Everything about Aquarius

In fact, it is not so much a rational score as a perceptual feeling. The feeling is getting closer, it may be getting closer, and it may be getting farther and farther. But the premise must be that this person's words and deeds are consistent and natural.

If someone thinks that Aquarius will rate friends, but it is unnatural, or deliberately expresses his deep thoughts, Aquarius will feel strange talking to you and stay away from you.

Aquarius has many kinds of friends. Some people can gossip, talk about the world outlook and outlook on life, play ball together, or just feel comfortable.

As long as you are honest enough with the bottle, the bottle may regard you as a friend. Bottles can appreciate everyone's uniqueness, but they also contain some small weaknesses of human nature that you have.

As for your bright spots and original opinions, wait until you are familiar with the bottle and need to publish it. The bottle will not think you are shallow because you didn't say these things, nor will it think you are profound because you said these things.

The bottle doesn't actually judge you rationally. It's just that when you just agree with one thing, it will make the bottle feel very kind and identify with it. You can slowly close the psychological distance, or even if it is not so close now, at least in the heart of the bottle, you think you can slowly close it.

If you have a different opinion from the bottle, it doesn't matter. You can openly discuss the differences between you and the bottle. Even if there are differences in the end, the bottle will seek common ground while reserving differences, and will not require you to agree on your views.

The bottle itself will not judge its friends, it will disagree with others' evaluation of its friends. For example:

Others think that you speak without thinking, and the bottle may like your frankness and cuteness.

Others think you are not smooth enough, and the bottle may like your simplicity.

Others think you are not lively enough, and the bottle may like the sense of peace you bring.

What others think of you, the bottle may like the lively atmosphere you bring.

Others think that you are not motivated enough, and the bottle may like your relaxation.

Others think you are too serious, and Aquarius may like your stability. . .

After all, all the rules and regulations required by others are meaningless here in the bottle. Aquarius likes you for who you are.

2 Aquarius's stubbornness, way of thinking, hot and cold.

[Aquarius's stubbornness]

Basically, every water bottle will have its own unique set of world outlook, outlook on life, values, and so on. If the water bottle is like a computer, then these self-contained views of the water bottle are similar to the operating system of the computer. The growth process of the water bottle is actually the process of self-improvement of the operating system of this computer.

When the water bottle is different from others, different ways of thinking, different values, different cultures, different histories, and so on are basically acceptable. Just like a computer with an open operating system, it can run all kinds of other software. These softwares can be run, but you are not allowed to modify the operating system-unless some of them are reserved for you to modify.

This operating system, as long as you don't try to modify its system files, will be happy to provide a very friendly platform to accept different views. It is very compatible and rarely makes an either-or choice. What it hopes is to seek common ground while reserving differences. Everything in the world is different and can live in harmony.

However, when someone tries to modify Aquarius's own set of opinions, Aquarius, who has always been enthusiastic, may suddenly express his views and positions in a rage, or of course ignore them. However, in any case, the bottle's point of view will not change. Because at this time, for the bottle, the other party has to change not only one point of view, but his whole system supported by these points of view.

Many people think it is impossible to know what the operating system of the bottle looks like. In fact, the bottle may have said it long ago. However, in the eyes of most people, what the bottle says is only some truth or idealism. Few people can think that, in fact, these idealistic and unrealistic ideas may be the most persistent things in the bottle.

"Aquarius way of thinking"

To say that a bottle is like a computer is not only that it has the same unchangeable stubbornness as a system file, but also that its way of thinking and method of dealing with problems are a bit like a computer.

Bottles are best at dealing with logical reasoning problems. Anything logical, the bottle will be easier to understand and accept. And illogical, the bottle will think again and again, and may even bypass an infinite loop.

On the one hand, Aquarius is used to making all kinds of analysis from all aspects, and taking corresponding treatment or attitude to each analysis result. In the eyes of others, the same phenomenon, the way or attitude of the bottle is quite different. Therefore, some people will use their own understanding to find the difference in each situation, and then explain the difference in bottle handling. The difference in the eyes of others may not be the difference at all for the bottle; The difference analyzed by the bottle is unknown to others.

And the most troublesome thing is that the water bottle will basically not give any explanation for its own practice. In fact, if you are willing to explain, people will understand more and have less misunderstanding about water bottles. But one of Aquarius's natures is that they don't like to explain. Really explained, many feelings are wrong. In particular, I can't say how good I am to others. I prefer to express it with actions.

The reason may be that the bottle instinctively thinks that words are the most unreliable thing. Just say a word, and different people will have different understandings. Even if people use the same language, it is difficult to fully explain what the speaker wants to express through language, and it is also difficult to fully feel the feelings of the speaker. So sometimes words are excluded, and actions and feelings are more important.

