Do some pregnant women like to "toss"? Is this good for your health?

I am a second-born mother. I think this kind of "tossing" during pregnancy is not at all a level, and it is not harmful to the body. Husband massage is normal.

It is easy to have backache during pregnancy. Massage and rubbing can relax your body. Moreover, for pregnant mothers and fetuses, this is a rare time for parent-child interaction. After 26 weeks of pregnancy, the baby can give prenatal education to the baby while massaging, and the fetus can hear it. During pregnancy, due to the rising level of progesterone, pregnant mothers' mood fluctuates greatly, and they often feel "complaining that no one hurts". At this time, the husband's timely comfort can also help pregnant mothers ease their emotions and contribute to the healthy development of the fetus.

However, we should also pay attention to the fact that we should try not to share the same room in the first and third trimesters, which is not conducive to the health of the fetus in the uterus.

Tossing her husband after pregnancy, as long as there is nothing wrong with her husband, she can only say that it is natural for one to be willing to fight another, so this matter is sometimes really salty and radish.

What outsiders see is tossing, and the couple may be willing to do it to enhance their feelings. After all, when a woman is pregnant, it is really hard. Do you believe you can walk with a ball for ten months? This kind of happiness and hard work of giving birth to a new life, as a husband, rubs his shoulders and pinches his feet, and enjoys it. Why not?

Don't talk about massage. I met a young couple. In the third trimester, when the stomach is big, the wife can't bend down to wash her feet, usually washing her feet and cutting her nails. Some husbands are inconvenient to see their wives, so they wash clothes and underwear for their wives. What happened? This is love! Ordinary people still can't enjoy this treatment!

Of course, during pregnancy, it may not be good if you often stimulate your nipples or rub your stomach. Excessive stimulation may also induce contractions, so pay attention to the parts when massaging.

As long as you are careful not to stimulate sensitive parts and over-stimulate, it is not tossing your husband. This is not a toss-up, comrades. This is also love. You're pregnant with your child. Are you messing with your dad?

Instead of torturing herself, your wife tortures others. She can only say that things may be too big. Hurry home and look in the mirror. Do you find an environmentally friendly grassland on her head?

Perhaps in the eyes of many people, it is a particularly melodramatic thing for pregnant women to let their husbands massage their stomachs. That's because many people don't understand the hardships of pregnant women. Anyone who lives with a 10 kg ball tied to his stomach for ten months will complain bitterly and collapse.

Pregnancy is a very difficult thing. In addition to coping with strong early pregnancy reaction, women also have a series of discomforts, such as pudendal pain, calf cramps, backache and edema, especially in the third trimester. A woman is like a heavy penguin, and she breathes even when she walks.

It is reasonable for pregnant women to let their husbands massage themselves, which is also a way to relieve physical pain and promote sleep, and should not be condemned. Pregnancy is a matter of two people. As a man, you should be caring and attentive to women.

If pregnant women want to "toss" during pregnancy and want to share the same room with their husbands, it is actually the normal physiological needs of pregnant women. Many people will think that for the safety of the fetus during pregnancy, never share the same room. In fact, the fetus is not so fragile, and it is still beneficial to share a room during pregnancy.

Pregnant women suffer from insomnia and bad temper because of physical fatigue and emotional tension, and they are also eager for the care of their husbands. Sharing a room can meet women's emotional needs, enhance the relationship between husband and wife, and make women feel happy physically and mentally after orgasm, making it easier for them to fall asleep.

However, it is only suitable for the second trimester, and it is easy to cause fetal abortion in the first and third trimesters, so it is not recommended to share the same room.

Don't deprive a woman of her sexual happiness, even if she is pregnant. However, when pregnant women share the same room, the man must use condoms to avoid getting pregnant again or infecting pregnant women with bacteria. Also, be careful not to act too violently for too long.

If "tossing" is just to let the husband massage and rub his stomach, this is not a problem, and it is also good for the body, so that pregnant women can relax and enhance the relationship between husband and wife.

