Children's growth education can not be separated from their parents' words and deeds and lead by example.

When I was young, as long as my academic performance was excellent enough, I would be envied by my classmates, liked by my teachers, praised by my neighbors, and then become the pride of my family. When you grow up, even if you are highly educated, knowledgeable and talented, as long as you don't have the ability to make big money, it's hard to win the envy, love and praise of others.

When you have the ability to earn a lot of money, even if you only graduate from junior high school, friends and relatives will envy you, like you and praise you.

The ability to earn money seems to have become the standard to measure the success or failure of individuals in this society. The supremacy of money is deeply rooted in people's hearts, and people's hearts are more and more impetuous and anxious.

Some college students who have received higher education have become the pride of the whole family at that time. Their ability to make money after graduation may temporarily fail to keep pace with social and economic development. Some failed to establish a career before marriage, some failed to realize their dream of buying a house in the city, and they failed to become the dependence and pride of their parents in their thirties, and their hearts were also suffering.

When we were young, we didn't have such good learning conditions, let alone cram schools. After school, most of us have to help our parents do farm work to reduce the family burden.

However, such living conditions have not affected ambitious rural young people's dreams of entering universities. In the 1980s, one college student in our village was admitted to Peking University, and three were admitted to two books.

Now that living conditions are better and educational resources are richer, parents are more anxious. They don't want their children to lose at the starting line, and try their best to send them to various cram schools, euphemistically calling it creating better learning conditions for their children.

Blindly following the trend may not be conducive to the improvement of children's grades. Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude, setting an example, setting an example and waiting for flowers to bloom may have better educational effects.

Parents scrimped and saved to send them to learn painting, piano, swimming and dancing, but they didn't settle down to ask their wishes. Do they really like painting, piano, swimming and dancing?

We spend money to find a tutor to help them with Chinese, math and English, but we ignore the children's own acceptance. Can they digest so much knowledge in a short time? Can random tutoring improve academic performance?

We have no time to spend with our children during the summer vacation. We spend money to send them to various summer camps, thinking that we can cultivate their independence and temper their will. I don't know what children want most is to be with their parents every day, and the family can be happy together.

The best education for children is parents' words and deeds, and children will be influenced by their parents' behavior invisibly.

Parents have the obligation to establish correct values for their children, cultivate their hobbies, encourage their children to think independently, and guide them to develop good habits of self-discipline and initiative.

It is not necessarily a good thing to pull out the seedlings and encourage them. Every period has its own consciousness. When children should enjoy childhood fun, don't give them too much ideological pressure, let alone take away their innocent childhood with various cram schools.

Lead by example, lead by example, wait for the flowers to bloom, and your children will also welcome the spring they deserve.

A piece of land is not suitable for growing rice. You can grow vegetables. Vegetables don't grow well, so you can grow fruits. As long as the land is not abandoned, you will gain something.

The same goes for children's education. Every child has different talents, hobbies and personalities. When children's academic performance is slightly behind their peers, parents need not be overly anxious, let alone force their children to attend various cram schools that children don't like.

When children grow up, they just need to guard their own growth direction, and don't let them take shortcuts, detours and go astray.

Parents sometimes need to properly respect their children's choices and wishes, and try to choose their favorite hobbies for training and development, rather than simply considering whether it will help improve their academic performance.

Although children's academic performance is very important, after entering the society, their values, independent thinking ability, interpersonal skills and practical ability are also very important.

Your child may not be an expert in learning, but he should at least have the ability to live independently and cultivate his own life ability properly, which will help him in the future.

Encourage children to think independently, establish correct values for them, cultivate their hobbies, improve their practical ability, improve their personality and set an example.

Infect children with excellent family style and atmosphere, let them make the right choice and wait for the flowers to bloom, so that the flowers will be more fragrant.

Children are not parents' accessories. They should have their own lives when they grow up.

We expect them to be better than us and have a better life than us, but at the same time we have to accept the possibility of ordinary children. As long as they are healthy and safe, everything else is fine.

Educate children with a normal heart, don't give them too much psychological pressure, don't expect too much from them, don't let them have too much ideological burden, and establish correct values for them. Encourage them to make progress, while allowing them to be ordinary, so that children can grow up healthily and happily.

Although soldiers who don't want to be generals are not good soldiers, everyone wants to be generals instead of soldiers. So who will be a soldier to protect our home?

No matter generals or soldiers, as long as they are loyal to the party, the country and the people, they all have their own values, and they are the heroes of the country and the pride of the people.

Although the flowers are bright, they also need green leaves to make them look more elegant and fragrant. The flowers are beautiful, and the green leaves are actually good.

Parents' words and deeds are more influential than the cram schools that children don't like.

When you take the initiative to put down your mobile phone, turn off the TV, and pick up the book and show it to your children, you can blurt out classic poems, and your children will gradually be influenced by you to like reading.

When you can insist on getting up early every day to keep healthy and strong, your children will be influenced by you invisibly to pay attention to getting up early every day.

In the long run, children's self-discipline will get better and better, and their academic performance will get better and better.

The best education is not only to improve children's academic performance, but to cultivate their self-discipline, initiative, practical ability and independent thinking ability in the process of education. Let them understand the importance of knowledge and guide them to make correct changes through their parents' behavior.

Lead by example, lead by example, and wait for the flowers to bloom. This is the best educational mentality.

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