Supermodel Ni Yalun calmly faced the great event of having a baby.

Supermodel hot mom Ni Yalun has been a stay-at-home mom for more than a year. She has been accompanying her daughter Yaner wholeheartedly. In the process of taking care of the children, she has also successfully got rid of the 20 kilograms of weight gained due to pregnancy and recovered her good figure before pregnancy. When talking about the education of her daughter, Ni Yalun strictly abides by her father's instructions: while singing the bad COP, she should also remember to give her children a step down. As for when to have another child? Ni Yalun advised stay-at-home mothers not to be "human" in a hurry. When you tamper with your eldest son and daughter, you must be calm and think carefully before making a decision.

On a sunny winter afternoon, Emma and 1 year-old 10-month-old daughter Yaner were photographed for the first time on the cover of Mommy Baby. Mother and daughter put on Burberry's seasonal parent-child clothes and looked happy. Although this is not the first time Emma and her daughter have taken photos in the shed, with more and more opinions from Yan Er, who is about to be two years old, can this shooting task be successfully completed? This is a test of Emma's daily parenting class.

It is not easy to raise a villain, so parents should set rules for their children.

As the saying goes, every inch a child sleeps will grow up one day. Many novice parents often feel at a loss when raising their children from one to two years old. Because children of this age are at the age of ignorance, "uncontrolled and full of personal opinions" is the most appropriate description of children's behavior and thoughts at this stage. Emma, who is both a supermodel and a stay-at-home mother, knows very well that it is not easy to raise a little person. She unreservedly shared her parenting experience with novice parents.

She said: "When children don't understand, their behavior is often testing their parents' bottom line. At this time, it is very important to set rules for children. Both she and her husband, Chiu chi-yi, attach great importance to the discipline of making rules. As long as they think it is inappropriate behavior, "from the beginning, parents will resolutely say no! 」

For example, she said that the little things in life, such as choosing shoes and clothes, were flatly rejected by her daughter when she first wanted to make her own decision. She believes that because children can't make correct judgments by themselves, it is not suitable for their daughters to make their own decisions. When their opinions or wishes are rejected by their parents, generally speaking, children of this age will cry loudly, even roll on the ground and cheat. Emma admits that Yan Er once had the behavior of "hump hammer" in public.

Let the children vent their emotions first, then make sense.

Emma said with a smile, "Yan Er, who loves coquetry, once we disobeyed, she cried on the floor of the supermarket. As a celebrity couple, how did they handle this embarrassing scene? Emma's answer is also quite surprising. She said, "Without saying anything, we picked her up and took her away. Because the floor is dirty in public, if it is at home, let her cry! We will not compromise because of this. 」

I believe Emma and her husband Chiu chi-yi are very concerned about the fact that the floor is dirty. Because in the process of shooting, as long as Yaner wants to run on the set with socks and no shoes, the couple will immediately ask Yaner to put on shoes before going on stage, so they can only sit in a chair without shoes. This rule is very persistent and absolutely uncompromising!

However, Emma said that as her daughter grew up, the couple began to try to reason with her daughter. She said: "We will make Yaner cry, and then communicate with her well, and then explain the reason when her mood calms down. Gradually, Yaner will understand the rules of her parents, and the frequency of crying will gradually decrease, and she will not achieve her goal by crying. Emma inadvertently revealed her confidence as a competent full-time mother in her speech.

Indeed, from the shooting scene, Yan Er's behavior can be said to be beyond the normal performance of children of the same age. She is highly cooperative and emotionally stable. When she hears her favorite music, she will dance to the rhythm. Her cheerful personality is very pleasing. Even if she was a little tired, she just nestled in her mother's arms and spoiled, which made the whole shooting process smooth.

In the process of raising children, parents should consider their children's feelings.

Many parenting experts advocate that both husband and wife should have the same parenting attitude. Emma said that she and her husband, Chiu chi-yi, have the same idea about raising their daughters, and they will adopt a calm and rigorous attitude. On the contrary, grandpa, who loves his granddaughter, can't stand the attitude of the couple, reminding Emma to take care of the children's feelings in the process of parenting. Emma also found that when both parents play the bad COP, stubborn children will be more "rebellious", and the result will be a parent-child war, which will not only fail to effectively raise children, but also hurt the intimate feelings between parents and children. But if one parent plays the bad COP and the other plays the bad COP, the result will be very different.

