How can I get my boyfriend to spend money for you?

Let friends spend money for you? Do this!

1, understand each other's values.

While understanding each other's personality, we should also understand his money values. Don't be afraid, let alone wait until later to start talking about many things. The sooner we talk, the harder it is to talk. This is also to see if two people are suitable as soon as possible. If the other person has always been an "iron rooster", then change it as soon as possible.

Even if a man is temporarily poor, it may not make you live a very rich life at once, but he is willing to work hard for it, at least let you fully feel his sincerity to you. So at the beginning, you can tell him directly: "I hope our love can go further and get along comfortably and naturally, so I will tell you directly what I have in the future." I hope you don't mind.

"In the future, I hope you can be generous to me. I don't want anything from you, but I care if you are willing to pay for me. While you pay for me, I will give you feedback accordingly.

2, timely expression, learn to put forward effective requirements.

For example, Valentine's Day and birthdays, you want to receive gifts. I prefer you to tell him your expectations and express your expectations on how he can spend money for you in time. "Dear, I recently saw a lovely skirt, which is very suitable for my birthday present. I want to wear it to have dinner with you that day, ok? " Look, baby, is it covered with XX birthday presents? Or "this bouquet of roses tells me that it wants to go home with us." This is much better than in the future when he ignores you because he doesn't understand your needs, and you sulk or break up alone. I never advocate that girls are too tortuous and let boys guess. They are all adults, so it doesn't matter if they are direct.

3. Learn to give positive feedback.

Anyway, when he gives you money (buys you something/presents), you should give him some positive feedback from the moment you receive it. Even if he gives you a lipstick made of dead Barbie powder, you should express your gratitude at the first time and affirm his contribution: "Wow, thank you for the lipstick the baby gave me. This color is really special. I'll go home and show you later. " Let them envy me. "It's good to have a child. This is my favorite food. Thank you. Let me kiss you. " This method is also applicable to different places. You can send more emoticons or open videos. The next time you meet, you will go to see him with a gift from him, and your feelings will heat up even more. After receiving your positive feedback, he will feel that his contribution is worthwhile, can be seen by you, can play a positive role in your relationship, and will naturally be willing to pay more for you in the future.

4. Share the cost in love.

A long-term love can not be separated from the joint efforts and efforts of both men and women, including equal economic contributions. Of course, I'm not suggesting that all expenses should be AA. I just think that in love, it's best to share the cost or always pay and accept. When he bought you a brand-name bag, you might as well give him something similar in return. He treated you to a big meal, so please come again next time. You can also create a joint account. According to the ability of two people, you can deposit some money regularly every month as the activity expenditure fund of both parties. If you have limited financial ability, you may not have as much money as men, so you can try your best to bear some small expenses.

At least you should put on an attitude that you don't love him because you like his money. You should make a man feel that you are sincere.

When you are willing to share or share the cost of love with a man, you will love with more dignity and dignity in this love, and the man can't help but look at you with new eyes.

Talk about money generously, don't hide your shyness.

In love, when you talk about money with men, you must be frank and open-minded, with a correct attitude and sincere tone, and you don't have to hide it. A truly beautiful love should be one that dares to talk about money. The so-called talk about money hurts feelings, and this matter should be treated in two.

If you care too much about the gains and losses in money and love, then you may hurt each other's feelings. After all, in love, apart from money and interests, mutual affection and affection are more important.

Usually girls celebrate birthdays, Valentine's Day or other memorable days. Boys take the initiative to give gifts to girls, and girls don't have to feel guilty. It is normal to accept them.

These are all common ways to spend a little money to enhance the feelings of couples. If a girl refuses on purpose, it will make the boy feel that you are ungrateful or have no intention to develop well with the other party, so it is also important to grasp this degree.