Because of this, Aquarius feels particularly cordial and grateful to those who are similar to their own way of thinking and can understand themselves without explanation, and has a feeling of finding the same kind. Will cherish it very much. People with too different ways of thinking will find it difficult to understand even if they explain, and may even feel that they are picky, so Aquarius sometimes prefers not to explain.

"The water bottle is hot and cold"

In fact, feelings are also like programs running on the operating system. When a bottle is in love, it may ignore the operating system for a while, just like you can't see the desktop of the operating system when you run a full-screen program. If there is no internal conflict, the program will continue to run like this. However, if there is an internal conflict, the operating system will suddenly jump out of the warning. At this time, the bottle will suddenly become rational in sensibility.

Sometimes it's not the inner conflict that makes the bottle suddenly rational. That is, if the bottle is deeply involved in a relationship, it may become very clingy and dependent on each other's feelings. Once this trend reaches a certain level, when the bottle begins to be afraid of losing it, the rational thinking of the bottle begins to run. At this time, the bottle is likely to suddenly cool down.

If the other half of the bottle looks at the bottle firmly and warmly as always, and the bottle feels that there is no threat of loss, its rationality will gradually be melted by sensibility and continue to be intoxicated.

However, if the other half of the bottle sees that the bottle is cooling down and getting cold, then maybe the bottle will feel that the threat of loss really exists, and the reasons may be restored more. When the bottle is psychologically less afraid of losing each other (this degree may only be that the bottle thinks it can do it, but it is not necessarily), the bottle is willing to indulge the operation of emotional thinking again.

If the other half of the bottle itself is hot and cold, it may be that the bottle will not be hot and cold again. Because the other person is cold, the rationality of the bottle comes out, so I won't be too addicted to my own sensibility, so I won't be so dependent on the other person, so I won't be so afraid of losing. However, in this case, the input of the bottle is affected by the other side's heat and cold, which may lead to the bottle not being completely input.

Therefore, a bottle that looks stable on the surface may not be stable, but it depends on whether the other half gives him enough security. A bottle that seems to be hot and cold may tend to be stable.

Aquarius friendship, love and ambiguity

"Aquarius friendship, love"

Different from the bottle's calm and rational thinking, when communicating with people, the bottle's impression of each other is initially based on sensibility.

The bottle's affection for people is often due to some details: your words just say what he didn't say in his heart, which may make him feel good about you; A silly smile may make him feel very kind; What you blurt out may make him think you are frank. . . With this basic feeling, the outermost heart of the bottle begins to open to you. In other words, you may become a friend of the bottle and walk into the heart of the bottle.

However, in the heart of the bottle, it is a long road with countless hearts. If you really want to walk into the heart of the bottle, you need to go through door after door. On this long road, different people stopped at different doors. However, these people may also be important friends of Aquarius. The bottle accepts all kinds of ideas, and can also accept all kinds of friends and appreciate everyone's differences.

Whether you can reach the heart of the bottle affects not the friendship of the bottle to you, nor your importance in the heart of the bottle, but only the singing feeling of the bottle. The person who can walk into the heart of the bottle most must be the person who has the most * * * sound with the bottle ideologically. And such a person must be someone who can really understand the bottle deeply, not someone who charges exorbitant prices just through a few words of the bottle.

Therefore, Aquarius's best friend may be a person with profound thoughts and sharp words, or a simple and kind person who is not good at words.

As long as a friend gains enough trust from the bottle, the bottle makes no difference to him, thinking about what the other person thinks and feeling the other person's feelings. The bottle only believes in the other person in its own eyes, and will never believe others' guesses about it.

It is precisely because the bottle can have such deep feelings for friends that it always takes a long time for the bottle to devote itself to such feelings. Because the bottle understands a truth very well, the power of the horse is known far away, and people will watch it for a long time. Therefore, before the bottle is really put into use, people often see erratic and elusive shadows, which come and go freely.

As for the love of the bottle, I am afraid that the person who can let the bottle sink into it is the one who deserves the trust of the bottle and can make the bottle feel deeply at the same time. If the bottle is lucky enough to find such a partner, the stable and stubborn characteristics of the bottle can be brought into play most effectively. Because of trust, the bottle can be fully invested; Because of the noise, the bottle can be completely stable. Two people together, sitting and watching Yun Qi, laughing and talking about flowers blooming and falling, no one deliberately explained their mentality and thoughts. One look can deeply enter each other's thoughts. Flowers don't twist, smile on your lips.

