How to date a girl, how to date a girl, and then what should I do?

As the saying goes, be prepared, and so is dating. First of all, you must make careful preparations before dating.

1 the content of the appointment.

At this point, chatting with girls should pay attention to collecting girls' hobbies. For example, if girls like to eat, we can make an appointment for special snacks around the community. Girls like pets, so we can go to the pet market together. Girls like reading, we can go to the library, etc ... to make girls interested in the content of dating, and the natural dating experience will be much better. It is also important not to stay in one place for too long, but to arrange a transition. Staying in one place for a long time will easily lead to a decline in energy and exhaustion of topics, and girls' dating experience and feelings will also decline, which will easily affect the quality of our dating.

Another thing to pay attention to is talking about capital. If you usually don't accumulate enough talk resources, you should pay attention to the supplement of talk resources at this time. The accumulation of information is a long process, but here we can share a shortcut and make targeted supplements. For example, if we know that girls' hobby is pets, then we can know this kind of pets well. For example, if we want to eat delicious food with girls, then we can also know in advance the origin and the story behind this nothing. Although this can't solve the fundamental problem, it can also ensure that we won't have nothing to say with girls when dating. This will easily affect the quality of our date. With a friend-making content that girls are interested in, you can have a good communication with girls. The feeling of dating also came out.

2 the choice of appointment place

After the content of the appointment is determined, it will involve the location of the appointment. There is a saying circulating in the industry, that is, take familiar people to strange places and go to familiar places with strangers. Familiar people need fresh stimulation when they know each other and have a deep sense of connection with each other. In the face of girls who have just met, it is best to have some social certification in some familiar places, because we can have a good sense of leadership when we are familiar with the places, and there are relatively few emergencies. If you feel comfortable, you won't be so nervous. Can better communicate and interact with girls. This is the so-called home court. If you are dating a girl for the first time, try to choose a place close to the girl. Because our sense of attraction and connection to girls is relatively weak at this time, girls are very tolerant of refusing our invitation for other reasons. The convenience of girls will greatly reduce this factor. If there is no familiar or suitable place at this time, it is suggested that you can go to the dating place in advance to familiarize yourself with the surrounding environment. This can reduce the occurrence of accidents, thus affecting the appointment.

3 Selection of appointment time

Speaking of appointment time, everyone will definitely think of Friday and Saturday night at the first time. Yes, it is really a good time. Everyone is resting. But not all dates are suitable for weekends, such as our previous date with girls, because we are not very familiar with girls at this time, and Friday and Saturday are prime time, so usually girls should have plans at this time. At this time, we invite girls, and it is easy for girls to refuse us because they have other plans. The really best time is when girls go to work for lunch. We all have to eat anyway. At this time, girls are invited to work in the nearby business circle. This will make girls feel more secure and easier to agree to our invitation. When girls get to know us better. When we ask girls out again in prime time, girls will agree to our date more easily.

? 4 overall appearance care before dating

Clothes make the horse lean on the saddle, and a decent and tasteful dress is definitely a plus item for girls. Imagine a chubby girl, dressed in rustic clothes, without makeup, with messy hair and a red face, coming to date us. How do we feel? Although she tried hard to find various topics and ask various questions during the date, the window was still open to us. I really hope to stay with us. A sense of need. How would we feel? I'm sure nobody wants to stay. All I can think about is how to get out. On the contrary, a soft girl with hot body, fashionable clothes, long hair and sweet appearance came to date us. But she doesn't like to talk, she just smiles occasionally. How do we feel? We must try our best to communicate with him. If the girl cooperates, we definitely want to extend our time with her. Empathy is definitely the same for girls, so it is necessary for us to clean up our image before dating, which doesn't mean we have to be cool and cool. Because everyone's conditions are different. A hairstyle that suits you, a decent set of clothes and shoes. These are definitely necessary, and some details, such as eyebrows, breath, face and nails, are also easily overlooked and should be cleaned up. Because a woman's heart is a needle in the sea. Usually girls also like to observe the details of a boy and try to figure out what kind of person this boy is.

5 mental adjustment before dating

Before talking about mentality, I want to share a word with you. Without a solid process, the result is difficult to produce. Especially for some brothers with poor foundation in this field, what do you always want to happen on the first date? This is what I thought when I was dating. Then I want to do it, but I dare not do it. I am afraid. As everyone knows, you are very strange in the eyes of girls at this time. In fact, the normal process of our intimate relationship with girls should generally be two or three times. My teacher, Kato Fei, told me that he said not to be impatient when dating, but to learn to enjoy the dating process. When you enjoy dating wholeheartedly, you will find that your state will be surprisingly good. This is the best time to show yourself. To put it bluntly, it is the best time to attract girls. It can also be understood that invisible coercion is the most deadly. After all, the purpose of dating is to make each other happy.

Imagine if a girl can come out for the first time and have something unspeakable with you, then she can also have something with others. Nowadays, social software is so developed that an acquaintance has improved many times. She can do this every day if she wants. Speaking of which, I don't know if everyone will be afraid. In fact, the correct attitude towards dating girls, especially for the first time, depends on examining each other and showing yourself. Sometimes the process may be slow, but the relationship behind it will be stronger.

Six details in dating

A woman's heart is a needle in the sea. Girls are better at observing details than men. Let's share with you some details of losing points in dating.

Don't clean your image. Starting from the face value, there is no qualified appearance. When a girl falls in love with you at first sight, she will send you away directly, so even if you have more advantages, girls are not interested in continuing to understand.

Being late for an appointment is a taboo in dating, which shows how much you value this date, especially the first date. It's easy to leave a bad impression on girls.

Squeeze your mouth when eating. In the eyes of girls, this is a very uncultured behavior. Many girls react that such a boy loses his appetite as soon as he eats.

Unfamiliar with the appointment place, improper handling of emergencies. This can reflect whether you have made careful preparations for this date. What's more, you can see your ability to deal with emergencies.

There are details of MINUS points and plus points.

Take a pack of tissues in your pocket. There are many places to use paper towels when dating. If girls need paper towels, if we can take them out of our pockets at this time, we will give girls a very gentleman and a very hygienic person.

Gum. If we finish eating or drinking, we can take the initiative to pass chewing gum and clean our mouth at this time. It will give girls a feeling of caring.

Take care of girls actively. For example, when we enter the mall, we can take the initiative to help girls open the door and block the door. When we sit down to rest or eat, we can take the initiative to help girls pull chairs and wipe the table with paper towels. If a girl wears high heels, help her when crossing the street or when the road is not very smooth.

When you take the initiative to do these things, girls may not react on the surface, but in fact they are already very happy.

It's very clear here, with clear processes and ideas. If you want to do everything well, you must be careful, and dating is the same. When we do it with our heart, girls can really feel it, so girls will naturally think that you are a reliable person and have a good impression.