Growing up with children's feelings of reading.

Growing up with children is a special existence, a dream, a hope and a continuation of love for parents, but for our young parents, they are also the most familiar strangers.

My daughter Lele grew up day by day, from babbling to chattering, from toddler to running and jumping, I moved forward step by step. Every parenting classic is my best teacher and friend. One day by chance, a friend of mine said to me, "Hey! There is a good book called "Growing Up with Children", look! " Seeing the lovely illustrations in the book, I already like her, just like others say "first impression"!

I held her and read eagerly, just like chatting with a friend. The problems that once bothered me during Lele's growth seem to be solved in vivid cases in the book, and my heart feels like a clear sky after the rain, refreshing and bright!

Reading this book attentively, there are many places that can resonate with me. Playing with Children has brought me deep thinking. There is a passage in the book, "If mom and dad are the sky for children, then love is sunshine. Imagine how happy and happy a child will feel when he enjoys the sunshine under the sky and plays games freely. " Lele was not very clingy before she was two years old, and she has been pestering me since she was two years old. No matter whether I am doing housework, cooking or talking on the phone with my friends, she will come and ask me to accompany her and play with her, which often makes me unable to finish housework and chat happily with my friends. I used to be very upset about it. I feel that the arrival of my daughter has completely changed my life, and there is no room for free breathing. But now I understand that the child is growing up day by day, and soon, she will have her own world. Maybe I'll accompany her then, but she won't let me. If she wants me to accompany her, I'll spend more time with her. She is not a potted flower or a grass, and her growth needs love to water it.

The first paragraph in the article, "Enjoy reading", benefited me a lot. "People often say:' Books are people's quietest and most eternal friends, and they are also the most accessible, intelligent and patient teachers.' "When my daughter was young, I often hummed in her ear and told stories I heard when I was a child. When she is learning English, tell her the story in Baby Illustrated. I don't care if she understands. I just want her to get into the habit of reading, although she doesn't cherish books and is often fragmented. Now Lele is a little girl who likes to ask endless questions, and books have become her best partner. From reading Baby Pictorial at the beginning to reading Grimm's Fairy Tales and The Journey to the West now, I think Lele has fully enjoyed reading. The story of sleeping is a compulsory course for Lele. When Lele was about 3 years old, I was telling her "A Day in the Adventures of Piggy", and suddenly I found that she could tell the story by herself as long as she hinted at my rhythm a little, and pointed to some words and told me "This is fine print". "This is a sentence" really surprised me at that time. Now my daughter has a strong desire to study. Every month we will take Lele to the Book City, where Lele is completely integrated into the book sea. She will let us read her fresh stories. Sometimes she will sit in the corner with a big colorful story book and tell stories by herself, but she is always shy and will say, "Mom, don't be so close to me, stay away." So far, I haven't heard her tell a story clearly. It seems that I have to work hard to overcome her shyness!

When a child comes into this world, everything is strange and novel. They have a pair of eyes that are always full of curiosity. The first chapter of this book is "Know how to love". I think we should let children feel love first, so that they can love better, just as a philosopher said, "As we love children, children will love the world"! I once saw a picture of a strong man's back. He carefully held a newborn child on his shoulder, as if holding a very fragile favorite. The baby's wrinkled face is in sharp contrast to his father's healthy back. There is a story behind the photo. Because of congenital deficiency, newborn children may face death. His young father plunged from instant joy into endless pain. He told the doctor that he wanted to hug his child. It is this moment that makes all this possible. Someone asked him what he saw from this photo. Some people say it's strong, others say it's dependence, but I think it's more love than love in any language. A strong back and sloping shoulders are the wings of an angel and the power of love.

After reading the book Growing Up with Children by Xu Xiuli, I realized that parents are the first teachers when children grow up. Parents' words and deeds play a vital role in how to cultivate children into adults.

It is mentioned in the book that "appreciation education" should encourage children more and criticize them less, and criticism should pay more attention to proper methods. My daughter does her homework. She often makes mistakes in exams. I always criticize more than encourage. Now think about it: this will only make children feel pressured and have no interest in learning. Appropriate encouragement can help children regain their confidence. Xu teacher mentioned that "children's learning must first be voluntary, interested and motivated." Parents always blindly ask their children to learn this and that. On weekends, parents and children are very busy, but they never ask their children if they want to learn and if they are interested. It seems that as parents, we should first get the consent of our children, and then cultivate their interests. If children are interested, they will naturally learn.