But such feelings are hard to find in the world. A bosom friend is hard to find, let alone a lover like a bosom friend. So the other half of the bottle may only meet the basic conditions of bottle trust, and some don't even have to meet this condition. When the bottle knows that it is hopeless to find a bosom friend, it is also acceptable to accept someone and live a good life. Just in the eyes of the bottle, you will find a lot of light missing.

[Water bottle ambiguous]

Aquarius will enjoy chatting with friends who can chat and rely on this feeling. Generally, such friends are people who can accept and understand the bottle's own unique ideas and naturally face the bottle sincerely.

Aquarius will cherish such friends. And hope that friendship can really last. Therefore, when Aquarius's friend slowly wants to become a boyfriend and girlfriend, and Aquarius doesn't have this idea, then Aquarius's first reaction may be: Oh, I'm going to lose this friend. At this time, it is difficult for bottles to ignore each other because they don't want to be each other's boyfriend and girlfriend.

Because Aquarius's own love is often upgraded by friendship, Aquarius will think that the other party may be caused by the warming of friendship, so it is natural to cool down, hoping that when the other party is not so enthusiastic, the two can return to the state of being friends. In fact, many people's feelings are not slowly warming up like bottles, so in the eyes of others, the bottles are not crisp enough to deal with emotional problems and are playing ambiguous.

Bottles usually don't care what others think, because they know it. However, if the other person thinks the same thing about the bottle, then the bottle can quickly restore its dependence on the other person. What the bottle needs is each other's friendship. If the other party refuses to give it, then the bottle would rather have nothing. This is the so-called bottle rejection.

People often say that the more complicated people are, the more they will attract water bottles. In this case, it is possible for the other party to attract the bottle. However, for the bottle, the other person is not so much a charming opposite sex as an intellectual game that can challenge the bottle's intelligence. Whether the bottle is interested in solving this game depends on the mood.

What really attracts Aquarius is actually the kind of person who can clearly understand their thinking logic and way of thinking, and only two people have a * * * voice. If the water bottle can't understand the other person's thoughts at all, then the more complicated the other person is, the faster the water bottle will escape.

The cleverness of Aquarius

As for cleverness, I remember reading a classic story about a thief and a treasure.

The general plot is that a thief and a monk made a bet to steal a string of beads from the monk. The thief sneaked into the monk's residence and finally stole the rosary. The monk wanted to get the rosary back, and the two sides had a fierce fight. In the process of fighting, the monk inadvertently noticed the beams. The thief knew that the real rosary should be on the beam, so he turned to look for it on the beam. The monk was anxious and tried his best to stop it. Finally, the thief finally jumped on the beam and got the rosary.

At this point, the gambling between the two has been divided. The monk should have lost it, but the monk was very proud, claiming that it was a little secret, but it was actually false. The real rosary is actually the string that the thief stole earlier. The rosary on the beam was deliberately used to confuse the thief.

The thief gave the stolen rosary to the monk, who found it was a real rosary. It turned out that the thief had realized that the rosary on the beam was fake, so he changed it back when he crossed the beam.

This is an interesting story. In this story, it is assumed that stealing rosary is a test, and only two kinds of people can really pass the test: one is very simple-minded and thinks that stealing rosary is true, and there is no doubt about it, let alone observing the monk's expression. Of course, it won't be misled, so it's so confusing to get the real rosary.

The other kind of people are smart enough to notice the monk's expression, but they can also realize that the monk has set a trap here. Most people may be confused. Because their minds are not so simple, they will be suspicious, but they are not so complicated, so they will be confused by traps.

Many times, in fact, what Aquarius does is very simple, so simple that he doesn't have any thoughts. Many things are spontaneous, without any purpose or logic.

The mind of the water bottle, like the real rosary, is there and easy to get. People understand the water bottle directly without turning a corner, which is easy to understand. After turning a corner, you can turn again or turn back, return to the original state, and achieve understanding. What I am most afraid of is that those who turn one corner but won't turn another will stay away from each other.

Simple-minded people, without thinking too much, will find this rosary easy to get. As long as they take it away, as long as they get it, they don't doubt it and don't change it, then they really get it.

A very clever person may think this rosary is easy to hold, but something seems to be wrong later. After all, Aquarius looks smart when doing logical reasoning. Are the things they do in their daily lives really that simple? So they began to doubt and verify. But in the end, you can find that the water bottle is really simple. The rosary I got at first was real. This can also understand the mind of the water bottle.

