If you don't get married and have children, and you are still single at the age of 42, where does Qin Lan come from?

1One day in July, 999, Qin Lan insisted on going to Beijing to take part in the competition. Dad pointed out the window and said, if you can win the prize, I'll jump from here!

Qin Lan went anyway. After the competition, she won the gold medal in the advertising model group, signed a contract with Hunan Satellite TV and entered the entertainment circle.

Since the beginning of his career, the film and television dramas starring Qin Lan have enjoyed a very good reputation, such as Princess Zhu Huan Part III, Heaven and Earth, See the Dream Curtain Again, The Story of Yan Xi Palace and so on.

Qin Lan, now 42 years old, is still single and unmarried. She said, "What does it matter if my uterus is used?"

Qin Lan said that getting married is a very cautious thing. Once you choose it, it will accompany you all your life. If you are not prepared for this, don't choose easily.

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Qin Lan is from the northeast. She was born in Shenyang, Liaoning Province on 1979. Her parents named her "Lan", which means fog in the mountains.

Mother hopes that when her daughter grows up, her temperament will be as fresh as this name.

Qin Lan was cute since childhood, with big eyes and long eyelashes. The neighbors want to tease her.

Like most other families, Qin Lan's parents sent her to learn piano and dance before she went to primary school.

But Qin Lan gave up these two interest classes in less than half a year, because she was a little shy and didn't want to show herself in front of others.

Especially when learning dance, every time my mother sent Qin Lan to the dance class, she watched Qin Lan standing at the back of the team. My mother always reminds her to stand forward and stand in the middle, with a smile on her face and a natural smile.

The more my mother said, the worse Qin Lan felt. She stood stiffly, not knowing how to use her hands and feet.

Mom saw that Qin Lan was really not interested in these things, so she was no longer reluctant.

Qin Lan was able to study with peace of mind. When she was at school, she got good grades and looked outstanding. Many male students secretly promised her heart and often received small gifts and notes from male students.

But Qin Lan was unmoved and devoted himself to his studies. In the year of college entrance examination, Qin Lan was admitted to the accounting department of Shenyang University of Technology.

In the eyes of parents, it is the safest way for girls to have a stable job when they go to college and get married and have children later.

Without that competition, Qin Lan might have taken the road planned by her parents and become a white-collar worker in the workplace.

Although all her neighbors and classmates praised Qin Lan for her beauty, she was always shy and didn't feel any different from others.

Until 19 years old, Qin Lan was accidentally spotted by the local wedding photography shop and took several groups of wedding photos. Reward 1500 yuan.

This is the first time that Qin Lan realized that he really looks passable, but that's all. She didn't want to go in this direction.

1In July, 1999, the Shenyang Division of the National Promotion Newcomer Competition started, and Qin Lan signed up with his classmates.

Qin Lan thought that she had no other talent but experience as a wedding model, so she decided to enter the competition as a model. I spent 25 yuan and bought a pair of simple high heels. Qin Lan practices walking at home every day.

This is the first time that Qin Lan has found his interest. She is very enthusiastic. She closes the door after school every day and practices alone in the house.

The game started, Qin Lan advanced to the final and decided to go to Beijing. At this moment, Qin Lan was confused. She knew that her parents would definitely not agree, and she was afraid to mention it to her parents.

With the approaching of the final date, Qin Lan still crustily skin of head told his parents about going to Beijing to participate in the competition.

Mom thought it was incredible. No one in the family has ever been in this business. A girl went to a place far away from Beijing, a stranger. What if she is cheated?

My father is not as gentle as my mother. In his view, this is simply an illusory thing. He excitedly went to the window, pointed out the window and said, if you take part in this competition and get a prize, I will jump from here!

Qin Lan, who has always been obedient, didn't listen to his parents' arrangement this time. This is her only interest at present, and she doesn't want to give up.

She came to Beijing alone in spite of her parents' opposition.

After the competition, Qin Lan won the gold medal in the advertising model group. When she got home, she naturally dared not talk to her father about jumping out of the window again.

