How important is it to maintain a childlike innocence? 》

Wang Zengqi wrote in "Human Grass":

I feel that a modern, humane family must first be "neither big nor small." Parents are awe-inspiring, but children who are "straightforward" are the least interesting. Children are their own. Their present, and their future, should be designed by themselves. A father who wants to mold his children in his own ideal mold is foolish, and, damn it! In addition, as a father, you should try to maintain a childlike innocence.

It makes people feel ashamed. Don’t those inspirational books teach us to be calm adults? Why do you have to keep your childish innocence after becoming a parent?

When you observe life carefully with doubts, you will always find the answer. Indeed, time is magic, and any doubts will reveal their truth in the rings of time.

The importance of maintaining childlike innocence is actually not difficult to understand. Think about it carefully: What qualities do children have?

Childhood’s happiness is very simple: a lollipop and a box of chocolates are enough!

Childhood’s troubles are also very simple: if our grades are not ideal, a criticism from our parents is enough to make us cry!

Childhood friendship is very simple: if you are good to me, I will be good to you. If you give me delicious food, I will give you delicious food!

My childhood ideal was very simple: I was obsessed with the greatness of scientists, and I fantasized about doing scientific experiments in the future!

When we were children, we were very simple:

We could play with a pile of mud all afternoon, and we would not leave until our parents called us home for dinner!

Just ask when you don’t understand, always chasing after your parents and asking this and that,

Why is the sky blue?

Why are car wheels round?”

“Why can’t we see the stars during the day?”

There are few worries in the little head; Just innocence and imagination!

When I was a child, I was very compassionate. If I liked you, I would share my best snacks and toys!

And these innocence will follow! As we age, it will slowly disappear, and even more so, we don’t seem to notice its departure.

The reason why childhood time is beautiful is because we can never go back. Such a beautiful time, we can't go back to our carefree and innocent self!

We were all children once, but we all seem to have forgotten it!

Gradually! , we become "adults", weighing the pros and cons of choosing and being chosen, and the criterion of weighing is not because of love but because of interests.

Gradually, we become "adults", every day. We seem to have more and more troubles and less and less happiness. We want more and more, but we gain less and less.

Gradually, we become "adults". . After three minutes of work, our concentration drops rapidly, and it seems difficult to find things that really interest us.

But is this kind of "adult" really what we want to be? < /p>

No!

Age is just the accumulation of time, the richness and interest of the soul are what we should pay attention to and cultivate.

There are always things like that in life. Some people will give you light and hope. They all have a childish heart, and the small joys in life can make them very happy!

There is a saying in "White Night Walk"... There are two things in the world! Don’t look directly at it, one is the sun, the other is the human heart, life is complicated, but people who keep it simple can always get happiness easily. ?

If photographers don’t have childlike innocence, then they won’t capture it! Only when they see the interesting moments in life and have love in their hearts can they arouse their desire to take pictures.

If a writer does not have a childish heart, then he will not be able to understand the various situations in the world and write " "Everyone has something in their heart, but no words in their writing can touch the hearts of readers."

Well, this is even more true for musicians, whose creations are indispensable for their innocent and interesting souls. Just because of their rich souls, That’s why music is charming and lasts forever!

Bach, Beethoven, and Mozart are the most powerful proofs!

If we don’t travel around the world, we won’t know what our spirit is! and emotional sustenance, but once we travel through the world, we find that we can never go back to that beautiful place.

When we start to seek, we have already lost it, and if we don’t start to seek, We have no way of knowing how valuable everything around us is.

Maybe this is the meaning and charm of growth. The past is the best time, but without the past, there would be no present, let alone the future!

Childlike innocence is still the most beautiful gift we give back to life. After all the vicissitudes of life, we still return as boys and girls!