The rest of the people will find this rosary easy to take at first, then they will feel that something is wrong, and they can also go to the stage of doubt and verification, but often at this stage, they will not be able to get out. So I have been holding a string of fake rosaries for identification and analysis. The final result of the analysis can be imagined. The saddest thing is that these people may never get the real rosary, and they will always hold the fake rosary and think it is true. You always complain, why is this rosary so bad? So strange? So hard to understand?

Therefore, Aquarius's true confidant is generally two kinds of people: one is simple-minded and will not doubt Aquarius's motives and behaviors; The other is very wise, seeing the cleverness of Aquarius, but knowing that Aquarius can't think. The rest of the people, no matter how skeptical they are about Aquarius' mind, Aquarius will not care too much. As a result, it also bears a cold name.

So, why doesn't Aquarius, who is very good at logical reasoning and can think carefully, like to use calculation? The reason is simple: because the water bottle is lazy. At this point, we can see the kindness and humor of God when he created mankind. God endowed Aquarius with such a mind, and also endowed Aquarius with the nature of loving freedom, which made Aquarius disdain to sacrifice his freedom for any so-called reputation and power.

In Aquarius's view, it is worthwhile to play with the mind and mind, such as playing intellectual games. Asking a water bottle to be careful with people is like tying a water bottle with a rope. The water bottle instinctively wants to escape. Therefore, when Aquarius is in contact with people, it is often nothing. For the water bottle, the best state is nothing to think about, everyone is happy and peaceful, and everything exists.

A pure childlike innocence is what Aquarius wants to keep most in this life.

Aquarius is gregarious and withdrawn.

When people deal with bottles, they often feel that they get along well when they are together. Bottles are optimistic, active in thinking, tolerant of people and things, and show great friendliness to you. You think this is a friend you can make.

But after you separated, the bottle seemed to disappear, and you asked questions from time to time and kept in touch with your feelings from time to time. You contact him/her, he/she is still so affectionate and friendly, but you can't wait for him/her to take the initiative to contact.

So you start to wonder: Does this bottle have a bad impression on me? What did I say and do to annoy the bottle? What offended the bottle without knowing it? Then I began to speculate that since the bottle didn't like me, the smile at that time must be fake. A friendly expression must be a mask.

At last I began to get angry: the bottle is so hypocritical!

If you look at the bottle carefully, you will find that in the crowd, the bottle is more gregarious, easy to hide in the crowd, and will not pop up suddenly; But in daily life, bottles are often immersed in their own world, and their ideas are different from many people's and they don't care. This difference probably comes from the bottle's preference for diversity of things, and it doesn't like monotonous, repetitive and boring things.

So when we are together, the bottle will enjoy the excitement of many people, different ideas, different personalities and diversity of people. After returning home, non-single bottle will enjoy their own two-person world, and single bottle will enjoy the tranquility of being alone.

The friendship of friends, for the bottle, is more of a psychological identity. With this understanding, friendship is deeply shaped and will not change with time. This kind of psychological identity often comes from a person's sincerity and kindness. This quality will make Aquarius feel that you are a trustworthy person and can be a friend.

The performance of Aquarius friendship will only be reflected when you need it, not confirmed or deepened through small gatherings every once in a while. So, don't worry about how long the bottle hasn't contacted you. A friend recognized by a bottle is often a lifelong friend and will never change with time.

Aquarius is the most easily misunderstood.

Everything has advantages and disadvantages.

As a bottle, maybe it will be misunderstood more or less in this life sooner or later-that is, there are always some people who regard themselves as a very calculating person at some point. Of course, in the end, those people will always realize their mistakes-although these people may not really understand water bottles all their lives.

Why are water bottles so easily misunderstood? The reasons can be roughly summarized as follows:

Reason one: Aquarius has a strong logical thinking, which often gives people the feeling of being smart. In other words, in the face of some problems, water bottles can often think of some methods that others can't think of. In this way, people who are in a certain interest relationship with Aquarius often worry that Aquarius will use this cleverness to deal with themselves.

As for the cleverness of water bottles, I have already said it before (please refer to the cleverness of four water bottles), so I won't go into details here. With the laziness of Aquarius, if it weren't for trying to do things well, I wouldn't think much. Even if you want to do things well, pacifist water bottles often pursue a win-win situation, starting with scientific methods such as improving efficiency, rather than taking pleasure in fighting with others.

Reason 2: Aquarius's way of dealing with people is generally low-key and unobtrusive. This way of life may be rooted in Aquarius's love for the freedom to feel from the heart. For those who more or less like to be noticed and like to be the focus of attention, such a move will be difficult to understand. Therefore, naturally, I feel that every move of the water bottle is suspicious, and I feel that the water bottle is very calculating and wily.

