Standing at forty (10)

Forty years old means neither old nor young; Forty years old is a mixed blessing; At the age of forty, I like everything and nothing.

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It has been several months, and the 40th birthday has become a memory of yesterday, and everything is in a trance.

My birthday is the eighth day of the ninth lunar month, and this year's birthday coincides with Saturday. Everyone is not busy, so it is a leisurely life. As soon as I got up in the morning, I received a blessing message from my good friend. Then three people at home chatted about how to live and agreed to eat hot pot at home at noon. They all agreed. My husband sent my daughter to the dance class, bought food by the way, and my son did his homework, so I began to clean up the room. During this period, a friend called and said that it was naturally a happy thing for a family of three to come over for dinner at noon. Aunt Huang of the beauty salon also warmly sent her blessings and ordered a large bunch of pink flowers. Before lunch, my husband and daughter brought back cakes, and a family and friends brought flowers in, and the atmosphere suddenly became lively. Everyone had a steaming lunch around the hot pot.

Two little beauties were in a hurry to cut the cake, so I made a wish. Inner peace and happiness, full of hope for the future, calm and firm. -I think this is probably the feeling of forty years old!

Birthday is just a day, even if it is an hour or two of joy and noise. But day by day, month by month, year by year. It should be said that before the age of forty, I basically completed all the life indicators in the first half of my life with good quality and quantity: studying, working, getting married and raising children, so I should be content and celebrate. In the next 40 years, apart from taking care of the elderly and children, there seems to be only one thing left, and that is to grow old slowly and happily. If I am lucky enough to make some contributions to the people around me or this beautiful society, it will be more perfect.

Last Saturday, our family of four went to the photography center to take a family photo. Looking back at the last family photo in the photo studio, my daughter is only two years old and now she is almost nine years old. My son was only nine years old at that time, and now he is in high school. Taking this photo is one of my wishes this year. At the beginning of the year, I went to the temple to burn incense. I only have one wish, that is, I hope my son can be admitted to my favorite high school, and now it has basically come true. The wish to take pictures is based on the first wish, so I try my best to realize it. Our husband and wife are both forty years old, and our son has just entered high school. This time node this year is of great significance. If you take a family photo with a sense of ceremony next time, it is estimated that you will have to wait until your son gets married!

Limited conditions, I chose a suit wedding dress series and a red sweater series. The process of taking pictures is really happy, full of happiness. Husband has a serious expression and doesn't like to laugh. I can't forget to take back my plump double chin, and my son's signature fake smile in his later period ... We always laugh with the photographer's tips. Of course, the best state is my daughter. She is an innocent and lively age and has the ability to dance. A casual posture is a perfect shape, which has been praised by handsome photographers for countless times. From noon/kloc-0 to 5: 30, I was hurt by thin high heels, and finally I walked out of the studio barefoot and wearing shoes. And my daughter is really cooperative, putting up with her growling stomach and our uncoordinated posture over and over again. On the bus home, although I was very tired, the whole family was beaming. We thank each other. I thanked them for their cooperation, and the children said thank you for organizing the whole family to take pictures together. This warm feeling accompanied me all weekend.

That night, both father and daughter fell asleep on the sofa. I took my daughter to bed, accidentally twisted my waist, and I felt faint and uncomfortable the next day. My daughter has been clamoring for a hot spring bath, but she has to answer her obstinately. Who knows that Sunshine Villa is not open outdoors, but only three swimming pools are open indoors. Of course, Eva is not suitable for hot springs. She wants to swim. I think the water temperature in the swimming pool is around 27, and I really don't want to get off, but Eva is not at ease swimming alone, so I will accompany her. It must have been fine before, but this time it was frozen by cold water. In the afternoon, when I came back, my back ached badly. It took a long time to massage and moxibustion the next day, and it took a whole week to basically recover. I thought to myself: this is probably the time and tide wait for no man! When the anger is small, it is always very cold-resistant. I believe this is only the beginning, and it will become more and more obvious in the future. Therefore, health care seems likely to be put on the agenda!

The 40-year series ends here! I have started my 40+ life, loving myself, my family, my life and all the beautiful things around me! Of course, I love you who are reading these words!