56-year-old Chen Jin won the national first-class actor award. She and her brother agreed to stay together for the rest of their lives and never get married. What is the current situation?

Marriage is one of the destinations of love, and it is also an important watershed in life. Most people will enter the palace of marriage with their favorite person or the right person around the time they get married. Spend the rest of your life with your significant other. Of course, there are also a small number of people who choose to die alone, without many external reasons, but simply because they do not want to wrong themselves.

Chen Jin is such a person who does not want to wrong herself and pursues freedom. She is a national first-class actor and has numerous honors. However, at the age of 56 this year, she is still alone and unable to live alone. I made a promise with my brother not to marry for the rest of my life. What is the story of her life, and what made her choose a different life?

1. Family is the biggest support, keep working towards your dream

Chen Jin was born in 1964 in a military family in Jinan, Shandong. Her father, Chen Kemin, is a professor at the National Defense University. The elder brother Chen Zhenzhi is a famous fashion photographer.

As the youngest girl in the family, she grew up being held in the palm of her hand. Her brother dotes on her very much and always gives her the best. The relationship between brother and sister is very harmonious.

Although she was born into such a military family and grew up in a compound, Chen Jin has been fond of art since she was a child. Therefore, after graduating from high school, she successfully entered the drama department of Shandong University of the Arts with her own ability. While in school, her academic and professional scores were among the best. She was an outstanding student in the eyes of teachers and was always the protagonist in school rehearsals and performances.

With her solid acting skills, Chen Jin was assigned to the Air Force Repertory Theater and began her own drama performance journey. She is extremely talented in acting. After studying tirelessly, she made rapid progress in the few years after joining the repertory troupe and became a very capable young actor in the troupe.

But even though she had a smooth journey, there were times when she was disappointed. A famous director once said to her face: "You are not pretty, you are a little fat, and you will not last long on TV. Let’s go back to the drama stage.” This also made Chen Jin remember that losing weight and keeping in shape have become a crucial part of her life for decades.

And she has always been a hard-working and talented person. It is only a matter of time before she becomes famous all over the country.

2. Thirty years of becoming famous, winning awards and being soft-handed

In 1990, 23-year-old Chen Jin participated in her first TV series "Mountains Don't Turn, Rivers Turn" "And won the second prize of the 11th China TV "Feitian Award" with her superb acting skills in the play; in the same year, the TV series "Ebb and Flow" she starred in won the "May 1st Project Award" and the 14th China TV Series "Flying Award". The first prize of China TV "Feitian Award" and many other awards.

In just three years, Chen Jin, who is only 26 years old, has become a female star loved by many audiences and an actor that many directors want to work with. Since then, Chen Jin has reached the peak of her acting career and won numerous awards.

In 1996, Chen Jin won the 17th "Feitian Award" for Outstanding Actress in the movie "Campus Pioneer"; she won the 8th Shanghai TV Festival Magnolia Award for Best Actress in the TV series "Years of Dependence". Best Actress Award; for the movie "Born Out of the Sky", she won the Outstanding Actress Award at the 6th China Film Huabiao Awards, the Best Supporting Actress Award at the 20th China Film Golden Rooster Awards, and the Best Supporting Actress Award at the 5th China Changchun Film Festival. award.

In recent years, as she gets older, she is no longer the haloed heroine in film and television dramas, but her acting skills are still superb.

During the 30 years of her acting career, Chen Jin has been in full swing, winning various film and television awards such as the Golden Eagle Award, Feitian Award, Magnolia Award, Golden Rooster and Hundred Flowers, and Huabiao Award. . These honors also illustrate the superb acting skills of Chen Jin. As a female star worthy of the name of a movie queen, Chen Jin’s reputation is not that great. On the contrary, many people do not know this female star. It can be seen that Chen Jin’s Low profile.

The reason why Chen Jin does not have such a buzz is inseparable from her clean private life. She is like a white lotus blooming alone in the entertainment industry, blooming quietly, just waiting for people to discover it. Who would have thought that she, who is so indifferent and unrestrained, would have strong persistence in her feelings?

3. Pursue freedom and would rather remain unmarried

Nowadays, Chen Jin is 56 years old, but she has always been single and has never married or had children. As for the reason why she has never entered into marriage, she said this: A person's life is equally happy, but marriage will become a shackles for me.

In fact, the reason why Chen Jin has such thoughts is inseparable from her childhood life. She once recalled her childhood past in a program. She said: "We, brothers and sisters, have been independent since we were young. Because we are not gregarious, we have become marginalized characters, but we have our hobbies. It can be said that we We are all immersed in the atmosphere of art, no matter what other children think of us."

It is precisely because of this kind of childhood that both Chen Jin and his brother Chen Huai developed independent personalities when they grew up. , don’t want to please others, just want to live your own life quietly. Moreover, the brother and sister, who also grew up and were immersed in art, also made a promise to "never marry each other for the rest of their lives." Elder brother Chen Huai also pursued an independent and free life and never got married and had children.

It can be seen that Chen Jin is a person who takes marriage very lightly. Her outlook on life is that people do not have to get married in order to live in this world. People spend their whole lives getting along with themselves and are only responsible for themselves. , Living for yourself is a life worthy of yourself.

Her brother Chen Huai is undoubtedly the one who gave her the greatest support. He once said to her: "Jinjin, I hope I am the one who lives the longest. I live long because I can Take care of you until you grow old." This kind of brother-sister love is really touching. When Chen Jin heard what her brother said at that time, she was so moved that she was speechless for a long time. Her willfulness was always tolerated, and her choices were always supported by her family. This is why Chen Jin lived casually and freely for half her life. .

When asked whether her parents really understand that both siblings are nearly sixty years old but are not married, Chen Jin answered this way: "Maybe my parents also have this kind of unmarried attitude." If they were in this era, they might choose not to get married."

It seems that both brothers and sisters can become such independent people who pursue unfettered freedom, with the tolerance of their parents. Understanding is closely related. Perhaps for Chen Jin's parents, as long as their children are happy, it doesn't matter whether they get married or not. Respecting their decision is the greatest love.

Nowadays, apart from the needs of acting, Chen Jin enjoys her own free life.

Summary

China is a gregarious society. Marriage and family are the most important existences in life. It is natural for men to marry women. Therefore, for many people, they cannot understand that Chen Jin will never marry, nor can they understand the lifelong agreement between her and her brother, or even why their parents agreed to support her? Of course, starting your own family and having children are the common features of most people's lives.

But if marriage and children are regarded as the only way in life, how can a marriage and family full of reluctance be happy? What's wrong with the freedom to choose one person? Chen Jin's parents may have seen this and accepted the choice of their two children not to marry. With the support of his parents and the love of his brother, it has to be said that Chen Jin's life is really complete.

In today's society, people no longer regard marriage as inevitable, and the concept that women must have children after marriage has long been outdated. A person's life is short and one-time. You can only live according to your heart and pursue what you really want, rather than being limited to inherent vision and other people's opinions. Because everyone must learn to get along with themselves. Only in this way can they truly enjoy life, be worthy of their own life, and be worthy of the people who love them.