I think every little article, every story and every educational sentiment in the book has given me great inspiration. I also feel that my educational methods have many shortcomings. In the future, I can educate my children in a scientific way so that they can thrive.

After reading this book, I was deeply touched and benefited a lot.

I have heard the story of Carl and his son before, but I have never read the original. Through this book, we have a more detailed understanding of the whole picture.

Carl Jr.' s success, like many so-called prodigies, is not a lasting success after years of contact and then loneliness. Carl Jr. was born in 1800 and written in 18 18. Around the time this book was completed, Karl Jr. began to teach in a famous German university, and he died in 1883 with well-known praise. Therefore, the' education' advocated by old Carl in this book is best confirmed by old Carl with his extraordinary life. Carl. Witt's education is actually a masterpiece created by father and son.

According to my observation, in today's world, from the birth of a child to entering kindergarten at the age of three, parents basically only pay attention to the food and clothing of their children. Conditional parents may buy toys for their children. Conscious parents will spend more time and energy teaching their children to talk and walk, and do some simple knowledge and skills training. Once children can enter kindergarten, they entrust their education to social education institutions. My parents felt relieved as if they had finished the task, and they felt liberated and free.

This is the beginning of a huge mistake. Many years later, when the children became adults, some problems appeared. Parents realized that these problems had a lot to do with their neglect of education when their children were young, but they regretted it.

Not to mention many problems in social education institutions, such as too many students, teachers certainly can't take into account children's personality characteristics and teach students in accordance with their aptitude. Even a perfect school education only covers eight hours of school, and children spend more time outside school, not to mention that they can't be sent to school from birth to about three years old. Studies have confirmed that this period is the golden age of children's education in their lives. Therefore, parent-led family education should occupy an important position in children's education. In my opinion, the difference in children's family education is the root of their future development differences.

I'm not sure what school education in rural Germany was like in the early19th century. But I am convinced that the key to Carl's success lies in his family education, which comes from the careful cultivation of his parents, especially his father.

Old Carl's painstaking efforts and patience, especially his rich knowledge and skills, are unobstructed from the book. Old Carl is a priest. I think as a priest, he should be/kloc-an "intellectual" in the early 9th century. He not only needs painstaking efforts and patience to convince everyone to believe in a God who never appears, but also needs considerable knowledge and skills to serve God's people in order to gain closeness and trust. But I am still amazed at the profound knowledge of old Carl. After all, now is an era of underdeveloped information, not to mention that he is still in the countryside. There are not only some well-designed games in the book, but also skillful educational practices (such as "watch carefully" games to cultivate children's observation ability; For example, telling stories deliberately "give up halfway", and let children "fabricate" next time to cultivate their imagination; And tracking people who are actually thieves on the street, revealing to children that their appearance is unreliable and society is complicated. ), and there are more sufficient scientific theoretical guidance (for example, children's hearing develops before their vision, such as the theory about the law of decreasing children's potential, etc. These are not like the whimsy of old Carl, so how did old Carl get these knowledge and theories?

Mom's cooperation is also very important. Basically, Carl's mother will sing along with her husband, and sometimes even go into battle herself, such as teaching her children how to cook and drink toys. As you can imagine, this mother has done a very good job in taking care of her daily life. It is difficult for a general family tutor to be consistent with mom and dad, especially with parents, grandparents and other elders, which leads to the confusion of children, and most of the children trained by multiple standards are very cunning. In order to teach his children pure German, old Carl did not hesitate to dismiss an old servant who was full of dialects, which shows that he was never soft on the "standard" of children's education.

The parents of ordinary families may not be as knowledgeable as old Carl, but I don't think this is the most deadly. The most fatal thing is their lack of patience, not only to learn new knowledge and skills, but also to help a new arrival, full of doubts about the world and eager to grow up. In fact, old Carl is not all-knowing. For example, he can consult mathematicians in the education of children's mathematics. As far as children's talent in astronomy and music is concerned, he is better at teaching children through other people with the help of external forces. When a child asks himself a question, if he doesn't understand it, he will never pass the exam vaguely. Instead, I will consult the information with my children and find the answer.

Parents are the key to the success of tutoring. Parents' orientation of their children's future, the knowledge and skills they have to achieve this orientation, and the time and energy they can spend to achieve this orientation are three important factors in family education. Old Carl defined children as perfect people, including morality, health and talent. How many parents can accept this position now? How many people have the knowledge and skills to educate these contents? How many people can really pay time and energy for their children and educate them patiently and meticulously?

