A man in Hunan writes Spring Festival couplets with a toothbrush. How do cattle people practice?

What is the biggest gap between cattle people and ordinary people?

No matter what field, there is always a group of people who do better than others. Stranger still, even if these people leave the familiar field, they still do better than others in a strange field. Such a person is called? Cattle man? .

Why can some people become cows wherever they go? What is the biggest gap between cattle and ordinary people?

Some people say it depends on reading, some people say it depends on experience, some people say it depends on money, and some people say it depends on contacts. These answers fail to reveal the core differences between cattle people and ordinary people.

The gap between cattle and ordinary people lies not in education or experience, nor in money or connections, but in the ability to deal with problems.

In Ode to Joy, many people think that Xiao Qu-Kong is just a good reincarnation, relying only on her father's position, but ignoring her super problem-solving ability.

When Fan's parents and nephew disappeared at the Shanghai Railway Station late at night, Fan ran around like a headless fly, crying and saying? They have never been out of town. They are so small that they won't meet any bad people, will they? . The only way that Qiu Yingying and Guan Juer can think of is to beg Qu Xiaoyu to go with them. Qu Xiaoyu's only choice is to beg Andy to go with him.

Qu Xiaoyu rescued them from aimless blind search as soon as she appeared. She pressed Fan to the brink of collapse and divided the four people into two teams, searching South Square and North Square respectively. Find the police who patrol at night and replace people's legs and voices with patrol cars and radio stations; When I couldn't find it anywhere, I asked the police where all the people who had nowhere to go stayed, and finally found Fan's parents and little nephew who were sheltering from the cold in the underground passage. Kong won the hearts of three neighbors living in 2202 with his super problem-solving ability, without relying on his father or money.

No one can be smooth sailing all his life, and new problems always emerge one after another. Past knowledge and experience may be useless, so may spending money or finding someone. If you want to be a great man in all fields, you must constantly enhance your ability to deal with problems and finally have the ability to face all situations.

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Do you have the ability to deal with problems?

Dealing with problems is a compound ability, which includes three parts:

It is found that many people do not have the three comprehensive abilities, but only a part of them, and some of them are relatively elementary and simple.

Some people just look for problems. They are demanding, don't like anything, and are picky anytime and anywhere. For these people, the popular slogan "Don't yell if you can't, you can cheer up" is an irony.

Some people can only analyze problems. In a game, everyone becomes the best analyst? No.7 player was eager to make achievements and missed the opportunity of one-on-one fight. The team's excessive fighting led to exhaustion of physical strength and insufficient stamina. The tactics were too conservative to play a high-quality counterattack, and the team's defense line was wrong? These analyses may be correct, but when these analysts really sit in the position of head coach, they may not be able to make better command.

Some people only solve problems. Many scalpers only work hard every day. When the superiors assign them tasks, they go to do them. They don't know where the task comes from, and they don't care where it goes. They just bury themselves in it.

Did you find it? Analysis? Solve? Dealing with problems is a three-step process. Only with the ability of three links can we really have the ability to deal with problems.

If you want to be a cow, you must first analyze your ability distribution, which of these three parts are long boards and which are short boards. Only by deliberately practicing the short board and strengthening and making up for your own shortcomings can we form a complete ability to deal with problems.

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How to cultivate the ability to find problems

The ability to find problems comes from two aspects: discrimination and enterprise.

Discrimination? What is good and what is not?

The premise of finding problems is to have the ability to distinguish the advantages and disadvantages of this field.

I once went to a hair salon with a colleague to discuss cooperation. Before entering the door, I just glanced at the shop through the glass. My colleague said: This shop is good. ? I studied it for a long time, but I didn't see anything. I asked timidly, how did you know you were here? ? He said:? You can see it from the stylist's posture and gestures. ? It turns out that this colleague is a senior hair stylist himself, and how good other hair stylists are can be seen from the corner of his eye. I don't know anything about hairdressing. I only cut my hair once every few months.

Discrimination needs basic skills in this field as the basis. In other words, you must first? Do you understand? In this field, it is possible to find its problems. If you can't even say what you don't understand, you don't have to think about finding problems.

This is why the first thing to do when entering a new field is to make up lessons. As for how to get familiar with a new field quickly, there is a summary in the previous article "How to reach an excellent level quickly in a strange field", so I won't go into details here.

In addition to basic skills, we should also look at our own knowledge. Only when you have seen good things can you tell the good from the bad. If you haven't seen a good one, you will naturally say that it is not a business trip.

A Dream of Red Mansions When Granny Liu entered the Grand View Garden, she arrived at Daiyu's house. Grandmother Jia saw that the screen window was old and ordered a new one. Feng said that she happened to see some light and soft cicada gauze in the warehouse that she had never seen before. It is wrong for her to be laughed at as ignorant by Jia Mu. Soft smoke? Like cicada yarn. Grandmother Jia, Xifeng and Aunt Xue compare the advantages and disadvantages of soft cotton yarn and Xifeng's coat. Granny Liu is chanting Buddha, saying that it is a pity that poor people can't use such good cotton yarn to make clothes and stick windows. Jia replied lightly that this kind of yarn doesn't look good for clothes.

This little scene just reflects three levels of discrimination:

The first level is to be able to distinguish between good and bad and point out where the problem lies. Jia Mu is a person who has experienced real wealth. She has first-class insight, can distinguish the types of cotton yarn, sees the suitable scenes of cotton yarn, and has high taste. She can point out the problems at a glance, such as the old screen window, the color of the screen window doesn't match the scenery outside, and the clothes made of materials don't look good.

The second level is to be able to distinguish between good and bad. Feng lived in an era when the Jia family was in decline. Although she is still a rich man, her eyes are not as good as Jia's, and she can only be better or worse when she sees the real thing.

The third level is that you can't tell good from bad. Grandma Liu's family is very poor. She has never seen anything beautiful in her life. Everything is fine in Jia's family. When she saw it, she only praised it. Ten times better than that painting? , can't find any problems.

The more solid a person's basic skills in a certain field are, the wider his knowledge, the higher his taste and the stronger his discrimination.

Aggressive How could it be better

Discrimination alone is not enough, but also the initiative to never be satisfied and pursue breakthroughs. When things go wrong, most people can find the problem. When something is already very good, ordinary people will feel satisfied, and cattle people will constantly find shortcomings and think about ways to improve.

Michael. Jackson is a typical perfectionist. When his collaborator thinks he is doing a good job, he will say? No, we have to do better, okay? . He will risk being sued by his employer to rewrite the whole album because he is not satisfied; I will call the photographer before each shoot and spend two hours discussing what I will do and how to do it. After performing Bille Jean, who shocked the world, he was still not satisfied after receiving numerous congratulations, because a dance step did not meet his expected standard.

The more demanding things are, the more difficult it is for people to meet and the easier it is to find problems. This is why cattle people are often difficult to serve, and sensitivity to problems is also one of the reasons why cattle people become cattle people.

I'm not satisfied with anything. I am a perfectionist. This is a part of me. ?

Michael Jackson