When my junior told me, senior, I'm quitting the department!

At noon yesterday, my junior sent me such a message.

She told me, senior, I'm quitting the department.

At that time, my heart was particularly uncomfortable. Anyway, that girl was not bad in my impression.

a week after the interview, she told me that I was quitting.

I feel so powerless that I can't sleep at night. I have asked this question for 1, times. What's wrong with my work, the heavy workload, or the way I treat them? Is the task I gave them too heavy? Is the place I stick to unattractive?

what should I do?

When I was a freshman, I happened to join several propaganda departments. When I was a sophomore, I continued to choose to stay here. There are a group of friends who love words. They will argue for a long time about the small issues pushed by WeChat and write their favorite things together. I remembered me at that time. I stayed up late to write the manuscript because the teacher was anxious to watch it, and I couldn't attend to dinner to cut the video because I was anxious to watch my own video and post it on the school network. The task was much heavier than theirs anyway.

actually, a girl from another department told me a month ago, senior, I'm quitting!

I was silent for a long time and thought about it for a long time. I didn't know how to say those words. I typed a lot of words on the keyboard and deleted them one by one. I said "OK"!

I don't know what to say. A girl who seemed particularly fond of during the interview was very cute and conscientious, but I really didn't know how to retain her at that moment.

My roommate is the monitor. He told me that it is wrong for you to do this. At least pretend to stay, even if people really don't want to stay, be polite and don't be so rude!

But I really don't know how to be polite!

when we took over the new job, we were also children.

all kinds of questions should be asked to the seniors of the previous session, how to do these procedures, and where to borrow desks and chairs for publicity.

In order to recruit new poster designs, six people communicated in the studio for a long time.

In order to make the publicity wider, I took on a promotional video and cut three lunches.

In order to attract more people to go to the classroom for publicity, among the six people, m-girls went to more than 8 classrooms in a four-story teaching building.

In order to attract others' attention, people who were afraid to speak in front of them screamed at the top of their voices for the first time to publicize in the most crowded square.

in order to attract you more, we said in the publicity that I could teach you ps, photography and editing (originally this department only needed to do WeChat tweets)

During your interview, we put on a pose just to make you feel that this place is very high.

a week after the interview, the six of us gritted our teeth and each squeezed out 2 yuan to treat them to dinner.

In order to fulfill my promise during the interview and not look so ashamed when taking them, I spent two days in the library with little ps experience and learned something to do ppt

When you made something for the first time, I was happy for you.

happily forwarded your articles to the circle of friends, although the writing and scheduling are a little bad.

when you find problems in your tweets, I will ask a lot of people's opinions, "hey, look at this, is there something wrong with my aesthetics?"

when I assign you work, I always think, will it be too heavy? What should I do if I give you too much?

Sometimes you occasionally complain that your tasks are heavy, so I will tell them that it is good to become proficient gradually (in fact, I want to say that we also have our own lives, and I may review your problems while eating, and we are not relaxed)

Seeing your growth, I am happy to show off and say, "Haha, look, it's much better than I was."

we all see your growth.

Until one day, someone got tired of this kind of work and lifestyle, and you said, "Sorry, I'm quitting".

The ministry you were most optimistic about told you that I was quitting!

I don't have any resentment in my heart, but I just try to think back. What went wrong with my work?

and what I want to say is that you may be wrong.

"Senior, I don't want to be bound, I want to do something I like"

"Senior, my work is too busy, I want to study hard"

You came to the university in a daze, and at the beginning of the first military training, you saw many "great gods"

They were holding tall photographic equipment, and they were skillfully operating ps, pr, and so on.

your eyes are shining, and I want to be like this.

You turned in the application form with great interest. You went back to the dormitory and told your roommate how great it was to interview your seniors and sisters. You waited anxiously for the interview results. When you learned that you had passed the interview, you happily sent a circle of friends to tell yourself that this was your happiest day.

When you sent your tweet on WeChat for the first time, the photos you took for the first time were posted on the school network, and the edited video was presented to so many people for the first time. At that moment, you were sweeter than drinking honey.

gradually, you find it troublesome to do wechat, and you have to change it. You think it's boring to take those news photos every day. I already know how to use SLR. You feel that writing those boring manuscripts prevents your literary talent from being displayed; You feel that your daily life is full of these things and you are too busy to breathe.

we all understand, how can we not understand?

I've tried to catch a manuscript in the early hours of the morning when my roommates are asleep. I've also tried to fix photos until I wanted to smash my computer. I've also worked all night to make a video. Finally, we have become a "big cow" in the eyes of others, even though we know that we still have a lot to learn.

you said, senior, these are not my favorites!

what? That's not what you said in the interview.

I remember you carefully asked me during the interview, saying, "Can I study this for seniors, and can I do this for seniors?"?

I tell you, yes!

I can write, photograph and operate all kinds of software, which all look cool!

But if you don't think about this inevitable problem, nothing is easy to learn, nothing will make you achieve easily, and all the things that look great in your eyes have gone through a long learning process.

When I was studying software, no one took me, and I asked others to go to the library to study hard. Naturally, I knew that it was not easy. I said that I would teach you what I knew without reservation, and I would think of various ways to make your study easier in order to make you take fewer detours.

generally speaking, among the people I know.

There are too few people who quit because they want to study hard. During their study, they can calm down and be themselves seriously.

when I joined the propaganda department of the student union of our school, a girl who was very good quit the department. Later, she took photos of fitness in the circle of friends in QQ space, won awards for participating in various activities, and got a grade of six.

But more people, with more time to play games, have more time to sleep until late in the morning, they will skip the courses they should skip, and they will fail many courses they should fail. It hurts me to see them.

I don't talk about other people's lives like a godmother bitch, but I realize more and more that excellent people are excellent everywhere. It doesn't matter if you quit and cause us trouble. What I hope more is that you can really find the life you want.

You are only freshmen. You have blank report cards waiting for you to write. You have plenty of time to fill in all kinds of experiences on your resume. You also have a good desire for the future, interest and energy to do things you like.

Liang Shiqiu said, "I won't see you off if you go, but I will pick you up no matter how stormy it is.".

I thought, "When you come, I will hug you with great enthusiasm and passion; You go, I won't keep you. "

So I said to my junior: It doesn't matter if you're not here. I hope you can find something you like, and I sincerely wish you a better development! Hope, come on in the future!