How to cultivate children's reading and writing habits

Reading habits are the wealth of a child's life, and there are ways to cultivate children's reading habits. After mastering these skills to cultivate children's reading, you just need to wait for the flowers to bloom, and there will naturally be children who love reading at home.

Parents set an example by putting down their mobile phones and picking up books.

Let's take a look at the following situations. Did you get caught?

1. Every day at home, I use my mobile phone to brush my circle of friends, watch TV and play games.

2. Take the children out to play, and point around with your mobile phone from time to time when you are in the car or walking.

3. When going to work, doing housework or being very tired, be sure to give your child a mobile phone or tablet as a toy.

A child is a mirror for you. He has been imitating and recreating your behaviors and habits. Whatever you do, he will do it.

Therefore, if children don't like reading, parents should first review themselves. I never read books. How can children like them? Imagine that after dinner every night, parents watch TV and play mobile phones, but they never read books, but let their children read books. Is this possible?

It is suggested that parents should not always use and play electronic products in front of their children, but also pick up books to read and set a good example for their children. Moreover, whether this kind of parent-child time is more warm will become a wonderful memory of the child's life.

Create a good reading environment and atmosphere

Reading environment is really important.

Personal experience, taking children to the national library to read books, his amount will reach more than three times as much as usual. Immersed in the sea of books, the children around are studying hard, and these positive external factors will stimulate children's interest in reading. Therefore, parents can take their children to the library to read books and participate in reading activities on weekends, so that children can be immersed in good influence.

Of course, home is still the most important place to cultivate children's reading habits. Parents can buy a separate bookcase for their children, prepare different types and styles of children's books, tell him that this is your book, and let him establish a sense of belonging to the book. Of course, books are not limited to shelves. It is best to let children find suitable books to read at home anytime and anywhere.

I have seen an excellent practice before: a father built a "exclusive reading space" for his daughter, encouraging her to study, and arranged it like a fairy tale forest. Children like to sit alone in the fairy tale forest and read quietly.

Another mother gave an example: "When my daughter was born, the family was small and there were many books. Her child's bed is covered with a thick layer of books, and her daughter grows up day by day on the pile of books. She didn't dirty or break a book. She seems to have a nostalgia for books. When she grew up, she never chose to eat or wear. She has fewer beautiful clothes than others, but more books of all colors than others. She can choose different themes of food for you from the bookcase. "

Insist on reading and telling stories to children every day.

Children's reading will go through different stages: picture book, story telling and text reading.

It is very important to tell stories to children at this stage. Decades of research shows that the length of time children listen to their parents' stories has a great relationship with their reading level after a few years. Giving children a lot of reading can significantly improve their listening, speaking, reading and writing abilities.

American education advocates reading aloud to children 15 minutes every day. It's easier said than done. But in just a few months, you will find children's love for reading.

After telling the story, you can judge it according to the child's reaction. When your child starts asking you to speak a little longer, it means that he can concentrate for a longer time and he is interested in reading, so you can extend the time appropriately.

TV movies adapted from classic original works can be used as matchmakers.

Reading should not be forced, but should be guided correctly.

Although parents should take their children to watch TV as little as possible, they should watch some selectively, especially some TV movies adapted from classic original works.

Of course, if possible, it is of course best for children to read the original directly. But if children don't like it, they can first use highly accepted TV movies to "make media" to attract children to read the original.

I have seen such an example: a parent wants to share with his children the fun of watching the comic book Journey to the West when he was a child, but the children don't like it. Later, he first showed several episodes of Journey to the West TV series, and the child's interest immediately came up. But he skillfully told the children to wait for the later needs, and the children couldn't wait, so they grabbed the comic books and read them first.

Encourage children to talk about their opinions after listening and reading.

After input, output is also very important.

After children finish reading books, parents can encourage their children to express their feelings and ideas, so as to enhance their thinking, communication and expression skills.

If children just read blindly, then the books they read may just be information accumulated in their minds. If parents can encourage him to express his feelings after reading, in fact, he has experienced a profound thinking before expressing; In the process of his expression, he also exercised his communication and expression ability to a certain extent. This is very important for the cultivation of his later basic writing ability.

A father did this: "Every time I let my child read a book, he refused to read it on the grounds that he was busy with his homework. But I found his weakness, that is, poor composition. Once before he wrote his composition, I asked him to read a book, read it once and remember it once, so that he could use all the words he could understand properly in his composition. As a result, the teacher's judgment is' vivid language'. So the child gradually found a way to write a good article in the process of reading, and he took the initiative to find a book to read. "

You can't be eager for quick success in reading, but wait for flowers to bloom.

Reading is a lifelong practice.

It is possible to see obvious or direct effects in a short time, and it is often a hidden skill. Therefore, parents should abandon the idea of achieving a certain effect quickly through short-term reading, and don't think that children can write a good composition immediately by reading more books in the near future.

In fact, the effect of children's extensive reading may be clearly reflected in junior and senior high schools. Accumulated reading cultivates children's clear logical thinking ability, and the improvement of this basic ability will greatly promote children's learning and writing.

The more children read, the more connections between knowledge and knowledge, and perhaps there will be an explosive bloom one day.

Therefore, if children keep reading, they will one day produce the most beautiful flowers.

Help children fall in love with reading

It is our responsibility.

afterwards

We just have to wait for the flowers to bloom.

Source | Mom (id: XYZ Mom)