Gao Shanfeng sent Dong'er to Forest Primary School. Doing "this thing" every day hides his father's love

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Editorial Note: Gao Fengfeng has two children, an 8-year-old son Enen and a 4-year-old daughter Xiaohua. He recently attended the "Sweden x Taiwan" with his wife and children. Dad's Daily Parenting Photography Exhibition" responds to the issue of father's parenting. His son Enen is hyperactive and has recently been transferred to Forest Elementary School in Shidingshan District. Gao Fengfeng gets up at 5 a.m. every morning and takes Enen to school in person. In the past, he walked 3 kilometers to and from school with his son every day to consume excess energy.

As a father, he told the media: "My child is indeed very special. He is hyperactive, has a slight speech impediment, and has flat feet. Faced with these, my wife and I are both Face it positively, adjust the pace of your life, and see what more you can do for him. "He also believes that every father has the opportunity to decide what kind of father he wants to be, but building a new family requires more. It depends on two people working together!

If you have a child with a special disease, you need more patient guidance from your parents! In an interview with the media, artist Gao Shanfeng said that his family has a genetic gene for dementia, and his son Enen is a hyperactive child. If he is not controlled by medication, he will run around like a bobblehead doll. He also talked about how to accompany his children as they grow up. .

Gao Fengfeng said that his son Enen has ADHD, and the doctor suggested that he should exercise more to improve it. Gao Fengfeng accompanies his son to school at 7 o'clock every day, walking three kilometers with him, walking on the playground at school, and walking under an umbrella in the afternoon. He is a really caring dad. Moreover, Gao Fengfeng also explained that if ADHD is not controlled by taking medicine, it will run around like a bobblehead doll. When his son has an attack, he may not be able to control himself. Gao Fengfeng also said, "Looking at it, it seems that we are not living in the same world, but eating... It can be relieved after taking medicine." But the son also said to his parents, "I am very grateful to you for giving me medicine." Gao Shanfeng and his wife asked why? The son said, "If I didn't take medicine, I wouldn't be able to study at all. I wouldn't be able to hear clearly what the teacher is saying to me. My classmates would regard me as a weirdo, so I think taking medicine is good." Gao Shanfeng also replied to his son, "Then you Keep at it, I hope that when you grow up, you will have enough ability to control unwanted behaviors."

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Gao Shanfeng, who was once known as the "prodigal son", also gave people a playful image. However, after getting married in 2011, his whole life changed and he spent a lot of time with his family because there is a gene for dementia in his family. , he is worried that it will affect his family. He just hopes to age slower and spend more time with his family.

During the interview, Gao Shanfeng also said that when he held his newborn son Enen and visited his terminally ill grandmother, she "kept calling my son Shanfeng", indicating that he had recognized the dementia that was inherited in his family. Unpopular. He also said, "I am one of the candidates for dementia because there is a genetic inheritance of dementia in my family. My grandmother, grandfather, grandfather, grandmother, and my father also have similar symptoms. He can't remember things, and he starts to revert to a child, as if he has transformed into a child. child".

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Gao Fengfeng also revealed that he had asked his wife to buy a large photo album and file the photos according to the year, hoping that he would be able to remember some things when he suffers from dementia. His wife also said: "You are just afraid of dementia." , but she also thoughtfully said, "I will take care of you from now on, so you don't have to be so nervous." Gao Fengfeng was very moved.

For hyperactive children, please "understand their movements" first

Counseling psychologist Chen Yi'an once wrote an article saying that the uncontrollable energy of hyperactive children needs to be vented appropriately. It's like having a full sleep but being forced to continue sleeping without being able to move. It's very painful. Give them appropriate "movement" and consume the excess energy, so that they can have relative "quietness".