All success is not accidental. Today, more than 200 years later, Karl's education still has rich enlightenment significance. However, to replicate such success requires our efforts as parents. In my opinion, educating children requires parents' self-education, parents' reflection on their own educational methods and continuous improvement through learning and thinking. A perfect person, moral, physical and talented, is the goal of children's education. Isn't it the life goal that everyone, including parents, should pursue? Therefore, only those parents who are willing and able to grow up with their children can replicate or even surpass the success of Karl and his son 200 years ago.

When we come to this world, everything is strange to us, everything is novel, and everyone has a pair of eyes that are always curious. As parents, we are children's first teachers and lifelong teachers. You should do it yourself.

Family education is very popular in daily life, and it exists all the time in the family. The undisguised words and behaviors of parents are imitated all the time. This kind of imitation has a subtle influence on our character, and it is done without feeling for a long time.

Parents are diligent, and we are diligent; Parents are enthusiastic, and we are generous; If parents take the initiative, we will take the initiative; If parents are polite, we respect them. ...

Our boss is a blank sheet of paper, and your every move is reflected in our children. Therefore, parents must be cautious. In fact, if a child lives in a family full of kindness, love and responsibility, he will eventually become a healthy, upright, motivated and successful person!

There are famous German writers and poets in this book. Goethe's mother has certain methods to educate her children, so Goethe's successful method is correct!

Read this book carefully, but simple words will analyze profound truth. After reading it, I was also inspired. ...

Growing up with children, as children grow up day by day, I began to pay more attention to their education. Recently, I read a book called "Growing Up with Children", and combined with my personal teaching experience in recent years, I deeply know that educating children is an important event and an indispensable lesson for parents. And the success or failure of education is related to the child's life. Educating children well will not only save their worries, but also cause no burden to society. It is also a commitment to the child's life. But how can we teach children well? This is a question that every parent is considering.

"Love needs to learn, and love comes from learning." In the process of my own education, I gradually realized the profound connotation of this sentence in the dribs and drabs of my own education of children. I agree with it very much and deeply believe it.

How to cultivate children's gratitude for love, so that children can be bathed in the atmosphere of knowing grace, gratitude and knowing how to pay and return from the beginning, combined with some personal experiences and feelings in teaching, I think we can start with the following points:

First of all, parents should not spoil their children too much, interfere too much, and take care of everything for their children; Now they are all only children, and they regard them as treasures. They are too indulgent to let go. They hope that everything of their children can be taken care of smoothly, and their children live a carefree life like an emperor, but they don't know that this will gradually obliterate their self-reliance and lose their personality, which will not only become a burden for their families, but also become a burden for society. Therefore, it is necessary to cultivate children's self-care and self-reliance ability. Don't be responsive, don't be unresponsive first, don't let children get things too easy, and parents can often tell their children about their hard work and hardships in life.

Second, strengthen children's communication with the outside world to avoid children's "eating alone"; Many of our children now are real "family children". They can dominate the world at home, but it's useless to leave home. They lack the ability to communicate with others and will not deal with strangers. This has also become a stumbling block to socializing in the future, and they have gradually become otaku and otaku. Therefore, when children are just learning to communicate with others, don't worry that children will suffer and be bullied in the process. In fact, this is also because children are accumulating social experience, from which they will learn some skills to make new friends and experience in dealing with people. So parents should be willing to let go and practice their true knowledge.

Third, parents are children's first teachers, which play a vital role in children's education and personality development. Especially in the formation of good habits, we should set a good example for our children. If there are old people at home, we should give them delicious food first, give them buy buy gifts and call them often. The power of example is far greater than that of words and deeds. Don't do it because of small evils, and don't do it because of small goodness. Subtle education is more convincing and influential.

I'm just a novice here. I'm trying to accumulate my own experience bit by bit on the education of children. Education has a long way to go. As a child's mother, I will continue to explore and work hard for it, hoping that every child can become the pride of parents.

I only read a few articles about Growing Up with Children, one of which parents should avoid in front of their children. I was deeply moved by it. Xu teacher writes really well, children are a mirror of parents, and parents' moral behavior can be reflected in children. There are six points in the book. First, adults can't lie.

I remember once, I promised Yi Ran to buy a story book, but I forgot. When I got home, Yi Ran asked me, "Mom, did you buy the book?" I said, "Oh, I forgot, will mom buy it for you tomorrow?" She cried and said, "Mom, lie." I don't think it's right either. I can't help it I took her to buy it.

