Live high's unique beauty is either beautiful or not!

Lead: beauty is a kind of cultivation, not beauty or life!

? Some time ago, I participated in a group quyi competition, in the form of a combination of Beijing opera and cheongsam show. One of the teachers is Li, a model teacher of China Cheongsam Association Branch. When all our contestants first saw her, they only remembered one word-beauty! One-meter-eight height, curvy figure, fair skin, good looks, delicate light makeup, low-key earrings, plus decent dress, walking with wind, one-meter-eight gas field.

When she began to train our bodies and walk the catwalk, her natural movements and gestures really interpreted two words-elegance: every movement of her whole body has unspeakable harmony, a wonderful rhythm emanates from her, and every inch of her body suddenly becomes a part of the rhythm, with an indescribable charm and sexiness. Chernyshevski said that beautiful things are always associated with people's happiness and happiness. Li has a happy family and a tall and sweet lover. No one can tell that her son is sixteen, handsome and sunny, and a little shy to meet strangers.

? Beauty is a kind of outlook on life, an attitude towards life and a kind of cultivation. Only by loving yourself can you get love. Five years ago, I met Sun, a super hot mom in Shanghai. She is beautiful, has temperament, loves to laugh and is enthusiastic. Run a clothing store, located at the gate of Shanghai Jiaotong University, mainly for college students. The storefront is dominated by sweet pink style, but it is warm and not naive, sweet and not vulgar. Only after I got familiar with the proprietress did I know why her family's business was the best in that street: she graduated from a university in Shanghai and worked for four years. She started as a training specialist in the operation center and later worked as the president's secretary. The work is smooth, the marriage is smooth, and the children are smooth. It seems that her life is perfect. Just when everyone admired her, she suddenly made a decision: she would quit her job and open her own shop, because she likes to engage in careers related to beauty. Perhaps it is because of her high education, refreshing temperament, cheerful attitude towards life, keen and unique vision and persistence in beauty that her business in that street is the hottest, and she has to get a new one every week.

? Seeing her made me believe that a woman can live such a wonderful life, because meeting her changed me. Unlike others, she doesn't blindly flatter and please customers. She treats every customer sincerely, like a friend. If the style you choose doesn't suit you, she will give you the most sincere advice and even advise you not to buy it.

The feelings of your own soul and friends are the most attractive things in life. She will also teach you how to care for your skin and how to use special items to make you different. For example, high heels, for petite girls, will affect others' impression of you. Every time you step on high heels over 10 cm, it changes not only your appearance and height, but also your aura and attitude, even the way you walk, smile and communicate with people. It is not the fashion itself that determines your style and taste, but the details. Make friends with her, and you will find that life is beautiful and the whole person feels better and better.

Before the age of 20, your parents are responsible for your appearance. After the age of 20, you are responsible for your appearance. The pursuit of beauty is not only an insistence, but also a responsibility. The beauty of a woman will be taken away by years, and her gorgeous youth will not fade with the passage of time, only her fragrance will never fade. True beauty needs time to brew and ferment, and needs deep accumulation.

The first step is to give consideration to both appearance and beauty.

There is an ancient saying that "women are tolerant of themselves". I think it is more important that "women are tolerant of themselves". It's really cool to know how to please yourself and take responsibility for your life. Clothes are not expensive to wear, but you have to be able to match them. A woman who is willing to spend time on herself and knows how to dress up must be a girl who knows how to enjoy life. "It doesn't have to be beautiful, but it must be elegant and exquisite." Yes, exquisite. Many people know how to make up and buy a lot of expensive clothes, but they can't see any exquisiteness. Dressing collocation and makeup modification are not skills that every girl can know, but they are basic skills that every girl who loves life can know.

Beauty is not that difficult, and fashion is not that complicated. This is just a way of self-expression. Just like your hobby, dressing is a process that makes you more enjoyable and more confident. If you can't enjoy it, even the most beautiful clothes will become dull.

Keeping a brave heart is the second step of beauty.

