Why do so many young people choose to live alone now?

Forget it, I have lived alone in this city for five years since I graduated from school on 20 12.

In the eyes of many people, I may be a little miserable, eating alone, watching TV alone and fixing light bulbs alone. But these five years of living alone have also made me gain a lot. That's why I choose to live alone.

1, and gained the ability of self-cognition.

When a person gets along, he will pay more attention to his feelings and body and mind. For a while, I felt very uncomfortable, so I came into contact with Zhang Defen's books, such as "Meeting Unknown Oneself" and "The Road Few People Take", knowing that we should look at the present experience with a future perspective and everything will pass. So I tried to turn loneliness into a feast, actively explore myself, listen to live broadcasts, listen to micro-classes, and participate in some training courses. Step by step, improve yourself from thinking and cognition.

I learned a lot of new skills.

Li Xinpin, the queen of copywriting, said that people should master a new skill every six months. I didn't do this, but I have been practicing photography, writing, yoga and food during my five years of lonely life. I think learning to swim again this year is the fifth item. And the acquisition of these skills also makes me love life more. I like to start an elastic day with yoga, observe life with photography, open the world with reading, soothe my soul with delicious food, and approach my dreams with writing every day. In fact, I don't want to change this day with anyone.

3. Give yourself a sense of security.

I used to feel that the sense of security was given by others and gained from work, life, friendship and love. When others don't understand you and care about you, they will feel particularly insecure. It was not until I became friends with loneliness that I realized that I had given myself a sense of security. In other words, you should have the ability to be alone, you should learn to live a good life alone, and you should be able to love yourself.

After all, people are lonely, and there is nothing to worry about when they live alone. You love life anyway.

I am a deer foraging, and the official account of WeChat WeChat is Deerforaging (IDxiaolu35 15), and my body and soul should be nourished. Welcome to the same frequency, and also welcome to pay attention to my official WeChat account.