What should parents pay attention to when meeting before marriage?

It is a happy thing that two people who love each other are getting married. Parents will meet before marriage. So what? Getting married is a life-long event, and mom and dad must worry about it. In fact, mom and dad on both sides have to meet before marriage to discuss marital affairs, and there is no need for newlyweds to be sloppy when they meet. At home, we are all the treasures of our parents. Today, Bian Xiao, a wedding photographer in Hangzhou, will share with you the relevant notes about meeting parents before marriage.

Note 1: Selection of venue restaurants

In our questionnaire survey, 58% readers choose social restaurants for the first time. Regarding such social places, it is recommended to choose private rooms that are convenient for conversation. Of course, there is also a demand for the overall environment and dishes of the restaurant. This traditional diplomatic way of China-food culture pays attention to eating and chatting. In such a place, the two sides have equal status and there is no distinction between subject and object.

Many traditional parents in the family expect the man to take the initiative to visit the woman's house to show their respect for their parents, or some women's parents want to go to the man's house to see their family environment. When you choose to meet at home, you will feel like a guest. One party is the main one and the other is the guest. Of course, when you eat, you will be more intimate, and you will not be disturbed by outsiders. This is a very private place.

Teahouse or cafe?

Couples who choose to meet in teahouses or cafes both have a certain petty bourgeoisie complex. Such occasions often have a better environment and are more suitable for small talk. Pick a sunny afternoon, prospective couples come to such a place with their parents and find a box by the window, just like a sweet date in the afternoon. What other problems can't be dealt with slowly?

Since both parents are meeting to get married, the wedding is of course the focus of the comments. For example, the decoration of the house, which new houses are bought by men (women), the payment of bride price, the conclusion of the wedding date, the relatives attending the banquet, the local customs of men (women) and so on. A lot of trivia about wedding preparations is to be commented on. In fact, these things should be communicated between men and women and their parents, not judged by a meeting, but the intentions of both parties.