was playful and failed the class without a good review. This is a bloody lesson, and many evaluations were erased because she failed in the subject. Fortunately, after my sophomore year, I decided to study hard and never failed again. At the end of my sophomore year, I got a scholarship. Although rare, it is also an honor. It is not terrible to fail in freshman year. If corrected in time, it will only ruin a year. But if you fail every year, or even more subjects, you have to worry about not graduating or repeating grades.

? When I get to college, I arrange more time for myself, but some people don't know how to coordinate. First of all, professional study is really important, very important, very important! Say the important things three times! I go to college to learn more knowledge and improve myself. Without solid professional knowledge, you will feel that you don't know what to do and your professional knowledge is vague when you enter social work in the future. Some people can work without reading, but they don't know how to use it because of the lack of a certain theoretical basis. If you have good professional knowledge and experience, your future development will surely climb. Don't think that learning is not important. Some big companies will still look at their grades, but more importantly, they can dabble in other professional-related knowledge. It is always good to learn more.

Then there are departmental activities and part-time jobs. Of these three proportions, I think learning is the most important, accounting for 50%, departmental affairs accounting for 25%, and internship accounting for 25%. Participate in more departmental activities, you can exercise your ability and expand your contacts. At the beginning, my senior was also an officer of the student union, responsible for the simple affairs of the department. For me, joining the student union is nothing more than following the crowd and taking a comprehensive test. Because I am an officer, I don't think I exercise much. In addition, I heard some seniors and sisters say that the student union is a little dark, so there is no running for cadres or anything. Maybe it's because I'm lazy and timid and didn't go to my favorite department, but it's not that I don't encourage everyone to join the department and want to get exercise. Don't add too many departments, choose according to your own energy, and have the opportunity to enter the practice department. That kind of contact with external enterprises is more, and there will be some practical experience, which is very tiring. At the beginning, the director of the practice department of our school started his own tutor and managed the "that one" venue attached to the school. It felt very good. Moreover, being a cadre of the student union or other organizations can not only increase the comprehensive test, but also cultivate a good relationship with teachers, which is also very helpful for future resumes. In addition, there are young volunteers. This club has many meaningful activities, many people join, many teams and many people know. My senior regretted not joining this club at first, and her circle of friends was small. I joined two clubs and student unions when I was a freshman, but neither of them was my interest. Retire after one year, and the student union will work for two years.

Finally, part-time job. Some people want to earn some pocket money and accumulate some experience in university part-time, which is very good, such as joining the work-study center of the school and taking a part-time job outside the school. However, don't skip classes and delay your studies for a part-time job. The same is true. Many people around me became department-level cadres as soon as they were freshmen, but they quit in their sophomore year, because both departments and part-time jobs are quite time-consuming, so let them choose according to their own actual conditions and not delay their studies.

Senior sister thinks universities should take part in more activities, competitions and so on. On the one hand, you can get the relevant certificates, on the other hand, even if you don't win the prize, you have some good experience, at least you have been trained. Participating in activities is also a way to meet friends. Sometimes you will meet excellent people and let others appreciate you. Senior sister is ashamed to talk about it. She has participated in only a handful of competitions. She has participated in class competitions, English style competitions, psychological essay competitions, public relations planning competitions and national English knowledge competitions. Some of them won the prize, others didn't. I feel that they are far behind some people, such as speech competitions, small-scale competitions in the hospital, host competitions, talent competitions, skill competitions and so on. And I usually join a team. But I suggest you take part in more competitions, so you will get unexpected gains, not like your senior sister.

The certificates here include various honorary certificates, competition awards, qualification certificates, CET-4 and CET-6, national level-2, scholarship certificates and so on. At present, the basic certificates required by universities are generally CET-4 and CET-6. Senior students seldom pass English knowledge when they are freshmen. At the beginning of school reform, freshmen can register if they meet the requirements, but senior students failed to prepare for CET-6 in their sophomore year. What a mess! So I plan to brush it again next semester in my junior year. Ha ha. You don't have to brush CET-6, just to make your resume score look better, and some companies will screen people with similar conditions according to CET-6. It's up to you to brush or not. But I don't think CET-6 is expensive, so it's better to brush it if you have time and energy. Other honorary certificates and award-winning certificates are all for preparing for future employment, except those who are not worried about work, have family relations and have a career, and feel that these are not important. There are many categories of second-grade words. You don't have to take an exam in computer major, and you will have a four-level certificate after graduation. Although the secondary certificate is not compulsory now, it is still very practical, such as office and access, which is of great help to the future work. Qualification certificates such as certificates and psychological counselors will come according to their future needs, so don't lose more than gain. There are many people around me who think that more certificates are guaranteed. I think so, but I can bring any certificate, such as driver's license, which is very practical. Don't spend extra time and money to take many certificates that I won't need in the future.

