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Knife and Star —— Fate with TV series Escort Gate

A person's spiritual structure and its spiritual resources

Tucao parents are afraid of affecting their academic performance and prohibit their children from reading extracurricular books. When your child becomes an adult, all the important decisions in his life are not based on 90 or 60 points in the math exam. But since childhood, you have provided him with spiritual resources intentionally or unintentionally, which will form his spiritual structure-the good feelings and shame that dominate his life, his wishes, dreams and fears, thus affecting all his subsequent decisions.

The ranking of product managers —— On Tencent's product ranking

A person's awareness of his own or others' talents is not that he finds that he has done something well at once, but that you find that you or someone are very attentive when doing something.

For example, chefs take pains to cut vegetables and set dishes, photographers take pains to seek light, code farmers take pains to catch bugs, and you take pains to face wonderful entrepreneurs ... Only when you spend 10,000 hours painstakingly here can you become a master.

Go Forward —— Reading Lin Biao's On Short Assault

1996 Yahoo's listing triggered the first Internet capital frenzy, and the three major domestic portals jumped out at this opportunity. In 2004, Google went public, which triggered the second Internet capital frenzy. In 2005, it was the Internet Carnival in China, and BAT took shape at this stage. In 20 12, facebook went public. From the capital carnival that began that year to the climax of Alibaba's listing, all the giant whales that have been bred for many years have surfaced. Then, according to the law, the wave of capital is calm.

On Short Assault has more than 6,000 words and 6 pages printed. Lin Biao, 27, wrote it. The four core words I have learned are "murder", "obstacle", "commanding height" and "everything is done in secret".

An era, a big event and a big enterprise is a "* * * industry".

In the history exam of middle school, there is a question, "Does the times make heroes or heroes make the times?"

The era is a * * * industry, and the hero is the person who undertakes and represents the wishes of * * * in that * * * industry.

The hero became a willing convert, so his name became a flag and symbol, which exceeded his own biological significance. In the complicated interaction with followers and opponents, a "* * * industry" has been completed.

This is a process of being pregnant for a long time in chaos, gradually becoming clear, and then suddenly showing her head.

If this "* * * industry" is big enough, then the person who carries "* * * wishes" will become the god of the world.

Managing people is managing emotions —— From the psychological manipulation in House of Cards

The essence of managers is to manage emotions.

Because when a person's mood is normal, reason will naturally guide his behavior.

China's education is collectivism education, and it is the education to train people into machine parts. The school curriculum is only rational and logical.

Our parents, who grew up in a collectivist context, generally only care about their children's grades (like machine performance reports).

When children show emotions, better parents make sense (in fact, everyone has experience, and it is unreasonable when they are emotional. However, adults are often wishful thinking and overbearing towards their children, and parents will use worse emotions to suppress their children's emotions.

As a human being, we are composed of emotions and driven by them.

From childhood to adolescence, what you pay is actually machine skills.

Man is not a machine, because he has feelings.

When people get along with each other, logic is only a bottom link and the most boring part.

What makes the relationship between people interact organically is actually emotion.

Each other can arouse emotions, which is called "congenial".

If all the problems in the world can be solved by logic and reason, it will not be a problem.

Making money and valuable things

The core of making money is the current spread. In terms of spot, it will benefit from this.

The core of valuable things is structural value, and its redemption time is in a certain future.

Sitting in one's own destiny —— On the last moment of Lu Xun's life from Mr. Da

If Li Shimin crosses over today, he can't speak English, drive or understand internet plus. But I believe that he will become a hero again and become a contemporary hegemon in some form. This is the power of the soul. There is no 20% difference in human body, but the soul is very different, and it can't be changed after thousands of turns.

The Depth of Relationship —— The Deep Relationship between Woodclaire and His Wife in House of Cards

Therefore, it is impossible to really get rid of the overbearing president during the stupid day. Because, she may really give the overbearing president pleasure. But happiness is so fragile. Whether two people can build deep feelings depends on whether she can understand his pain and how much energy and soul they exchanged.

Therefore, in many people's life relationships, the biggest pain is the relationship with parents.

As for getting energy, our life is given by our parents, and their love is the greatest energy in our life.

However, parents can't understand the happiness and pain of their children. You can only ask your children for some roles. In fact, the pain of alienation is not the comfort of eating New Year's Eve together.

Recommend "Creating JD". Com "-students who do marketing should have a look.

When we want to push a product, can we think more directly, and the target is JD.COM110,000 white-collar workers or 1 1 10,000 blue-collar workers?

