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Nurses look at men's bodies and are indifferent to boyfriends.

Wen/Yaqing

Oral: Sue

Smoking problem:

I am a 2 1 year-old girl. I have never been in love before, but I feel normal and healthy all the time. I once had a crush on the boys in my class and looked forward to a beautiful and romantic love, just because I never met the right person. Another reason is that I love cleanliness too much (this is my classmate's evaluation), so I can't accept some boys' habit of not paying attention to hygiene.

Last winter, a boy of 18 years old came to the company to be my new colleague, and soon we became good friends. He has a good personality and loves cleanliness. I admire him very much, but I always regard him as my younger brother. I never thought I would have feelings with him, the opposite sex. Later, I found out that he liked me a little. In summer, he confessed to me. At first I refused because of my age, but at his insistence, I began to relent. In the end, I don't even know why I agreed.

Then we started dating. I am relaxed and happy with him, but I have never felt the feeling of love described in the book. The first time we kissed hand in hand, I didn't feel anything special, but I didn't dislike it either. Coupled with some freshness, I have never refused.

Recently we moved in together, but nothing happened. Although his idea of touching my body seems particularly strong, I have never opposed it, but no matter how he touches my body, I have no desire. Including the idea of not being ashamed to see him naked. I really want to ask: Do I have a problem (physically or psychologically)?

I studied medicine, and now I am a nurse. Plus, I read a lot of books about sex, and I know a lot about sex, so sex is not so strange and mysterious to me, but after all, I have never experienced it. How can I not feel it?

I am willing to do anything for him at ordinary times, and I will miss him when he is away, but it is not particularly strong. And when we are together, we talk about everything, including sex, which is also strange to me. Because of the above reasons, I have been confused: I don't know if I love him or not, will this relationship last? He likes me very much and gives me everything. When he is with me, he will be nervous and get an electric shock, and I have nothing.

We usually talk about these situations, so we know each other well, but we don't know how to solve them. Can you help me? I don't know if I'm a little abnormal or I don't love him.

Yaqing replied:

In fact, as you can see from the letter, you are a girl full of longing and passion for love. You don't have to doubt that you have any physical or mental illness. Generally speaking, most people will be impulsive when facing the opposite sex they love, unless it is physical indifference and sexual rejection. Unless there is one situation: the opposite sex you are facing is not the one you love.

You can see from your letter that you don't love that boy very much. You feel happy and relaxed with him, and so will you with the same sex. In fact, you just regard him as a good friend of the opposite sex, not a close boyfriend. Plus, since you are a medical student, it is normal that you will feel nothing in the face of the other person's body.

He has feelings for you because he loves you. So, if you continue to associate with him, and it is still like this now, it may be good for both of us to end this relationship early. Of course, this is just a suggestion. You have other options. Finally, I wish you find the feeling of love as soon as possible.