However, parents still have reservations about their daughters entering the entertainment circle.

It was not until Qin Lan met the man who changed her fate that her parents changed their attitude.

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After the competition, Qin Lan, together with other winners, signed a contract with Hunan Satellite TV. At that time, the TV station gave her two choices and asked her if she wanted to host the program or be an actress.

Qin Lan felt that she was more interested in filming, so on 200 1, Hunan Satellite TV arranged for her to participate in the costume TV series "Love in Datang", and Qin Lan played the young Wu Meiniang.

As a newcomer, Qin Lan is busy adapting to the life of this kind of actress, and she does whatever is arranged above.

Soon, Qiong Yao visited the TV station, and the leader arranged in advance for Qin Lan to take a group of photos in a strange way.

Qiong Yao likes this set of photos of Qin Lan very much and decides to meet the little girl.

Qin Lan, who was informed by the leader, came to Qiong Yao with two pigtails and a backpack, and did not even wear makeup. Qiong precious jade saw, Qin Lan's big eyes, youth and vitality, very satisfied.

This time, Qiong Yao chose an actor for the third part of Princess Pearl. After meeting Qin Lan, Qiong Yao was very impressed. She originally wanted to arrange Qin Lan to play a more important role, but considering that she has little performance experience, she decided to play a role that understands painting.

At school, "Princess Zhu Huan" swept the country. Like other friends, Qin Lan can't wait to turn on the TV after school every day.

At that time, Qin Lan, who was fascinated by Swallow and Wei Zi, never thought that one day he would play one of the roles.

For a newcomer like her, receiving such a role is simply a drop in the bucket. At the same time, Qin Lan knew in his heart that the real challenge had just begun.

During the filming, Qin Lan took the bus every day, commuting between the crew and the rental house. In the morning, she got up early and put on makeup. After filming all day, she returned to the rental house and began to recite her lines again.

Because the shooting was broadcast live on the radio, Qin Lan was afraid of delaying the shooting because of himself. She often recites her lines until two or three o'clock.

Every day, Qin Lan is too tired to show himself. It was not until that day that she felt a sense of accomplishment for the first time.

On the same day, Qin Lan memorized three pages of lines in advance for the scene of knowing the painting and questioning May angrily. The shooting went very smoothly and passed. The director and other staff applauded her, and Qin Lan regained a little confidence.

After the broadcast of Princess Zhu Huan Part III, Qiong Yao commented that she was "a tear in Qin Lan, a star in the sky".

The role of knowing painting has been loved by countless audiences, and the name Qin Lan was first known. At this time, the parents' attitude improved and finally admitted that their daughter's choice was correct.

Career on track, Qin Lan ushered in the first love.

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In 2003, Qin Lan took on the costume drama "Dragon Poke", playing Runyu, the daughter of a high official, who fell into the dust due to the decline of her family. Runyu has a variety of customs, and he is proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting.

Huang Xiaoming and Runyu, the first heroes, played the most opposite roles, and they had many emotional scenes in the play.

Qin Lan and Huang Xiaoming knew each other as early as Princess Zhu Huan Part III, but there was no spark between them at that time.

This time, Qin Lan and Huang Xiaoming, after several months of shooting, gradually found that the other is their ideal other half.

But they only secretly fall in love, because the contract between Qin Lan and the company clearly stipulates that they are not allowed to fall in love for several years, and if they violate it, they will have to pay huge liquidated damages.

Although they were photographed together many times, when asked about their relationship by reporters, Qin Lan kept his mouth shut and refused to acknowledge their relationship. Even the staff responded that Huang Xiaoming was really chasing Qin Lan, but Qin Lan just regarded each other as good friends.

Qin Lan's actions also aroused Huang Xiaoming's dissatisfaction, feeling that he had not been recognized by the other side.

Before long, Huang Xiaoming was injured in filming. As his girlfriend, Qin Lan went to the hospital for a week, but the crew repeatedly urged Qin Lan to go back to filming.