In 9.6 million square kilometers of China, this is really a completely different path of influence.

My friend Stella, doing educational public welfare projects.

She has studied an educational theory-the ability to learn knowledge equals the ability to abstract.

The earliest abstract ability generally begins at the age of 8, reading long paragraphs and understanding the central idea.

Then in junior high school, I began to get in touch with more abstract things: algebra, geometry, physics and chemistry.

Therefore, the promotion of junior high school is the screening of abstract ability.

The path after that is that children in high schools and universities have the opportunity to learn more abstract things, or to constantly develop abstract abilities.

Ability to use and discard.

People who often think abstractly will have "fun of thinking" and "fun of cognition", and abstract things will have more and more influence on him. For example, "ideal" and "love" are very abstract things.

People always get pleasure from what they are familiar with and fear what they are unfamiliar with.

Intellectuals generally lack metaphorical ability. Manual workers don't like reading.

So "blue-collar" and "white-collar" here are just two pronouns, describing two different people with information acquisition habits, information dependence, interest in knowledge and preference for abstract things.

Love and relationships

Sex and love; In the play "City", there is little, little talk about love. . Most of the words in our subtitle group are translated into "love" and "affection", and the words used in the original English dialogue are "relationship"-"relationship".

Love is more subjective and more inclined to the present self-feeling.

Relationship is the bond between each other, the matching and experience of both sides at present, and also the prediction of the future.

What belongs to God belongs to God, and what belongs to Caesar belongs to Caesar.

Hormones belong to hormones, and relationships belong to relationships.

1) When the hormonal tide ebbs, there will always be a moment when you will calmly evaluate your relationship as if you were watching a cold and bare reef.

2) Relationship, the most important thing is the bond, not the impermanence of hormones. The bond is objective and definite. For example, Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang share the same reading hobby, such as a large number of families and children formed for the purpose of reproduction, which is the bond. Therefore, the key to evaluating a relationship is to evaluate the bond between you, how strong it is, and whether it will grow with time.

3) Relationship is a feeling of both sides. If the product experience is not good, users don't like it, and the website doesn't operate, users will be lost. Husband doesn't go home, which is obviously the user's viscosity is getting worse. There is no difference between optimizing user experience and optimizing operation.

Indeed, as the mother who visited the United States said, before the college entrance examination, not only parents, but also the whole society banned the relationship between men and women at this age. Girls' mothers will also take into account the inherent inequality of women's physiology and do some education. Boys are purely educated by watching online novels and island action movies, and they have to carry their parents behind their backs. These novels and action movies tell boys that there is no need to establish a relationship and sisters are in a state of hunger and thirst. As a result, boys in China can't bear the hard work of building relationships in reality, and girls will become the only thrill as long as they see someone who can build relationships.

The Fragmentation and Reconstruction of Subjective World —— The Failed Extracurricular Courses of Lakeside University

Teacher Wang said that the system constantly needs fresh nutrients from outside, and the access of new people can bring nutrients to the system.

A newcomer with his own inherent ability and cognition enters Ali's big system. In the first year, he provided nutrients for the system. If we can open our own boundaries and connect with Ali's system in the collision of Ali's system, we can get nutrients from the system after 3 years.

The most sensitive place for people is the wound.

I want to judge whether a person is sensitive to a certain point, not by his appearance, not by what books he has read or done. Ask him if he has any wounds.

I realized that wounds are also a gift from God.

My innate perception is dull to many things, but God gave me a wound and used this acquired organ to increase my perception.

"Values": the True Intrinsic of CEO and the External of Enterprise

When the boss's values swing irregularly, it is bound to be accompanied by internal friction and inefficiency. Because every hill in the enterprise represents a sense of value in the boss's heart. Think about it, the boss is the creator of the enterprise. Any hill, no matter how big, does not meet the boss's sense of value and will be leveled. )

User experience and marriage coach

Let's look at a person's five floors from the outside to the inside. The outermost layer is the perception layer. You can see a person's appearance, appearance, manners and clothes. In fact, part of it is talent, part is characterization, and part is his deliberate self-discipline for his sense of existence.

The second layer outside the perception layer is the role frame layer. Just like a good student is a role, a good son is a role, and a bank clerk is a role.

The third layer is the resource structure layer. To be clear, resources are not only a person's contacts and property, but also a person's spiritual structure and his spiritual resources. I have an article for your reference.

The inner layer is the ability circle, and inside the ability circle is a person's "sense of existence".

If you know what kind of existence you want to be, you will constantly change your ability circle, resources and even external appearance.