What about working overtime on weekends and dating conflicts?

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I think the public-private relationship is antagonistic: sacrificing private affairs for official business always feels that I have wronged myself, and it is inevitable that I will be unwilling; But satisfying self-interest and offending the supervisor invisibly is tantamount to self-destruction. Because no supervisor will reuse his subordinates who stood him up at a critical moment. As the saying goes, eating someone's mouth is soft and taking someone's hand is short. Although the salary will not come from the supervisor's pocket, he has absolute control over your salary. As wage earners, we naturally know how to choose. Therefore, it is necessary to have the concept of "a little intolerance leads to great mischief", and all thoughts of "hard luck" and "bad luck" should be quickly thrown away. If you are mentally unbalanced, think about it. An old frontiersman loses his horse—a blessing in disguise. Which supervisor doesn't like his dedicated subordinates? Your efforts will definitely add points to your year-end assessment. As for the entertainment of sacrifice, I'm afraid I won't have a chance to enjoy it when my salary is high. Rebecca's job is a friend's date and a living job, so she can only choose one. After working for more than ten years, I think if a person wants to survive and develop, he must cherish the work that brings him work, especially if the unit has urgent work that requires you to work overtime. I am an electrician, and my unit is an important department that directly guarantees flight safety. No matter whether they are just off work or resting at home, once they receive the fault notice, most people will rush to the meeting place as quickly as possible and wait for the arrangement of the leader. Because we know that flight accidents are different from ordinary traffic accidents, which not only cause huge economic losses to civil aviation, but also have political influence. Personally, I think you will not only be dismissed, lose your job, but also go to jail. Of course, the work you are engaged in may not be that important, but in today's fierce competition, a department that fails to complete the "emergency work" may make the company lose its reputation and customers, resulting in man-made economic losses. As an individual, don't you feel a little guilty for refusing to work overtime and losing the trust of leaders and colleagues? Don't you feel guilty about spending the weekend happily and telling your leading colleagues how you feel after dealing with urgent work? Do you care about their criticism or comments on you? Wang Guangshan, the field department of the Capital Airport, should do a good job. Maybe you can give a thousand reasons for refusing to work overtime. Even you have no choice but to swear and be busy. It is wrong of you to do so. It's important to get together with friends, but work should come first. Isn't it common to work overtime? Now that the supervisor has informed you, there is no need to say anything more, just do it well. Don't go back to work. You did one thing, and you ruined your good impression in the eyes of the leaders. It's time for Liu Xiaojing to show himself. Have you ever had such distress: you think you have been working hard and seriously, but you have not been promoted; I worked hard for a long time, but I was still so obscure that I couldn't find a chance to show my face. Now I tell you: here's your chance. Since the supervisor comes to work overtime, it is enough to prove your working ability and position in the eyes of the supervisor. If you can double the supervisor's affection for you by working overtime, and even help your future promotion, then it is worthwhile to sacrifice a date. There are plenty of opportunities to play in the future, so why care about this time? However, you'd better not promise him at once, but fully show your embarrassment and regret in front of the supervisor and make him realize the sacrifice you made for your work, so as to get the best effect. Sinning, don't waste any more opportunities. If this happens to me, I will think about it for a while, then call my friend, cancel the appointment and make another appointment. Then concentrate on your work. Because I have wasted many opportunities, I don't want to lose another opportunity for my own pleasure this time. Sometimes I can't distinguish between priorities, but I won't miss it again this time, because the opportunity is fleeting. I will do this extra work well and invite the supervisor to talk outside, because there is little chance to stay alone with the supervisor, so let's spend the weekend with the supervisor. Do you understand the purpose of doing this? I want a promotion and a raise! Experts in Crystal say that there are many reasons why the meaning of work is "angry", or they are tired of the job, or they think that overtime is against the principle, or they think that the supervisor is biased against you and deliberately makes things difficult for you, or they think that friendship is more important than work. But in any case, you should always think calmly about the reasons for "dissatisfaction" and then seek solutions. In this topic, people's attitudes towards work and life are mainly involved. In my opinion, whether employees accept the instructions of the supervisor and are willing to work overtime are mainly dominated by two concepts: work ethics and leisure ethics. 1. Work ethics believes that work is a necessary social activity for people, and it is acceptable to work long hours every day. Every employee should strive to improve work efficiency, achieve work results and strive for promotion. Although this concept has changed in modern society, data show that more than half of the workers in American society still have this concept. In this kind of ethics, the purpose of people's work is to pursue something more valuable. For example, prove your ability, be proficient in a certain business, be a competent employee or become an important person in the unit. Besides, you can get some tangible rewards through your work, such as money, status, appreciation and promotion. 2. Leisure ethics holds that work is an unfortunate obligation. I am willing to work, because it is the only way to maintain the required lifestyle. These people can't be expected to do more work than the minimum required to keep their jobs (this is the case with the staff in the topic). If they work hard for promotion, it is only because they want to spend money on those leisure activities. In addition, there is an extreme leisure ethics, which thinks that work is completely unnecessary and punitive. According to the above point of view, which do you think you are close to? Can it be modified? Secondly, consider the following questions: Is dating really important? Can I cancel? Are there any other colleagues who can replace overtime? Then exchange views with the supervisor. Maybe he will bend the rules. However, before you do this, you should know that canceling overtime is very unfavorable to your work itself, and you may lose the opportunity to perform in the future. Therefore, I suggest you agree with your supervisor's arrangement and get your friend's understanding later. A true friend will think of you and understand your situation. But it is not easy to get the understanding of the supervisor, especially if the supervisor is a person with work ethics.