? What is courage? Is to love and sweat at all costs, dare to be hated, dare to accept the facts, dare to be happy alone, dare to get up without hesitation, and dare to do what you say. Many people say that entering Tibet is a difficult process. Whether riding or riding, many people will tell you that it is too dangerous, altitude sickness, natural disasters and man-made disasters encountered along the way. However, only you know how dangerous it is.

When I was in graduate school, a brother Tu in the laboratory once rode to Tibet. At the beginning, he was stopped by countless people, telling him the danger, telling him that the conditions were too bad to stand, and it was too dangerous for a person to be so maverick. He did it bravely by himself. The process must have been very hard, but he became braver and braver. Now I am studying PhD at Fudan University in Shanghai. I think this brave brother is planning a bigger trip again.

? Many things have to be experienced before you can know how you feel. The experience taught by others is always superficial. After all, you can't feel it personally, you can't experience all kinds of setbacks in the process, you can't handle what happened, just like you have never been to the valley, you can't feel the openness and tranquility of the valley, and you can't experience whether the air there is fresh or not. Have a positive and brave attitude, have their own ideas and opinions on things, and be brave in practice.

"Jogging Queen" Chen Yihan likes traveling, reading, sports, yoga, skiing, horseback riding, swimming, rock climbing, water skiing and even Taekwondo. She is like a young girl, with sunshine, vitality and oxygen. Only those who love life can keep a girl's heart forever and live to be eighty and eighteen.

In fact, life is a particularly cool and fashionable trip. As the master of life, what is more wonderful than enjoying life? Facing life, following your inner voice and living happily is the greatest courage. "We don't just take pictures with cameras, we bring all the books we have read, the movies we have seen, the music we have listened to and the people we have loved."

Stick to your hobby, the third step of beauty.

? Everyone should have a hobby, a sustenance outside of work. Psychologically speaking, it is not enough to turn an interest into a sustainable hobby only by a temporary impulse. Sticking to our hobbies can make us less submerged in mediocre and trivial family life. Hobbies will also remind you that life in front of you is also poetic.

? When a friend decorated a new house and invited our good friend to her home, all of us were shocked. Her paintings are hung on the walls of the living room, bedroom, stairwell and even bathroom. There are colorful oil paintings, sketches made in black and white, Chinese paintings outlined in thick and thin ink, and small bookmark ornaments. In a word, it's all from her hands. It may not be professional enough, but it's full of fun. After all, they are all painted by themselves, full of their love for life and expectations for future life. She just likes painting very much. We never expected that as an amateur, she should reach such a level, which really shocked our friends.

? When you complain that the world is mediocre and boring, try to change it, dig up a hobby, concentrate on practicing it, and polish it into a "seeing people get the way". At that time, if you look again, people who used to be as mediocre as you are already the envy of them.

? So, no matter what hobby you have, please stick to it, because no persistence will never be disappointed.

Reading becomes a habit, the fourth step of beauty.

? I have heard such a short story before: a professor went to the poorest family. This family is extremely poor, penniless, the house and furniture are very shabby, and the people living in it are also wearing shabby clothes. But the professor said that they were not poor at all, and everyone was curious, because this family was recognized as the poorest. Looking at the puzzled expression of everyone, the professor pointed to an inconspicuous corner and said slowly:

External temperament is easy to cultivate, but temperament is not just an external expression. Your external performance must be supported by a mature, intelligent and indifferent heart. Only by reading enough books and knowing enough truth can we learn to be modest. Just like Dong Qing, who surprised everyone some time ago because of the Chinese Poetry Conference, she showed us the most beautiful appearance of women in China by respecting her talent and having a beautiful temperament. Reading is like a pot of hot soup cooked for a long time, which will smell good after a long time. The truly beautiful woman is not in her skin, but in her bones. If she hides poems and books in her heart, time will never be invincible.

Zeng Guofan said: "People's temperament is hard to change because they are born. Only reading can change their temperament. The ancients were familiar with each other and said that reading can change bones. No one will ever refuse to make friends with people with temperament, knowledge, education and connotation.