Second, adults should avoid quarreling. I also agree that we basically don't quarrel in front of the children, which will affect them. Once, I went to a friend's house to play, just as the couple were quarreling. She was scared to death and said to me, "mom, let's go home." I'm scared. " I came back before I could persuade. Children can't be scared.

Third, we should respect our elders. In fact, if you want your children to be filial to us in the future, you must start from yourself.

Fourth, we should distinguish between public and private and not take advantage of others. In kindergarten, she took something from others and said to me; "Mom, my classmate gave it to me today." I said, "Really, it's from my classmate. We will give your classmate a present tomorrow. If you take it, you should give it back to your classmates, and mom will buy it for you. " She nodded quietly.

Fifth, it is necessary to avoid adults talking about personnel differences in adult units, so as to prevent children from affecting their views on people and things because of their likes and dislikes.

Sixth, it is necessary to avoid exposing the improper concept of power and money in front of children, so as to avoid giving children a sense of privilege and money supremacy.

As parents of children, we should always set an example and demonstrate for our children. It is very important to pay attention to the influence of one's own behavior on children and not ignore their existence.

Growing up with children After reading model essay 6, I watched Tao Hai's "Growing up with children", and I learned a lot and benefited a lot. When a child comes into this world, everything is strange and novel. They have a pair of eyes that are always full of curiosity. As parents, they are children's first teachers, even lifelong teachers, and should do their best. Family education exists in daily life, all the time in every moment of the family. Parents' undisguised behavior is imitated all the time. This kind of imitation has a subtle influence on children's character, and it is done without feeling for a long time. If you are diligent, your children will be diligent; If you are enthusiastic, your child will be generous; If you take the initiative, the child will take the initiative; If you are polite, children will learn to respect ... A child's mind is a blank sheet of paper, and your every move will be reflected in the child. So, you must be careful. In fact, if a child lives in a family full of kindness, love and responsibility, he will become a healthy, upright, optimistic and successful person in the future.

Good habits determine a person's life, and the book points out that good habits are cultivated from childhood; Two generations should learn from each other and grow together; Children develop the habit of reading in early childhood and benefit for life. If a person develops the habit of loving reading, he will never feel lonely all his life, and he will be a person who constantly improves himself and grows up!

The book specifically mentions creating a good reading atmosphere for children, decorating the reading environment at home, and putting books within reach as far as possible, such as putting a book and newspaper bag full of books on the bedside table of children and carefully arranging a corner in the study for him to read freely. Carefully select some children's books he likes. For example, Insects, Animal Encyclopedia, 100,000 Why, Robinson Crusoe, Education of Love, Two Wan Li under the Sea and so on. At the same time, I also pay attention to creating a relaxed spiritual atmosphere. Before reading, I consciously use the language of trusting children, which will help them to have a magical and lasting enthusiasm for reading itself.

Savor this book carefully, but the simple words dissect the profound truth, which is very enlightening after reading it. In short, as parents, we should be good at discovering the advantages of children. As teachers, we should look for the bright spots of children and wait patiently for them to grow up. Maybe success will come!

Growing up with children, the feeling after reading model essay 7 When I first got the book Growing Up with Children, I didn't feel anything new at first glance. I opened it and looked at it carefully. The more I looked, the more I liked it. Different from ordinary parenting books, the parenting methods mentioned by twin sisters in the book are very practical and operable. I read it all at once and recommended it to my sister-in-law. Good books must be read over and over again. In order to promote your further digestion and absorption, write the following reading notes.

The biggest feeling after reading this book is that there are no children who can't do it, only parents who can't do it. Parents should be careful on the way to raising children. As long as they are careful, there are no children who can't teach well. In the process of raising Dong Er, the twin sisters rely on their deep love for their children and guide them from the perspective of children everywhere. Their intentions deserve my careful study. Gemini said, "It is our fate to have children come into this world." This is a gift from God to our parents, just like a good friend to our parents. Our parents must be kind to her. "What is even more touching is that Gemini, with a heart of" great love "and tenacious perseverance, has written a series of blog posts to guide parents who are confused on the road of parenting.

Reading this book, as the mother of a six-year-old girl, I must keep the following points in mind:

1, each child has different talents. Compared with other children, there are advantages and disadvantages. For example, for some key knowledge points in primary school, if parents can intervene in advance, guide where children are insufficient, and let children play and study easily, children's confidence will be greatly improved, and children will learn more easily.

2. Do a good job of communication with teachers. Now a teacher is very tired with many children. Twin sisters communicate with teachers through letters, which not only saves teachers' time, but also wins teachers' goodwill, thus promoting children's learning.