Reason three: the sensitivity of water bottles-water bottles are often more sensitive and will care about other people's feelings. So when I get along with people, I tend to make them feel comfortable and friendly. This can easily be regarded as ulterior motives by those who have no interests or connections, or those who are used to seeing other people's interests and connections.

Reason 4: Aquarius doesn't like to express his thoughts-this should be said to be a common problem of bottles. He is used to being a fool and realizing his ideas with actions instead of expressing his determination and attitude. Therefore, nature can easily become the primary suspect of suspicious people.

To sum up so much, in fact, people who misunderstand the water bottle are nothing more than different ways of thinking and treating people, so they often judge the bottle with their own ideas or ordinary people's ideas, and the more they look at it, the more they feel scared.

7 sense of distance of water bottle

Every bottle seems to keep a certain distance from others more or less.

This innate sense of distance makes the bottle keep its own world psychologically and ideologically. Just like a small piece of self-cultivated land, bottles and jars of carefully selected flowers and plants. No matter how wonderful the outside world is, the bottle always needs to stay in the field at some time, watching the seeds grow and sprout, and thinking about the essence and meaning of life.

It is this field of self-cultivation that makes the bottle pursue freedom, equality and fraternity, and will not become narrow because of too close relationship.

Just like a person facing a forest, he can study the species, age and habits of a tree, as well as the area of the whole forest, the water content of the air in the forest, the nature of the soil and so on, as well as the situation of the whole forest. The bottle is very clear. If you want to study the whole forest, you must stay away from a specific tree first. I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain, but I was born in this mountain. Sometimes with distance, you can see clearly.

Because of this, for people who are far away from the bottle, they will only feel that the bottle is a gentle and rational person with no ups and downs. People close to the bottle can easily feel the cold and hot of the bottle. Cold bottle, if there is nothing to make it angry, is actually hiding in his own farm to see flowers and plants.

It may be because of this sense of distance from others that Aquarius is not used to being away from the other half (ideologically, emotionally and psychologically) when he has his own other half. For Aquarius, choosing the other half is equivalent to choosing a tree. He would rather turn into a vine from now on, intertwined with this tree and accompany each other, ignoring the forest behind the tree.

The distance between two people will make Aquarius feel that the other half is far away from him, far enough to hide in the forest and not feel each other. And my own vines are no longer meaningful.

8 the trust of water bottle

People who deal with water bottles may always have a feeling that no matter how much they pay, how to treat the bottle with heart and lung, the bottle always seems to treat itself unhurriedly and lukewarm. It is neither what kind of enthusiasm nor what kind of indifference.

Of course, at the beginning of the bottle's birth, it is easy for people to feel the enthusiasm and friendliness of the bottle, but if you think that the bottle has a passionate personality, sooner or later you will find that this is only a superficial phenomenon. In the heart of the bottle, it seems to be a mass of warm water forever, which will neither boil nor cool.

You seem to be only one step away from the bottle, and your eyebrows and hair are clearly distinguishable. So, you enthusiastically took a big step towards the bottle, thinking that there was no distance from now on, only to find that the bottle did not move, and there was still a distance between you. So you took another step, but the distance still exists. You walk step by step to the bottle, only to find that you are always separated by that step, but you can't see it, but you can't cross it.

So, you start to think, how can you stay away from the bottle? Bottle What does it take to trust a person? What makes you pay and get nothing in return?

In order to illustrate these problems, a metaphor is used to compare the image, that is, a bottle's trust in a person is like a deposit method in a bank: lump sum deposit and withdrawal.

Aquarius It takes time to trust a person. Others' kindness to the bottle, trust in the bottle, the bottle will be in my heart, very grateful. The bottle that naturally agrees with the theory that "everything is constantly moving and changing" will feel that others' kindness to themselves is only temporary, uncertain and restricted by various restrictions.

Bottles have many principles and ideas of their own, and it is difficult for many people to understand bottles. Therefore, it is often difficult for the bottle to fully accept the goodwill of those who have not fully understood themselves, because if you know more about yourself, you may find that you are not what you think. Then the person you like may not really be yourself, but an image in the other person's heart. Accepting others' kindness by yourself is like stealing that image.

Only after the baptism of time, the bottle will be accepted by those girlfriends with confidence, because they like the most authentic bottle, eccentric, lazy, curious, not the bottle in others' eyes, smart, calm and rational.

Only at this time can the trust and friendship accumulated between friends for such a long time make a leap from quantity to quality. Aquarius can completely trust a person and treat the other person as a true friend.

As for how long it will take to get it from scratch, it depends on chance.