Senior sister is not very clear about internship, because she hasn't started internship yet, and recently she is worried that she can't find a good internship unit in the future, so she has been asking senior sister, junior and junior. However, according to some information I got, internships are usually in winter and summer vacations, or some are arranged in the next semester of senior year. The school has plans, or you can find them yourself. If you can't find it yourself, and there are no relatives and friends to introduce you, then wait for the school to arrange it. However, the general school arrangement is not very good, the internship is unpaid, and the work is odd jobs. It is best to be able to find relatives and friends to introduce you. After all, China has relations to take care of. If you don't want to rely on relatives, such as me, you can go to a recruitment website, such as 58. Call the internship unit first to prevent being cheated. However, everything is unknown, and it is best to find a suitable internship unit. Sometimes, according to your qualifications, you can also understand your own shortcomings. While you still have time, you can master some practical skills, such as excel, word, PPT, PS, Java and so on. And choose according to your own professional needs.

University is the best time to cultivate interest, because you have enough time to do what you like, cultivate more hobbies and read widely. For example, some like playing ball, some like photography, some like musical instruments, and some like dancing, but since you have chosen a certain interest, you must stick to it and don't give up halfway. Many people around my senior started to learn guitar, but they gave up after learning it for a while. Therefore, what to learn should be based on your own actual situation. It is best to train in freshman and sophomore, and there is not much time for junior and senior.

It is popular to take a driver's license test in colleges and universities now. On the one hand, it can add points, on the other hand, it is also a skill. To get a driver's license, it is best to take it during college, and register at home or school according to your own situation. This period of time is also abundant, and it is cheaper than taking a driver's license after work, and there are fewer hidden rules. Many people around my senior have already got their driver's licenses. I found it difficult to get a driver's license at first, and I didn't have that much money. And I didn't even dare to take the exam when I saw all kinds of coach's fierce things in Weibo Post Bar, so I haven't signed up yet. But driving test is really practical. When applying for a job, your driver's license can also give you extra points. Some people may think that even if I take the exam now, I can't afford to buy a car and drive, and I can take the exam if I need it after work. I thought so before my junior year. I thought it was not as easy and necessary for women to learn to drive as men. I hope I can afford to buy a car in the future but forget my driver's license knowledge, or my boyfriend can drive. But I didn't want to drive until my junior year. Now, with the development of economy, private cars are also very popular. Just like a smart phone, you can buy a car according to your salary for one or two years after graduation. If you want to take a driver's license after work, you will feel how good it is to finish the college exam. When I took the driver's license test at the university, there were many driving schools and many people applied for it. There will be a unified vehicle transfer. Secondly, it is convenient to have time. The coach will think that you are still a student and will not ask for anything if you have no financial ability, but if you get a driver's license after work, some coaches may ask you to send gifts and money. Or if there is a conflict between your working hours and your driving practice time, is it not good to ask for leave from your superiors all the time? Nowadays, it's best to rely on yourself. Learning a driver's license is always useful. It is also convenient to drive to work when you have the ability to work in the future. Don't worry about crowded buses, and don't worry about being late for work. I decided to learn to drive in the last semester of my senior year based on the experience of an experienced person. I still regret not learning to drive before. If you have the conditions, you can go to school early in the winter and summer vacations of your freshman and sophomore, and get the certificate early.

