Moonlight Beauty-Epiphyllum

They are really beautiful. Under the irradiation of night light, they slowly bloom. The petals are like a girl's white dance skirt, and the yellow stamens are like sparks and dancing golden elves.

The epiphyllum in our family is in full bloom again, with nine flowers at a time on this autumn night.

? Epiphyllum was planted by my father-in-law fifteen years ago. He and his mother-in-law left Tianjin and returned to Sichuan. They also specially asked me to mail them some and plant them in their home in Chengdu. But for him, even if he replants epiphyllum, although he can enjoy the blooming of epiphyllum at home in Chengdu, he still misses the epiphyllum at home in Tianjin very much and always asks me if I have fertilized it and insisted on basking in the sun.

? When the mobile phone starts to have WeChat function, I will take photos when Epiphyllum is open and send them back to him to enjoy on the mobile phone.

? In fact, my father-in-law used to be a technical coach of pole vault when I was young. He is not my head coach, and he hasn't trained me for a long time. But because he was a national champion, I only looked up to him in those years. He was very strict, so I was afraid of him. Later, he knew that when I fell in love with his daughter, I didn't approve at first, but because of our persistence, he finally changed a lot in 360 and gave us great support.

Father-in-law's personality pattern is typical 1W2, and he is strict and merciless. Because of personality problems, I have done a lot for others and offended everyone. When he was a teenager, he had a successful career. Later, influenced by his right-wing brother and sister, he ended his dream early. Depression made him learn to smoke and drink. After living in Tianjin for 8 years after retirement, there is little in-depth communication between us. He has been living in his world, drinking and smoking is his hobby, and it is difficult to change in this life. A bottle of white wine every day, started drinking in the morning, and became grumpy at night, which made the family very depressed. Alcoholic cirrhosis was diagnosed more than ten years ago, and drinking began to converge. Then the three daughters bought him health care products for nourishing the liver. From then on, they began to drink while taking medicine. Our Fang Shuijing in Chengdu is full of boxes of white wine. He is not only a heavy drinker, but also drinks only one kind of wine for decades, namely LU ZHOU LAO JIAO CO.,LTD Co., Ltd. Erqu. We always joke that LU ZHOU LAO JIAO CO.,LTD Co., Ltd. should give him an award.

We returned to Chengdu a few days early for the Mid-Autumn Festival. As soon as we got off the plane and sat down, it was already past eleven o'clock in the evening, and my father-in-law had poured me a large glass of white wine. I understand his pleasure at our coming home. We haven't been home together for a long time. My mother-in-law also has her own pension activities. Few people usually accompany him. His bad temper always makes people stay away from him. He is lonely, and his lonely heart is only accompanied by white wine. I was going to have a drink with him before I went back, but even so, I didn't expect to go home in the middle of the night and drink first, so I took a photo of my classmate in Chengdu who sent a WeChat asking me about the situation and told him that he had been holding white wine to warm up for the party the next day.

Two days later, my mother-in-law woke us up early in the morning, and my father-in-law suddenly couldn't get up. We dialed 120 nervously, and the ambulance came. We put him in the car and took him to the hospital. After examination, we went through the hospitalization formalities. Results Severe ascites in liver and abdomen, lung, stomach and spleen problems, gallstones, kidney calculi and gout stones occurred, which made him unable to move all over. In addition, platelets are very low, which easily leads to internal bleeding.

? After a day's treatment, I can take a little exercise, and suddenly I have to go home at night. At that time, I didn't think it was convenient to drink at home, so I asked the doctor to talk to him and scare him and wouldn't let him go back. As a result, it was useless for the doctor to persuade and be afraid. Mother-in-law fully cooperated with her father-in-law on this issue, and allowed him to go home and get clothes for hospitalization after communicating with the doctor.

? I felt very depressed and helpless at that time. How could I make him so angry and finally went to the hospital to take this opportunity to drink less and have a good examination and treatment. But I can't say much, and my mother-in-law must support him to go home. I have no choice but to see a doctor and ask if thrombocytopenia will suddenly cause complications. The doctor told me that it won't be now, and it's not that low, but I don't know how it will develop, whether it will be a smooth decline or a cliff-like decline. I am still worried and helpless about this problem.

? After returning home, my father-in-law really picked up the bottle and took two sips. I quickly found my wife and told her that dad had been drinking again. She told me to let nature take its course, and I couldn't control him. I said that if I continue to drink at home during the day, the disease will not be cured. She told me that there is no solution as long as he is in a good mood.

The same is true for the next two days, infusion in the hospital during the day and drinking and smoking at home at night. On the Mid-Autumn Festival, we went home from the hospital early in the afternoon. I want to pack some jiaozi for my father-in-law. I was very happy to come back at night, poured me a large glass of white wine, told me that I was grateful to be with him in the hospital, and sincerely said that I was really good to his daughter. This is the first time he has commented on my feelings for my wife in this way. It seems that after more than 30 years of investigation, he finally fully affirmed us. So, I once again felt my father-in-law who was addicted to alcohol. No matter how much wine you drink, your health is no longer good, your mind is still clear, and your work is still rigorous and determined. After that, his mother-in-law's exhortation aroused his anger, so the volcano in the energy zone immediately erupted and made a scene. This is their way of communication, and we are used to it.

The time in Chengdu is very short. In the morning, he will be on the balcony, telling me how to maintain epiphyllum, saying that he just likes epiphyllum. Besides epiphyllum, there is a gladiolus planted by me at home, so there are really no other plants. If we don't come back, my father-in-law will go to bed at seven o'clock every night, and our arrival will disrupt his life rhythm. He is lonely, always accompanied by wine all day, only looking for the glory of past memories in chaos, and then sleeping in the glory and waking up to continue this cycle. Because his loneliness makes him more lonely, he defends himself in loneliness, which makes him doubly lonely. I felt his inner desire for achievement and his fear of his powerlessness. I chose to accompany him. I am willing to drink with him and listen to his countless family stories.

A few short days' holiday, especially the company in the hospital, felt that he really entered his heart. I realized his loneliness and willfulness, and tried to get him to cooperate with the treatment during his hospitalization. Subconsciously, I hope to successfully control his drinking habits and make the treatment have an obvious result. In fact, this is to satisfy my sense of accomplishment. From his point of view, I really feel that I have been ill for nearly 20 years, taking medicine 10 for many years, and insisting on smoking and drinking for one day. I can't be at the mercy of a doctor in a hospital bed. He is very competitive and afraid that he can't cope with the powerlessness of the world. He wants to be free. Even if this freedom is lonely and dangerous, he has the right to choose. We should respect his choice, and respect is the best support for him.

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? Epiphyllum only blooms once a year, and this time it is very short, that is, it will bloom and gather the essence of the whole year at that moment. A flash in the pan, just for Wei Tuo, colorful, you can get a stare!

Inadvertently, it will wither so quickly that it can't see its exposed stamens clearly, so it is wrapped in bright moonlight and white petals. Only by sincere companionship and patiently waiting for it to bloom after the night, can we feel the beauty of Shuang Ling, a moonlight beauty, as proud as snow in her loneliness.