Pay attention to Dr. Zou @ andrology, and privately believe in andrology consultation.

But if it is another kind of "tossing", such as sexual intercourse, this problem depends on the cycle of pregnant women, such as the first three months of pregnancy, because the fetus is still unstable, so it is strictly forbidden to do homework during sexual intercourse. You can have proper sex after 4 months, but you must pay attention to your posture, don't press your abdomen, and move gently, not too fiercely. Try to avoid sexual life in the third trimester and prohibit sexual intercourse after 36 weeks of pregnancy.

You have a better tossing posture. Welcome to leave a message for discussion.

Happy dad feels like the question says, massage his legs and feet and rub his stomach. This is not a coin toss. For my mother, it is hard enough to support her stomach during pregnancy. In the third trimester, edema of hands and feet, backache and pain of pubic separation are even worse. After a busy day, it is normal to finally come home and let my father massage! Even if mom doesn't say anything, dad will take the initiative to come and help with the massage!

In fact, for mothers, the body changes greatly after pregnancy, and most of them will become very uncomfortable.

In fact, from the beginning of pregnancy, mothers' bodies began to change greatly.

For example, morning sickness: after pregnancy, the hormones and hormone secretion in the mother's body have undergone great changes, among which the level of chorionic gonadotropin has increased significantly, and the corresponding other secretions in the stomach will decrease, resulting in nausea and retching. Many mothers have vomiting during pregnancy since about 5 weeks of pregnancy, which will be well relieved in the second trimester. However, there are also some mothers, and the phenomenon of morning sickness will continue until the baby is born.

For example, breast changes: after the mother is pregnant, with the increase of estrogen secretion, the breast will increase significantly. Of course, some mothers will be accompanied by pain and swelling, which is a normal phenomenon during pregnancy.

For example, constipation: Constipation is also due to the rapid change of hormone levels in pregnant mothers, which leads to slow intestinal peristalsis, which in turn affects normal defecation.

For example, sleepiness: with the change of hormone level in the body when the mother is pregnant, the metabolism will become very fast because of having an extra baby, and the corresponding energy in the body will be consumed quickly. When blood sugar is low, you will naturally feel sleepy.

By the second trimester, the mother's condition was relatively stable. They have adapted to the current physical conditions, such as morning sickness and breast changes, but there are also some new changes.

For example, there are stretch marks: as the baby grows up, mothers begin to show signs of pregnancy and the corresponding abdomen begins to grow up. At this time, the abdominal skin will be slowly opened and enlarged until it is broken. When the skin fibers and connective tissue in the abdomen rupture, it will leave traces on the abdomen, which is the stretch marks.

As far as the current medical level is concerned, once the stretch marks are formed, they cannot be eliminated, and they can only fade or turn white gradually with the passage of time.

For example, low back pain: as the mother's stomach gets bigger and bigger, the body's center of gravity gradually shifts to the front. In order to keep the balance of the whole person, mothers will support their waist with their hands to keep the balance of their bodies. After a long time, my waist will be very tired and I feel backache. In addition, although mothers' stomachs are protruding forward, their bodies are still the same, especially their shoulders are still in the original position, and even pulling back a little will lead to shoulder pain.

For example, there will be pregnancy line: In fact, there is a line on everyone's stomach, which is the anatomical midline of the human body. He usually can't see it, mainly because the skin around this line is the same as the abdomen. But for pregnant mothers, with the increase of the number of days of pregnancy, the hormone level and hormone level in the body have changed to some extent, which will lead to the increase of melanin, and the original white abdomen will begin to appear black, which is pregnancy line.

Pregnancy line usually appears in the second or third trimester of pregnancy and gradually disappears after delivery.

For example, there will be long hair on the stomach: in addition, some mothers will find that there is not only a black line on the stomach, but also thick hair around this black line. In fact, this is also caused by changes in hormone levels and hormone levels in pregnant mothers. Like pregnancy line, postpartum will gradually disappear.

In the third trimester, when the baby is older, the health of mothers is even more inconvenient. Besides, there are some other changes that will make mothers feel uncomfortable and tired.