3. Use "quick mental arithmetic" to get rid of children's carelessness. Carelessness is a sign of a child's immature brain, which is also related to his personality. Six-year-old children's brain capacity is only 70-90% of that of adults. Using brain, eyes, mouth, ears and writing can greatly promote the development of the brain. The specific operation is that parents sit face to face with their children. Parents pull out the addition and subtraction cards from behind and put them on their chests, so that children can blurt out the answers quickly. This is not to teach children addition and subtraction, but to teach them a kind of ability. Train children: attention, reaction ability and math ability. The more familiar, the faster, the more accurate and the better.

Interest classes vary from person to person, but no matter what interest class you choose, you can gain something by persisting for a long time. The inspiration I got from my twin sister is that I will definitely guide Kiki to learn swimming, table tennis and Go in the future. Piano and other musical instruments have always been Kiki's favorite, and I will continue to encourage and appreciate them.

5. Give play to the nurturing role of the elderly at home. "Whether adults or children want to walk into his heart, they must resonate with him. Resonance with the elders is to touch them and recognize them, and they will definitely come to help you and understand you. " The advantage of this is that the family is harmonious, the elderly have a sense of accomplishment, and the children have learned to be filial and respect their elders. This is what Ma Qi did badly, so we should improve it in the future.

6. Let children learn to "make three sentences". When reading the story, guide the children to make their own sentences with keywords and record them. "Making three sentences" means putting words before, during and after a sentence.

Kiki is going to be in the first grade soon. Gemini sister's book has inspired me a lot, and only a tiny part is recorded here. At present, Dong Er, a child of Gemini, has been a top student in all-round development since the fourth grade under the careful guidance of Gemini. At present, Dong Er is a senior high school student, so more contents in this book are more suitable for parents with primary or junior high school students or poor academic performance. As friends, Sister Gemini tells us valuable experience in guiding children. For example, help children write formulas to memorize important knowledge points in history, geography, chemistry and other disciplines, how to guide children to write happily and related skills, how to reduce mistakes in exams, how to make children review easily before exams, how to deal with a series of problems in their study and life, and ways and means to communicate with children. In short, the twin sisters expressed their parents' concern and devoted all their experiences.

Growing Up with Children is really a good book, and Ma Qi will continue to read it when he has time. I believe that every reading is a new harvest.

Growing up with children, we often say that good children are boastful, and praising and praising children can help children build their self-confidence. This view is also accepted by the new generation of parents, who generally advocate the education of "love", carefully protect children's self-esteem and self-confidence, and let children grow up with encouragement and praise. In the process of children's growth, praise is indeed essential, but too much praise makes children more "standard", and at the same time, it will make them unconsciously put a heavy yoke on their hearts, unable to bear the small disappointments in life, unable to afford to lose, and poor tolerance for setbacks.

In kindergarten, there are quite a few children who always take "I" as the center and are very concerned about winning or losing. You can't afford to lose a game or even a game. If you lose, you cheat and don't want to play. Some children can't stand a little setback. If he thinks this activity or task is difficult and he may not be able to do it well, he will simply give up or even have no intention to try.

A correct attitude towards success and failure is an important lesson in life. For adults, the more times they experience failures, the stronger their psychological resistance to setbacks.

But children are not adults after all, and the problem of children's fear of failure can not be solved by coaxing or pressure alone. It is too easy to coax success, and children can't stand failure more and more; Just press it, and the child will gradually lose confidence. More wisely, our teachers and parents should give their children some goals of "jumping to get fruit". If children can't achieve their goals, we should encourage them: you can achieve this goal, but you don't work hard enough. Come on, it'll help. Some children can never lose by playing video games, so they don't take winning or losing seriously. We can learn from this practice. When we play games with children, we shouldn't always let them know that they lost and won. If they are afraid of losing, let them lose a few more times and let him know that people can't win forever.

Children can't afford to lose, or they can't face the reaction of failure results, which has something to do with parents' attitude towards success or failure. In normal life, some parents often like to regard their children's success as their "facade". If you win, praise the child for being smart and capable. If they lose, they accuse and blame their children for being stupid. It is easy for them to go to two extremes, either they can't afford to climb if they fail, or they have to compete for strength and strive for victory.

Every parent and teacher wants their children to be excellent, but before encouraging their children to pursue success, they should look down on winning or losing, so that children can understand that the most important thing is not winning or losing, but doing things with heart.