My mother-in-law said: "Without 800,000 bride price, my daughter can find her next home in minutes." Can this marriage still be concluded?

Sometimes think about it, it feels really beautiful to love someone regardless of everything; Unfortunately, you can only love once in your life, no matter what the result is. In love, we must respect each other equally. Love without money is really unreliable, don't you think?

The current imbalance between men and women can be said to be "more than enough porridge." In the past, the concept of son preference was deeply rooted in the hearts of most villagers, and many city residents preferred to have boys.

Therefore, the imbalance in the proportion of women is even more precious to girls, and as a result, in some places, marrying a daughter-in-law even requires a high price bride price.

In love, if there is unequal thinking, bride price is the only criterion to test true love!

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Li Chen's hometown is not rich, but it is not poor. It's just that people's thinking is a little backward. In Li Chen's generation, sons are born, so they try their best to have sons when they are pregnant.

Li Chen is the boss of the family. She was born with her parents' expectations. As a result, she was a girl, and her parents wanted to send Chen Li away, but Li Chen's grandmother couldn't bear to keep her and raise her. People who want to have a son all their lives.

I am very happy at the moment, but when my son grows up, they start to worry. Because boys are old, they need marriageable age. Only then did I find that local girls were too scarce. Because of scarcity, girls are precious, and because of this, the price of bride price is higher every year.

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At this time, Li Chen's parents discovered their daughter's kindness. After all, there is a son and a daughter in their family. Having a son is equivalent to making ends meet. They don't have to worry about their son's bride price, and the locals love to keep up with the joneses. If their daughter can marry into a good family and receive a heavy bride price, it will be a very respectable thing for them.

When Li Chen was preparing to talk about marriage, they were carefully selected just to help Li Chen find a rich and powerful husband's family. Chen Lijia is not rich. Li Chen was admitted to a third-rate university. After graduation, her parents wouldn't let her practice in other places, so she went straight home, got a job near her home to earn some living expenses, and sat waiting for her parents to arrange marriage.

That is, after graduating from Li Chen, her parents began to help her find a good husband's family. They didn't expect their daughter to have much skill, but only expected her to get married. This is what Li Chen's mother told her daughter.

"Li Chen, you can't marry a poor boy. My parents raised you so big that I will let you go home as soon as I graduate from college. I am afraid that you will talk about a poor child outside and decide to marry him. That's how I was when I married your father. What is the life in our family now? I just don't want you to live like this. Besides, you should also think of your brother. Where are the girls? In the final analysis, it is better to marry well than to do well. If you find a good family, you won't worry about eating and drinking. What a good life. "

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Li Chen was very proud when she heard this from her mother. She also agreed with her mother's idea, so she set up her mother's arrangement. In this way, Li Chen's mother really helped her find two boys, one named Chen Ming and the other named Zhuo Yue. The boy named Chen Ming is still tall and handsome, and he is more upright. He is also kind to Li Chen, but his family conditions are a little poor.

This boy named Zhuo Yue is not tall, with many pimples on his face, and he is not considerate, but he is willing to spend money, but he is not considerate to Li Chen. Fortunately, his family background is relatively thick, and his parents are officials. They are all very careful, leaving many wife books for their sons.

But Li Chen is still a girl, and she likes her own value. She thinks that Chen Ming is excellent, and her heart has always been biased towards Chen Ming's side, but an excellent family is also generous, which makes Li Chen hesitate.

But they can't have both. They want to think about it. Li Chen still chooses Chen Ming. At first, her mother disagreed with her daughter's choice. Later, her mother thought of a way to choose whoever can meet her requirements. Actually, it's all the same There was no loss to their family, so Li Chen agreed.

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Soon, Li Chen's mother took her daughter to the Chen family to talk about the bride price. Chen Minggu naturally hopes to finish her son's marriage as soon as possible. There is nothing she doesn't want to do. However, Li Chen's mother asked for 800,000 bride price as soon as she opened her mouth, which surprised Chen Minggu.

Chen Ming, a young man, is very good. He knew that he couldn't get the bride price money at home, but he didn't embarrass the woman, but talked to them. So in the evening, Chen Ming asked Li Chen out alone, hoping to talk to her.

But Li Chen's answer disappointed Chen Ming, and Li Chen directly rejected Chen Ming, saying, "My mother said she wanted 800,000 bride price, not a penny less. Won't your family pay for me? In the future, I want to be a member of your family and carry on the family line. Isn't that equivalent to 800 thousand people getting a big living person? You have so many homes that people are eager to have them. If you don't want to be single, don't bargain here. My mother doesn't want me to marry you, but it's not because I have a crush on you that I have to marry you. If you do, you may marry someone else right away. I think you'll be willing to pay.

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Chen Ming listened to Li Chen's smug words, so he recognized NiDuan, and he knew Li Chen and his next home. So Chen Ming told his parents about it and began to pay attention to the investigation. He really found out who Li Chen's next home is. In this way, quietly, without informing Chen, I met Zhuo Jia privately, and the two families passed the air. Li Chen later went to Zhuojia, but was directly rejected by others.

Later, there was nothing they could do. Li Chen took a fancy to the Chen family's room for manoeuvre, and ran back to talk to the Chen family about the conditions, but their family didn't lower the conditions, and they always felt that they had the upper hand.

So Li Chen's mother began to understand, and said rationally, "You should also understand our pains for our daughter. We don't want her to get married badly and suffer in the future, but if your family can't even give a bride price of 800,000 yuan, how can we trust our daughter to you? "

However, Chen Ming did not give Li Chen's family face at all, and said directly, "Then don't give it to me. Our family can't afford it, and we can't afford it!"

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Hearing this, Li Chen's mother took a tough attitude and began to say, "Do you think our family will go backwards if you don't give in? I'm telling you, if you don't give my daughter 800 thousand, we'll find a home We can find it in a few minutes. Do you believe it? "

Chen Ming smiled and said on the spot, "I believe it. Why not?" You think I don't know? Your abacus is not idle at all Aren't you looking for your next home? Yes, I'd be happy to. See if your next home will take care of you. You are good at calculating. I think you should simply not find a son-in-law and ask for a daughter! "

Finally, Chen Jia got angry. Only then did they know that the original plan had been overturned, and everything their family had done had spread around here, and even their son's marriage was ruined. None of them wants to bridge the gap for their families, and now they are really shooting themselves in the foot.

No one is nobler than anyone else, and only one knows how to cherish it better than anyone else.

After all, today's society advocates equality between men and women, not male superiority or female superiority.

In marriage, the most important thing is to keep balance. Justice and equal respect are indispensable in a good marriage.

Love yourself first when you love others, but don't hurt others just to love yourself. Whenever, empathy is very important.