How to treat a playboy man's wife?

There are no lecherous men in the world, even Confucius said: I have never seen lecherous virtue.

Because men's playboy instinct began with Pangu's creation of heaven and earth and God's creation of man. In order to ensure the reproduction of race and life, it is written into men's DNA.

But there is still a difference between being a playboy and a lecherous in consciousness and being unfaithful to love and chasing around. Men like to see beautiful women, but not everyone wants to be Edison Chen. Every man is lascivious, but it doesn't mean that every man will have a fixed girlfriend or get married and hunt all over the world.

A man is more like an animal than a woman, but he is not an animal after all. A normal man, in addition to using his own moral rules for self-discipline, has a loyal sense of mission and value to his family and lover.

In my opinion, men who can't control their lower body even after marriage, cheat everywhere, or change sexual partners frequently are strictly the counseling objects of serious psychological problems.

If you meet such a playboy, how should you treat him?

Some people say that for a playboy, you should look after his wallet. A man without money loses the economic basis for going out to spend money. Sign a prenuptial agreement. If he cheats, he will give her the house and car and leave home clean.

Some people say that for a playboy man, you should trust him, say "I know you are not that playboy" and never ask him where he is going. This is the power of awakening, hoping a man's conscience will find it.

Some people say that the most important thing for a man to avoid philandering is to improve the value of his partner, so that he will lose you and become a huge loss. If the cost of philandering increases, his behavior will converge.

Of course, some people fantasize that by giving men an injection or an operation, the male impulse will be reduced, thus curing the incurable disease of "playboy".

However, the above methods have never really succeeded. This playboy who lacks psychological adjustment mechanism, no matter whether you watch it or not, no matter which ice ice you are beautiful, no matter whether he has money or not, even he only has one testicle left, he will cheat whenever he has the chance.

So women feel desperate, so desperate that they can't wait to uproot men, so as to avoid endless future troubles.

However, changing such a playboy man is simply an eternal false proposition. Instead of going to heaven and earth to seek the magic formula of "subduing playboy", women should honestly ask themselves two questions:

First, of all the men in the world, why are you particularly interested in playboy men?

Second, why do you know that playboy men can't change, but they can't change?

Why are women so interested in playboy men? According to my observation, there are always some advantages that women can't give up. For example, rich, handsome, especially good in bed, especially talented. In a word, he can make women more satisfied, whether mentally, materially or physically.

Just like George Clooney, he is a famous romantic figure in Hollywood and an openly unmarried person. Over the years, he has changed countless female companions around him, but beautiful women are still flocking to him. Like Hermes handbags, it is a feminine product that women are eager to have. He satisfied all the vanity of women, famous brands, sports cars and celebrity parties, giving women an illusory dream: maybe he will change for me, and I will be his "last one".

Therefore, falling in love with a playboy is not terrible. A woman is not a fool, and she will not give herself pain for no reason. Just like the lady who sent me a private message, she said that her husband had money and could play, so women always jumped on him. So, in fact, what she can't accept most is that she is just one of those women who jumped on him, the luckiest one, but not necessarily the best.

So, you know what I mean?

Falling in love with a playboy is a woman's own choice. While coveting the unique advantages of playboy, you fantasize that you can become the terminator of playboy, and you magnify this pain tenfold.

There is an old saying called "thirsty for salted fish", which is true.

If you insist on choosing a playboy man, please don't complain, and don't ask me how to change him. Don't turn yourself into a dissatisfied housewife who is angry with everyone. You can swipe his credit card, mortgage his house, sell his Transformers suit, put on high-heeled shoes and tell him, "Shopping is a woman's nature."

Or you can take him to see a psychiatrist, hypnotize him or use a sand table to see what deep wounds he has inside, what desires he can't fill, and let him prove his existence by constantly chasing women? An example of this is the famous photographer Edison Chen, whose sexual addiction probably comes from unfathomable family trauma and tabloid rumors, and his father's sexual orientation has become a mystery.