At that time, Qin Lan was filming Lan Xin, a large-scale female drama. Qin Lan plays a very important role, and her absence will affect the filming of the whole crew.

Huang Xiaoming was dissatisfied with Qin Lan's practice of "filming more than her boyfriend" and felt that she was not around when she needed her girlfriend most.

After Huang Xiaoming was injured, he filmed The Legend of the Condor Heroes. During the filming, Qin Lan went to visit the Huang Xiaoming crew. Not long after the visit, the two broke up.

The specific reasons for breaking up were not mentioned again, and the four-year relationship ended like this.

Later, Huang Xiaoming fell in love with Li Feier and Angelababy, and there was no intersection with Qin Lan.

And Qin Lan, also began a new love.

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In 2008, Qin Lan co-produced the film Nanjing with Gao Yuanyuan and Liu Ye! Nanjing! Director Lu Chuan.

This is an important work of Qin Lan's transition from TV series to movies, and she also cherishes this opportunity. But the film is being filmed, and the capital chain is broken, so she can't shoot any more.

It's a pity that a young director like Qin Lan can't produce such a good theme because of financial problems.

Without saying anything, she took out her savings to support the director. Qin Lan's battle righteousness also made Lu particularly moved. In constant contact, two people began to attract each other.

This time in love, Qin Lan didn't deny it like last time. Even in an interview, she praised Lu Chuan as a very talented person.

Nanjing! Nanjing! After the release, the reputation was quite good, and it won many awards such as Golden Shell in the world. Business is booming, and the relationship between Qin Lan and Lu Chuan is developing steadily.

The following year, Lu Chuan started his new play The King's Feast, and he cast Qin Lan as Lv Hou.

In Qin Lan's view, she doesn't want to confuse work with feelings. She doesn't want the outside world to say that she got the role because she is the director's girlfriend. If so, Qin Lan would rather refuse.

However, Lu Chuan repeatedly denied this statement. He thinks that Qin Lan's acting and image are the most suitable people for this role.

Lu's affirmation also gave Qin Lan confidence, and she took the role.

For Qin Lan and Lu Chuan, this is a very important play for the young couple. Even they have agreed that if the film can be a big hit and both of them can rise to a higher level in the industry, then they will get married at the end of the film.

If everything goes as they expected, perhaps their marriage will become a fixed husband and wife file for directors and actors such as Gu Changwei Jiang and Jia Zhaotao.

However, to the disappointment of the young couple, this work, which had high hopes for them, received a mediocre response, and their feelings gradually turned red.

Lu Chuan, 197 1 Born, 42 years old. He proposed to Qin Lan many times, hoping to get married and have children early, but Qin Lan refused Lu Chuan on the grounds that he was not ready.

In Qin Lan's view, getting married is a very prudent thing. Once you choose to get married, it is a lifetime thing.

Obviously, Qin Lan was not prepared. Especially at this time, her career is on the rise, and she doesn't want to give up, living a life of returning to her family and turning around her husband and children.

But Lu Chuan thinks it's only a matter of time before getting married and having children. Because he is not young, he can't afford it any more. Both of them have their own ideas and are unwilling to compromise.

On July 20 13, Qin Lan and Lu Chuan broke up peacefully.

Not long after, Lu Chuan married the host Hu Die, who was 12 years younger than him, and they soon had a son and a daughter.

After breaking up, Qin Lan once again ushered in the second spring of her career. She participated in the sensational drama The Story of Yan Xi Palace and played the role of "Bai Yueguang" Fuza in the hearts of countless people.

This role made Qin Lan popular again, and endorsements, reality shows and new scripts poured in.

Busy Qin Lan, no public love news.

But in an interview on 20 18, Qin Lan revealed that she had a boyfriend who proposed to her several times, but she was not ready, so she didn't agree.

Qin Lan, 42, is more charming and calm than when she was young. She is enjoying a single life and has expectations for love, but she is not forced.

She doesn't want to get married just to get married, but to have children.

She said: "I must respect my inner voice and not do anything that I regret."