Douban’s high-scoring animation “Snipe”: Excessive care is the greatest harm parents can do to their children

I watched an animated short film called "Snipe" some time ago. It is a touching and tender film, and it is also an animated film about family education, parenting and growth. It tells the story of a snipe baby growing up independently after experiencing storms. It has a Douban score of 9.3.

The reason why it has such a high evaluation is inseparable from the cute and playful animated characters. For this cute new setting, the audience's love and acceptance are very high, which satisfies people's visual enjoyment. , coupled with the mixed vocal music, makes people feel happy and satisfies listening enjoyment.

This animated film that looks like a documentary has a realistic look, just like it was shot by a camera. This kind of production technology allows people to be more immersed in the animated story, and their moods also follow the ups and downs. ups and downs.

The concept and technology of the animation are amazing, but what touches people most is the story and the parenting concept that the short film wants to convey.

I believe anyone who has watched the short film knows that the mother snipe in the story, in order to let the baby grow up, "cruelly" abandoned the baby snipe several times and went out to forage on her own. When the baby snipe is hungry, it has no choice but to explore on its own to find food. With the mother snipe letting go, the baby snipe can transform and grow.

The 6-minute story is thought-provoking and reminds people of their own family education issues. How can we best love our children?

The mother snipe is willing to let the young snipe endure hardships, and is even more ruthless to let the young snipe learn survival skills. After several times of hard work, it finally grows up.

After watching this cartoon, I couldn’t help but think of the man named Yang Suo who starved to death at home a few years ago. This man was originally a good and filial child when he was young, willing to help his parents with housework, but his parents were afraid of tiring him, so they wouldn't let him do anything.

When he was 8 years old, he was afraid that the child would be tired when walking, so he carried him with him. So when he was 18 years old, his father passed away and his mother was seriously ill. He still did not learn to be independent and even asked his sick mother. Work for him. Later, his mother also passed away, and he was too lazy to beg for a living. Even if he was begging, he would not reach out to take the food in front of him. Finally, at the age of 23, he died of starvation at home.

This negative example has a big impact on us. Many people are thinking, how can there be such lazy people in this world? With arms and legs, how could he starve himself to death? In the final analysis, it is still the result of being used to it by your parents.

When Yang Suo was a child, he wanted to share the pressure with his parents, but he was rejected by his parents. They cared for him like a treasure in the palm of his hand. He was not allowed to do anything, and he was not allowed to suffer any hardships. As an adult, he can only endure hardships in life. He cannot take care of himself and is tired of eating. How can he survive? The final price is his life.

In real life, there are too many such examples. Parents always try their best to protect their children. But one day the child will have to face the world independently, and the protection of parents becomes a kind of harm. All suffering in life is a kind of hardship. The protection that parents can give their children is only for one or two years in infancy. After that, they will encourage and guide their children to teach them how to survive in this complicated world. Rather than over-protecting, protecting it is airtight.

I still remember seeing this story: There was a farmer who asked his children to work hard in the fields every day. A friend said to him: "You don't need to make your children work so hard, the crops will still grow." Very good." The farmer replied: "I'm not just cultivating crops, I'm also cultivating my children."

The best love a parent has for a child is not to stand in front of him at all times. It’s about trying to put your child through the elements. Only by allowing him to experience the sufferings of the world can he understand how difficult life is.

I remember that I reported on the inspiring story of a blind girl before. We can feel the strength and positive energy in this girl, and there is an admirable mother behind her inspirational story. The blind girl insists on going to school alone every day, with only a guide cane in her hand. We can imagine how difficult it is for the girl to go to school.

Her mother, in order to support the girl, also agreed to let her do this. What is sad is that she is willing to let her child take risks alone, but she will not ignore it because of this. While she allows the child to do his own thing without any psychological burden, she also acts as the child's shadow, always keeping an eye on the child silently from a few meters away without the child noticing, to prevent the child from having an accident.

The girl’s mother loves her very much and wants to protect her, but in order to help her child adapt to the inconveniences caused by her disability more quickly, she can only let her go and let her go through the difficulties on her own. The road goes smoother.

What is love? This is love. Only by experiencing it personally and experiencing what life is like can you live a good life. Children are the treasures of parents. If you love your children, don't hurt them. Excessive care will not make the child live a better life, it will only turn the child into a useless person who cannot take care of himself.

If you have not suffered the hardships of life now, life will make you suffer hardships in the future. Only by sharpening yourself in life and developing your iron skin and bones can you have the calmness to face life with a smile.