Such as false contraction

In the third trimester, mothers will have different degrees of false contractions. Pseudocontractions are actually just the baby's activities, leading to uterine contractions. Generally speaking, false contractions are not very big, nor very painful, and the duration is short.

Such as pubic separation

In the third trimester, in order to welcome the coming baby to give birth, mothers will take the initiative to secrete a hormone to slowly open the pelvis that was originally put together. Although this process is gradually completed, when the pelvic space becomes larger, pubic separation will cause great pain.

Some mothers are so painful that they can't even eat or sleep.

Such as edema of hands and feet

In the third trimester, as the baby grows up, the uterus will become very large, affecting the smooth blood circulation in the mother's body. After a long time, the pressure difference between inside and outside the blood vessel is different, and water will seep out from the blood vessel wall. The external performance is that the mother's hands and feet begin to swell. You can press a hole with one hand.

After waking up in the morning, or when my mother stands for a long time, edema is easy to appear.

For example, I can't sleep well

Many people suggest that mothers lie on the left side in the third trimester, which is beneficial to the left uterus and blood circulation. However, it is difficult to keep sleeping for one night, and many mothers can't sleep well from the third trimester.

From the above analysis, we can see that, in fact, my mother is very tired during the whole pregnancy. In the third trimester, edema of hands and feet often occurs, and there will be various feelings of pain.

Although it can be relieved by rest or hot towel application, it will be better if dad can help massage. Moreover, it is the only way to promote the relationship between husband and wife for the father to help the mother massage.

After a woman is pregnant, many pregnant mothers will have some mood swings because of the increase in hormone levels. For example, the mind is more sensitive, insecurity increases, and ideological pressure is heavy.

And pregnant women themselves are vulnerable groups. When a pregnant mother takes a bus, strangers know to give up their seats voluntarily. Isn't it natural for your man to help you rub your legs and feet and massage your shoulders?

If a man can't even do this and doesn't know how much he loves his pregnant wife, he can only say that a man like you hasn't done enough.

■ morning sickness reaction: morning sickness in the first trimester, vomiting in the dark. One spit is 1 ~ 2 months, and even a sip of water will spit. I can't eat, drink, and dare not go far, because she can't sit in the car for fear that others will call her melodramatic. Can you imagine the smell of lampblack that makes you want to vomit?

■ Various inspections: various concerns. I will go to the hospital for examination tomorrow, and I will usually suffer from insomnia or have all kinds of strange dreams tonight. Every physical examination is like going through 81 difficulties. It's not because I'm nervous!

■ Both children and children: If you are pregnant with your first child, it doesn't matter if you are a boy or a girl, as long as your baby is healthy; If you are pregnant with a second child, if the first child is a girl, the second child generally wants a male baby. Do you know how many times they say "Bless the Bodhisattva" every day?

■ Various pains: tenderness of breast tissue, swelling and pain of gums, backache, knee pain, edema of limbs, pain of pubic bone separation, labor pains, and even finger and finger pains. You're a man. You don't understand. Impressive!

■ Great ideological pressure: I am afraid of abortion in the first trimester, and I am cautious in everything; In the second trimester, I am afraid that my baby is malnourished and desperately supplements nutrition, completely ignoring my already fat body; Before 37 weeks of pregnancy, I was afraid of premature delivery of the fetus, which was very stressful!

■ Dare to be beautiful, lack of security. From the beginning of pregnancy, women are forced to accept themselves without makeup. Cosmetics, nail polish and lipstick are all insulated. Stretch marks, chloasma, hair that can't be permed or dyed, frequent urination and urgency, and even urine leakage in the third trimester. Do you know all these embarrassments?

Generally speaking, if a pregnant woman has been pestering her husband, it can only be said that this man does not understand this woman who loves him dearly. If a man takes the initiative, do you still need his wife to make a request? A wise man knows to go home early. Rubbing your legs, pinching your feet and massaging your pregnant daughter-in-law. What a good man!

Come on, men! Good luck with your pregnancy!

