Jane's Chicken Soup Restaurant wishes you enough disappointment as soon as possible and welcome a new life.

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Perhaps a person has to walk a lot in his life and experience countless sudden prosperity and desolation.

Only in this way can we learn to grow up slowly and become mature day by day.

No matter what you are going through at the moment.

I hope you can save enough disappointment as soon as possible, and then you can start over.

—— 0 1 ——

I suddenly got a call from Xiao Zuo the other day. She said, Meng Meng, I'm getting married.

My first reaction was a little surprised when I heard such news.

On the one hand, I am happy for Xiao Zuo and hope she can live a happy life.

On the other hand, it is a little sad, as if our life at this age has suddenly reached another stage.

Sigh how time flies. Those dissolute days before seemed like a dream.

A person is more emotional at night, so I often think a lot, and sometimes insomnia comes from this.

Marriage is generally happy, but on the phone, she struggled to say the word "marriage" weakly.

Why didn't I hear you say you had a boyfriend before I asked her?

She said it was decided only recently, and there was nothing she could do at home. She hasn't even had dinner with that man a few times.

"You want to marry love." I said these words to her seriously and a little naughty. After all, I still believe in love

At my age, there is no love at all. The purpose of marriage is for the next generation.

I don't know if she is talking angrily, but at that moment she suddenly felt a little strange to Xiao Zuo. It is far from the sunshine, self-confidence, love of travel and love of photography that I knew before.

We talked for nearly an hour, and basically she was talking. All I could do was listen carefully.

Xiao Zuo and his mother have a big fight every time they call. When they put down the phone, Xiao Zuo will cry alone for a long time.

She said: working in a hospital, I usually go to work day and night upside down, and there are fewer holidays. Well, sometimes family members' incomprehension is the worst in the world.

And Xiao Zuo's mother always asks her: Can't you be positive?

Rhetorical questions are often aggressive, which I have been emphasizing.

When people are extremely tired, it is easy to produce emotions, which in turn brings negative energy. Coupled with other messy things, this negative energy is about to erupt.

I said to Zuo: Maybe you are not strong enough to convince your mother that you can live a better life.

If you can, then you have to work harder to make yourself strong enough.

Putting down the phone, I sent her a message: I wish you a new life as soon as possible.

—— 02 ——

At noon, I received a long letter from a reader. Xiaoli talked about her experience of studying abroad alone and talked about some confusion about life.

After reading it, I fell asleep in a daze on the sofa.

Unexpectedly, I had a dream, in which I took this letter and looked for this person named Xiao Li everywhere in the street.

This reminds me of a friend I really know. We all call him Xiao Mu. He studies at Waseda University.

When I first met Xiao Mu, he was a "Parthenocissus" in Kunming. He likes Yunnan, and then he went to northern Thailand by way of Kunming. Air tickets are very cheap.

He came by train from Zhuzhou, Hunan alone. He sleeps in my lower berth, and he is the only quiet boy among the four of us.

But I didn't expect that one night he sang with a guitar and PK with Ah Hu (a Yi guy in Daliangshan), which made him feel "good".

At that time, in fact, I only knew that he was studying in Waseda, and I just silently envied him.

Later, I read a passage, got to know him slowly, and then I would chat with him from time to time. Xiao Mu took three exams before being admitted to Waseda University. Even his family advised him to give up. Don't be so stubborn and waste your time.

For many of my curiosity, Xiao Mu always described it lightly. But I understand that there must be a lot of disappointment behind understatement.

Finally, he was admitted to the school. On school days, he attends classes carefully every day and completes the tasks assigned by his tutor in advance.

He thinks he works hard, maybe he is used to it, so his life is only study and sleep.

Unexpectedly, once, the tutor said to him seriously: Your life is like the life of a 60-year-old man. You study every day and then go to sleep. You should do something crazy when you are young, and you will have memories when you are old.

He felt very wronged, but slowly found that people around him seemed to be doing a lot of things except studying tomorrow. He even forgot what he liked.

Later, he also changed. On weekends, he occasionally goes to barbecue parties with friends. He will earn some money as a Chinese tutor, and then he will start to regain his childhood guitar dream. He occasionally travels to several places during holidays. ...

Xiao Mu was at its best when I met him. He lives hard and seriously, not just to live.

Jiang Yang said: Sometimes, we have to be strong, so we really become stronger while pretending to be strong.

Now that I think about it, it is true.

—— 03 ——

Last night, after interviewing my eldest brother who was on the way to the gap year, we began to talk for a while.

The doorman said: Actually, I'm quite confused recently. I've encountered a lot of things and I feel quite disappointed.

He didn't say anything specific, and I didn't ask.

I poured a glass of water and sat on the sofa, thinking that he was probably similar to my previous experience.

So, I wrote a paragraph seriously and sent it to him.

I have always believed in one sentence: "no matter who you meet, he is the one who should appear in your life." This is no accident. He will certainly teach you something. "

So I also believe: "No matter where I go, that's where I should go, experience what I should experience and meet the people I should meet."

The doorman suddenly said: focus on the people who deserve it, tell the story to those who understand it, and leave more time for yourself.

I think tomorrow's trip will be full of energy and surprises for the prince.

I have seen such a saying: I live for love.

I want to say the opposite: "Love is living." Equally incisive and profound.

Love what you love because you are alive, live richer and have a complete life because of love.

However, not every ferry in life has a boat carrying fate. Don't abandon your dreams and pursue them.

There are not so many ferrymen, so you should learn to fend for yourself, because no one can keep you.

Save up enough disappointment and start over. You can't save enough despair, can you?

Life itself is a bold attempt, and the result is always the joy of harvest.

Even if it is not complete, it is not much worse at worst.

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