The little guy Uncle Bangbang said, "I am great, I am a good man."

The guest in this issue of "Thank You for Coming" is a little person, a great uncle who specializes in helping people carry heavy objects on their shoulders in Chongqing.

In the show, Tu Lei once asked him, "The burden of life is so heavy. You have never complained to your wife, and you have endured and continued to deliver goods even when you were sick. Do you think you are great?"

He said, "Great."

Tu Lei asked him again, "Do you think you are a good man?"

He said, "Yes. . "

This self-proclaimed great man, Master Ran, really deserves the title of good man. He was revealed to have gone viral after a famous photographer took a photo of him and his son ten years ago.

After seeing this photo and listening to his live commentary, I was really moved by it. At that time, he was naked, holding a 200-pound cargo on his shoulder with one hand, and holding a 4-year-old baby with the other. My son is rushing to deliver goods to people.

For an ordinary person, it is difficult to carry something weighing 100 kilograms on the back, let alone 200 kilograms, but he regards this as a profitable career in order to survive. As of the moment of the show, Master Ran is still engaged in this industry. Even though he is fifty years old, in order for his wife and children to live a good life, he would rather carry the burden alone.

A good man interprets love and responsibility with actions

Having no academic qualifications and no network resources are the shortcomings of a man facing life. But life never gives anyone an excuse, let alone getting help or gifts from others just because you have no talents. You can only figure out how to solve all the problems in life on your own.

Master Ran is an optimistic and positive tough guy. During his spare time, he went to Chaotianmen in Chongqing to help others transport heavy goods and earn money to support his family.

In order to make more money, he went out to work early in the morning and came home late. I don’t even have time to chat with my children. He felt very guilty for not being able to grow up with his children and not being able to hold a parent-teacher meeting for them.

The son both understands and complains about his father. He knows that his father has a lumbar disc herniation due to long-term lifting of heavy objects. He is very distressed. He hopes that his father will pick less stuff and spend more time with him. . This is a very normal wish for my son.

There was once a cartoon on the Internet. A father said to his child, I want to move more bricks, but I don’t have the arms to hold you. If I want to hold you, I can’t move the bricks. The ideal is beautiful, but the reality is very skinny. A husband and father who works at the bottom to make money must make sacrifices.

Master Ran has no choice but to choose more goods and earn more money for his son to study hard and go to college in the future. He should not do the hard and tiring work like him. Not having time to spend with his family and children made him feel guilty.

In fact, Master Ran used his actions to express that his father's love is as strong as a mountain, but life is so demanding that this love cannot be turned into companionship, but can only be used as hope for his son to continue to bear the burden.

Only a responsible and responsible man would have no choice but to give up his family time with his wife and children to make money. What is rare is that both his wife and son can understand how difficult it is to tolerate him. , this is his greatest spiritual motivation.

Encouragement and understanding from family members make a good man

There are many couples who have good living conditions, but their family life is not happy. Some husbands are all-powerful in shopping malls, but at home with their wives, Getting along with the children is a mess. Looking at Master Ran's family, their living conditions are not good, but their life is full of happiness and hope.

Isn’t it said that poor and humble couples suffer from everything? Not necessarily, the key is how the family gets along. Master Ran often feels guilty about not having time to spend with his wife and children in the show, but his wife shows her consideration and love for her husband, and his son shows his love and concern for his father.

A man who works hard outside and gets the love and encouragement from his family will naturally work harder and bring greater security to the lives of his wife and children. This is the best way for him to repay his love to them. Best way. Money can buy many things, but it cannot buy true love or sincerity.

No matter you are at the top of the pyramid or at the bottom of the pyramid, you have many reasons to fight for life. A great man or a good man is not directly related to how much money he makes, but his heart is always Carrying a family is what motivates him to give everything he has.