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Advice to college students

1, accept the reality of no friends.

There is no shame in eating alone, going to class alone and going to the toilet alone. In fact, there are many such people in schools, and the circles are different. You read books and he plays games. You have classes and he sleeps in the dormitory; You review, he goes out to drink; It's a waste of time to make such friends. Keep your track and meet like-minded people.

2. Brush your circle of friends less and brush more every day. People who don't like you will still dislike you. People who don't look for you will still not look for you. The intensive photos you send will not be ps twice, and the life that others have exposed may not be what you want to see. The most important thing is to concentrate on doing your own thing.

Don't tell others what you haven't done. For example, if you are preparing for the top ten of the final exam, don't take photos of reading in the circle of friends. When you are close to the top ten, send it to a circle of friends and everyone will praise you. If you talk first and don't do it, people will think you are a fool who can only shout.

Your roommate may be your best friend for life, or a stranger who has lived with you for four years, but there is no need to be an enemy in any case. Don't discuss your absent roommate behind your back with any roommate, because you never know whether he will betray you next second.

5, keep your temper and bottom line, it is simple to lose money once, and it is stupid to lose money all the time. When you bring snacks and water back to your roommate, be sure to ask them to give you money. Don't think that if you don't give a few dollars, you will forget. After that, you will never get it again. If they don't give it to you the first time, don't expect them to find it for you suddenly.

6. Be sure to learn English well. Many people say that "there are more and more people who can speak English now, and there is no gold content". Since so many people are studying, you can't. Aren't you less competitive? Most companies like English speakers and are willing to give them more opportunities.

7. Don't take a part-time job for the purpose of making money. A part-time job that can't make you progress is a waste of your time and turns you into a cheap labor force without brains. Read more books when you have time. Be sure to choose a part-time job that is helpful to your ability and employment, such as tutor, part-time translator, dance vocal music teacher, etc.

8. Dormitory is where you sleep, not where you lie around all day doing nothing. When there is no class, go to the library to read, run, take a walk in your city, sign up for a class, and learn your specialty. You are paralyzed in the dormitory eating takeout and complaining that life is boring, and you don't know what to do. In fact, there are many things you can do, but you don't want to do it yourself, just like slacking off in your comfort zone.

9. wake up every day and regret sleeping last night. My eyes are blurred, my mind is dim, my limbs are weak, I go to the classroom in a daze, and after listening to two sentences, I begin to be in a daze, and I have finished my day in a daze, and I have accomplished nothing. Going to bed early and getting up early can not only prolong your time, but also enable you to finish your daily work efficiently and quit staying up late, and you will find that porridge in the morning is better than wine in the middle of the night.

10, college is used to make you make mistakes. You have to be whipped by the university before you can be beaten by the society.

Before entering the university, you may be the "child next door" in everyone's eyes. Everything is right, even farting smells good. When you enter the university, you will find that your ability is not that strong, and many things you do will be wrong. However, the university is to let you make bold mistakes, with low cost and low risk, and let you realize your own shortcomings and correct them.

1 1, drinking is ok, not drunk; Love is ok, but pregnancy is not; Learn to protect yourself in everything and never give anyone a chance to hurt you. At the age of 20, your most precious thing is yourself.

12, pay less attention to others, look at yourself, don't let others play games without reviewing, and you don't review; Don't let others skip class and sleep, you also sleep with them; Don't let others cheat in the exam, and neither do you. His father found him a good job. What about you?

If you think there are no books to read now, it proves that you have read too few books. Don't let yourself stop moving forward. Keep learning, reading and learning new skills.