? Senior sister explained according to the situation around her, hoping to communicate with you more. Every junior year, people will begin to prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination, civil service examination and bank examination. What the senior here wants to say is that you must follow your own ideas and don't go with the flow, otherwise it is easy to give up. Senior's family's economic conditions are not very good, so our professional entrance examination is not worth the loss, and we are afraid that we can't stick to it, so we don't plan to take the exam. If your major is suitable for postgraduate entrance examination, and you have a certain economic foundation and firm ideas, then go. After all, some graduate students are more popular. Examining civil servants is also a choice for students. Relatively decent and stable, suitable for people who like stability, but there is not much room for promotion, unless you have excellent abilities or relationships, and it is difficult to apply. After all, it is to select reserve talents for the country. If I take the bank exam, my senior also heard from my senior recently. I didn't pay much attention before. My tendency is to take the bank exam, which is divided into written test and interview. Every year from March to April, September,165438+1October, there will be school recruitment. Generally, only fresh graduates will be recruited. At this time, pay more attention to official website of each bank and prepare the audit materials one month in advance. Generally, only management, economics and law can apply for the exam, and many banks can be tested at the same time. You can ask Du Niang yourself for details. And only for seniors and juniors. Those who want to apply must hurry up. If you apply for both the postgraduate entrance examination and the bank examination, it is recommended to take the bank examination first. After all, there is only one chance to take the bank exam in the university, and you can take it after the postgraduate entrance examination. But I heard that some people can't get into the bank. Even the master students who graduated from 985/2 1 1 started as tellers. You can imagine how fierce the competition is, how tired it is, how much pressure it is, and how many business goals they have to achieve. If you want to be promoted, you still have to rely on your family and bank relations. It is not suitable for people who want to show their ambitions in one of them, just like civil servants, so you need to be careful when applying for banks. Everything depends on what you want to do in the future.

Nowadays, many people change their majors because they don't like their majors or listen to their parents' wishes, especially in the first semester of freshman year. Many people around my senior have changed their majors in medicine, accounting and nuclear science. But you should change your major according to your real thoughts, and don't choose blindly. Maybe now you feel that your major is not good, you are not interested, or you feel that your future employment is not good, but which industry will have no pressure after coming out? My senior studied business administration at first, and then went to marketing in different directions. At the beginning, she also wanted to transfer to accounting, thinking that accounting was suitable for girls, and the employment was good and stable. But I didn't transfer money for some reason, and I'm glad I didn't, because it's really troublesome to make accounts. Learning essence really depends on perseverance, and you have to work hard for upward research all your life. Many friends who study accounting are complaining and tired. But the key point is that I began to like my major later, and I felt that the class atmosphere was very strong and the students were very cute. However, the senior is not opposed to changing majors, but thinks that the major is not good or not. Maybe you don't like it now. After a while, you may find that the major you once hated is also quite interesting, and the major you have always wanted to study may not be as good as you thought, so you should have a correct attitude and learn to accept it instead of always looking at it with colored glasses. I think marketing is much more interesting than accounting now, covering a wide range, including sales, planning, public relations and so on. This is not what you want to promote and sell! But if you still feel that your major is not suitable for you after studying for a period of time, then you should switch to your favorite major. It's best to get better before sophomore year, and the more you delay, the more trouble you get. Actually, another option is to minor in a double degree if you have enough time and energy. My senior didn't minor in it at first, because she thought it would conflict with the first major, and this major was very tiring, so it was better to concentrate on learning a major well.

Speaking of this topic, seniors are still sensitive, but it's a pity that single dog is still a junior. I want to burst into tears in an instant! However, I still have to do my duty as a senior and give you advice. Love is not a compulsory course in college, but an elective course, which makes me lucky and costs me my life. Although my seniors are envious of meeting the right person in college, some of them fall in love because of loneliness and even delay their studies. There are many breakups in college, and many of them persist for a long time until graduation, which makes many people think that falling in love in college is just for fun. So is there really true love in college? Yes! Senior feels that if you really meet that person, you should know more about him and tolerate him more. How long two people can walk depends on the running-in of their personalities and their longevity. Don't care too much about appearance and figure, but about a person's inner self. Even if a person's appearance is glamorous at first, he will eventually become old and ugly. The best state of love is that two people dislike each other but never give up. So, use the eyes that find beauty to find the right person. Don't talk about love and don't be discouraged. After all, it is still difficult to meet the right person in college. Just like the senior year, the proportion of singles in universities is still very high. Don't be ashamed of being single. Besides, don't think that falling in love will make you happy. There are some lovers around my senior, and it was good at first. After a while, they began to complain and quarrel with each other, and finally broke up when they couldn't stand it. And falling in love also costs a lot, takes up a lot of time and is sometimes troublesome. At this time, you will feel that the original love is not as beautiful as you think. Being single is also good, because you can use this time to enrich yourself and do something meaningful to make yourself better without worrying about falling in love. No one will love you when you know you love yourself. What should come will always come. There will always be someone crossing the ocean, approaching you and hugging you. All you have to do is wait for the flowers to bloom and the breeze to blow.

Well, the above is the advice given by senior sister according to various points, hoping to help more people. I hope you have a happy college time. Do what you want while you are young!

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