Interviewer: Why are you still single?

The thing is like this, right after graduation, I went to a photographic equipment company to interview as a reserve cadre. After chatting with me for more than an hour, my boss was very satisfied with me in all aspects and asked me to report to the company on certain days of the week. After I expressed my gratitude and was about to get up, he suddenly stopped me: By the way, are you single now?

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"Yes, I am single now!" I replied politely.

"So how long have you been single?" he continued to ask.

I replied: It’s okay, it’s not too long. Then he went on to ask: Are you single now and have you considered finding a partner?

HR sighed and said: That’s right, I value your ability, but given your current single situation, I don’t think it’s too stable. If you have a boyfriend, you may stay in this city or this position for 3-5 years. Because it is not easy for us to train a person, we also consider whether it can be stable.

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Several HRs gave several opinions on this issue. Some say that some interviewers may ask you because they want to satisfy their curiosity. Some say that single people will leave the company due to relationship problems, so the company will calculate the labor costs in this area.

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Countermeasures of domestic enterprises: No.

Countermeasures for foreign companies: I have already recorded the video, just wait and pay.

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How to answer

Answer from two aspects: age and gender.

(1) Males, under 25 years old, check whether they have time to work overtime

Female, under 25 years old, check whether they have time to work overtime and the possibility of getting married and having children

(2) Male, over 25 years old, tested for professionalism and sense of responsibility. If you have a girlfriend, you will consider marriage and work harder.

Female, over 25 years old, investigating the possibility of pregnancy...

Optional answer: I am currently single/have friends, I will work hard, work is the foundation of a life, if I have to work overtime Will obey the arrangements.