If you could do it all over again, would you make the same choice?

Sometimes we often regret the choices we made when we were young. We felt that we were young and willful, did not know how to weigh the pros and cons, and had no long-term vision. For example, when a university chooses a major, a job chooses an industry, a marriage chooses a partner, decides which real estate to buy, and decides whether to have a second child, we often complain privately. If only we could do it at that time. So sometimes I often ask myself, if I were given another chance to choose, would I make the same choice? But you should know that there is no replay button in life, and you should be responsible for your own choice and your own path.

First, life is not like the original, only to move forward bravely. Life is a one-way street, and there is no turning back. In the past days, whether you think success or failure is your own experience. Life is nothing like the beginning, only the present and the future. Therefore, in order not to hesitate for the present in the future, you should make the present better and move forward bravely for a better future.

Second, some choices can be corrected. When hesitating, just calm down and think about what you care about most. It seems that some choices in life are not immutable. Just like choosing a major in a university, people who graduate from a major are not necessarily better than those who graduate from other industries. I recently read a cartoon drawn by a man named Kobayashi. He graduated from clinical medicine, but his interests are photography, cartoon painting and writing, and he has never studied painting systematically. He just draws some classic cartoons according to his own preferences, which makes many people like them. So if you really don't like your major, it's good to develop from your own interests.

Third, there is another situation, even if you are given a chance to choose again, you may agree and regret not making the current choice. People often have a mentality that what they can't get is the best, but they don't know how to cherish what they have now Maybe what you have now is what people envy, so it is also a success to cherish your current choices and turn what you have into an ideal state.

Do people often regret their choices?