Make reading a habit, get rid of inner narrowness, your mind will become broader, and your temperament will be more restrained and calm. In your present temperament, there are hidden paths you have traveled, people you have met and books you have read.

Do you want to be better? Go and study! Don't spend a lot of money, stick to it, persevere, and do it beautifully, just like the flower ring in May, which will float around your neck one day.

Having an interesting soul is the fifth step of beauty.

Once upon a time, when we were students, we were also gifted scholars and beautiful women, and good poems and sentences were readily available. Nowadays, most of us can only "walk the world with swords" in the workplace and life. Therefore, it is not difficult for us to understand why the "Chinese Poetry Conference" became a national program overnight, and the topic has repeatedly appeared on the hot search list. Even Wu Yishu, a beautiful girl after 00, wrote a flying flower order, which made countless people admire "satisfying all illusions about ancient talented women." Because this program is like a clean stream, it is injected into people's hearts, because there are too few interesting souls in this world.

It is better to have an interesting heart than to be beautiful. Interest is personal carving, and beauty is natural creation. The poet Wilde once said, "There are too many beautiful faces and too few interesting souls in this world". An interesting soul is a condiment in the kitchen. Without it, real things can still be eaten, but with it, food will make people feel happy. People who often have an interesting soul have the heart to do things to the extreme.

The Roi in the movie If You Are the One is very interesting, although he is a little old and looks ordinary. With such people, life is carefree but interesting. Watching Xiaoxiao go to the beauty pageant, he didn't want her to go from the bottom of his heart, so when Xiaoxiao changed his clothes and jewelry, he said, "That's enough. Everyone's focus is on the beauty pageant on the stage. " This makes people laugh and cry, and it is also measured and indisputable jealousy. He is very interesting and has a high eq.

True nobility is not the nobility of appearance, but the nobility of soul. The truly convincing temperament is not elegance at the peak of life, but calmness after understanding life. Beautiful people attract people's eyes with their beauty, and interesting people attract people's souls with their personality charm. A beautiful appearance is not comparable to an interesting soul.

An interesting person may not necessarily read thousands of books, but his heart must be full; An interesting person may not take the road of Wan Li, but his life never stops.

If you are not beautiful or alive, live your unique beauty!

Time will lead you to the right person. Please love yourself first. Take good care of yourself rather than envy others. Whether it is beauty, career or emotion, being beautiful or not is a positive energy and a positive and optimistic attitude towards life! Learning to love yourself and beauty is the most worthwhile career for women. How to love yourself is a university that will never graduate. Only when you really love yourself can you love others. Beauty is a kind of cultivation. ?

? Successful career, comfortable family and comfortable study, why can't you take some time to take care of yourself? Take care of yourself and look more refined, decent and tasteful. It is your attitude and your responsibility to make yourself more beautiful, not because you are fat or thin, not because you are beautiful or ugly, and not because of any unnecessary excuses.

? Diana Vreeland said that even if you wear shoes or boots that don't show your toes, your toenails should be perfect. Because, if you know that your nails are carefully decorated, your walking style will be different. So, when you put on the right makeup, put on an elegant hairstyle and put on the right dress, guess what will happen? You will find that the whole world is lit up, and you will see that you will be filled with the joy of a whole city, full of joyful colors ... Yes, beautiful you will become fond of laughing, helping others, loving your family, loving the world and loving yourself more. Your life will be better.

Being neither beautiful nor alive is the ultimate pursuit of beauty and a positive and optimistic attitude. Beauty can make people more confident and exciting! Don't make excuses for your laziness, whether you are eighteen or eighty, you must be beautiful until you are old! Let beauty bring you a better life and live your unique beauty!

Finally, I attach Wang Guozhen's poem "Life is Always Beautiful", which is fresh, meaningful and intriguing:

There is not much distress.

It is that our minds are not open enough.

Not too little happiness.

But we don't know how to live.

Write a poem when you are sad.

Sing a song when you are happy?

No matter what falls from the sky

Life is always good.