She said: "At first, when my husband and I were fooling around in Yan Er, we both turned into bad faces. But my father reminded me to give my child a step down, so we also made adjustments. When one of them plays the bad face, the other will show pity for the child and then reason with the child. 」

So, who usually plays the bad COP at home? Emma, who has a hot personality, revealed that in fact, neither husband nor wife is necessarily the one who plays the bad face. She said: "In some families, mom or dad always plays the bad COP, but this is not the case in our family. Because if dad plays the bad COP, over time, children will feel awe of dad! 」

Strictly control the daughter's diet and nutrition

Besides parenting, Emma is most worried about the nutrition of her daughter's diet. She also blew herself up and argued with her in-laws about the candy given to Yaner by her elders. She believes that eating candy is not good for such a young child, and adults don't have to rush to give them these unhealthy foods. To this end, she worked hard to communicate and coordinate with her elders and strictly controlled Yan's daily diet.

She recalled that it was a hot summer, and Yaner had just turned six months old and began to contact non-staple food. Emma, who is not good at cooking, has no confidence in cooking for herself. She was afraid that she didn't handle the ingredients properly and that her daughter would get sick after eating them, so she simply chose baby porridge with good reputation as Yaner's non-staple food. Because the baby porridge is a soup base boiled with chicken essence, no artificial additives are added in the process, and the nutrition is rich and balanced, which is very good for Yaner's stomach. Yaner has been eating intermittently for more than a year. As she grows older, she also begins to eat Chinese baby porridge.

In addition to the regular diet, all kinds of snacks, fast food, chocolate, candy and so on. Emma will naturally be blacklisted. Even if she takes Yaner out to have dinner with friends, Emma strictly selects parent-child restaurants with good reputation and strictly controls Yaner's diet and nutrition. After the shooting that day, the stylist praised Yaner's performance and wanted to give Yaner chocolate as a reward, but Emma immediately refused. It can be seen that Emma takes care of all kinds of small details in her daughter's life, and sticks to principles, which makes me sincerely admire: Emma is really a demanding mother.

Wait patiently for your daughter to quit diapers naturally.

When a child reaches one year old, many novice parents will face the same problem, that is, toilet training. This summer, Yan Er just turned 18 months, and Emma also started a toilet training program. "We let Yan Er practice sitting in the children's toilet, but Yan Er used the toilet as a toy storage box and put the toys in the toilet to play. Emma, who is in distress situation, is only going to call Ka for the time being!

For the traditional toilet training method, Emma doesn't think it is a good method worthy of praise. She said: "When children pee on the floor, they are often punished by adults, but if children are not ready, forcing them to quit diapers will hurt their fragile hearts." She strongly disapproves of this practice, and some parents will ask their children to pee in the toilet at home. When going out, because it is inconvenient to find the toilet, I agree that the child will pee on the diaper. She believes that doing so will also cause confusion for children. The compromise is to wait patiently for the child to quit diapers.

There is no need to have a baby in a hurry.

Because Emma has her own ideas about child-rearing, during the whole process of accompanying her daughter, she also easily lost the 20 kilograms of weight gained due to pregnancy and recovered her good figure before pregnancy. However, my daughter is almost two years old, but there has been no news in her stomach. When will she cause trouble to her husband's family? Emma explained that she did not reject having another child, but there was no need to have a baby in a hurry.

"For a stay-at-home mother, the boss is still young, and it is really painful to hold the boss with a big belly! She advised stay-at-home mothers that the timing of giving birth must be calm and clear. As for parenting experts, most suggest that the age gap between brothers and sisters should not be too big, and they can play together. However, in Emma's view, age is not distance, because she is four or five years older than her brother, and she doesn't think it's bad. Therefore, at this stage, she puts the plan of "being a man" with her husband in the second place, and only wants to be a good mother to her daughter Yaner.

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