If your wife likes to make you "toss", then do it. At this time, if you can't do what she asks, her emotions will erupt, and some more unacceptable "tossing" will happen when it erupts. Some of them will be more serious, that is, wondering if you don't love her, which will lead to a series of "tossing" that will make you even more collapsed, such as "I don't listen to your explanation, I don't listen to my explanation, I don't listen to my explanation" and "Why are you doing this to me? I have worked so hard to give birth to your child". It is normal for pregnant women to be upset during pregnancy, and happiness is good for the baby's development.

I want to remind you that even pregnant women's stomachs are not touched casually, and some will have contractions, which is not good for the baby. You can learn how to massage pregnant women's stomachs online. I wish you a happy life and a healthy baby!

Dr. Zou from andrology department

20 18 12/03, the founder of the field of medical health.

If "tossing" is just to let the husband massage and rub his stomach, this is not a problem, and it is also good for the body, so that pregnant women can relax and enhance the relationship between husband and wife.

Pay attention to Dr. Zou @ andrology, and privately believe in andrology consultation.

But if it is another kind of "tossing", such as sexual intercourse, this problem depends on the cycle of pregnant women, such as the first three months of pregnancy, because the fetus is still unstable, so it is strictly forbidden to do homework during sexual intercourse. You can have proper sex after 4 months, but you must pay attention to your posture, don't press your abdomen, and move gently, not too fiercely. Try to avoid sexual life in the third trimester and prohibit sexual intercourse after 36 weeks of pregnancy.

You have a better tossing posture. Welcome to leave a message for discussion.

In my opinion, it is normal for my husband to massage his stomach after pregnancy. Because pregnancy is a very hard thing, pregnant in October, expectant mothers have to experience a lot of discomfort and pain, loss of appetite in the early pregnancy, morning sickness, backache in the middle and late pregnancy, calf cramps, edema and so on.

Pregnancy is not alone. As a prospective father, seeing that his wife is pregnant so hard, he should also take the initiative to help massage and rub his stomach.

First of all, the expectant mother asked her husband to massage her stomach, give her husband enough care and care, and enhance the feelings between husband and wife, so this is not tossing, it is the embodiment of love.

Secondly, after pregnancy, the expectant mother's mood will be more sensitive and unstable due to the increase of hormone levels in the body. The prospective father can help the expectant mother to rub her stomach and massage, which can not only calm her restless mood, but also relieve her discomfort, which is beneficial to the physical and mental health of the expectant mother.

Thirdly, the prospective father can help massage his stomach and communicate with the fetus in the abdomen to promote the growth and development of the fetus.

Of course, during pregnancy, we should also pay attention to the parts and techniques when massaging our stomachs. Some sensitive parts of the body can't be massaged casually, such as stimulating nipples frequently, which is likely to induce contractions, so this action is best not to be done. You can't touch your stomach back and forth. You have to touch it in a certain order, such as from top to bottom or from left to right. Otherwise, the umbilical cord will wrap around the neck.

In addition, expectant mothers should pay attention to another kind of tossing, such as sex. Avoid sexual intercourse as much as possible in the first and third trimesters. You can have proper sexual intercourse in the second trimester, but you should also pay attention to moderation. Be gentle, not too violent, and don't press your stomach.

Pregnancy and childbirth are the most important periods in a woman's life, and men can be said to be spoiled when they treat pregnant women. Eat and drink well every day, and gentlemen should do all the housework.

Some pregnant women often let their husbands rub their stomachs and massage during pregnancy, which is good for their health. On the one hand, it can relax pregnant women, on the other hand, it can enhance the relationship between husband and wife.

But if it is sexual intercourse, it is not recommended. Especially in the first three months and the last three months, because the fetus is unstable in the first three months, it is easy to affect the children if they have sex. The last three months are the high-risk period of pregnancy, and all sexual intercourse is strictly prohibited. After four months of pregnancy, you can have sex. After all, you can relax a little after three months. But the emergency should be mild and must not overwhelm the pregnant woman's abdomen.